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mynat
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 , i actually have bin a real guy i.e. rich, cool educated, sexually active and what most ladies will trully pray to have,but still i caught my wife cheating on me, though i have decided to leave all my belonging for her, take our only daughter and leave the house for her, please what do i do?
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scambater (m)
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Tell us the real story bro, is very hard for a woman who has all of that to step out on a marriage.
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almondjoy (f)
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Tell us the real story bro, is very hard for a woman who has all of that to step out on a marriage.
Not really, boredom lack of a meaningful hobby can make people stray. |
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Seun (m)
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Try to settle it; invite her parents to talk to her. Fighting her will not make you happy; you'll be happier if you can somehow fix your marriage. And don't forget to visit to a doctor for HIV test. Sorry my man.
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ayomifull (f)
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I agree with Scanbater tell us the real and the true story, it hardly happens that a wife with all the luxuries you claim to have will go out of the matrimonial home, looking for what?
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kosiie
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what a pity  i'll advise you forgive her [though difficult], then try settle the issue, its obvious smt is missing in your marriage that she's probably found elsewhere. try save your home rather than walk away rmbr your vows, 4 better 4 worse, till death do us part |
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buttyelele
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2 questions my guy,
1 who did she cheat with and what is the relationship between you and the person.
2 have you ever cheated on her.
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prinstek (m)
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it's unfortunate, some ladies are not contented & they are very greedy. no matter how u u try to satisfy them they will still mess up. (even though your partner lacks certain things, does that mean shld not endure). but my suggestion is that u shld try to forgive her with proper warning & counseling. because is like angel u av known is better than the devil u av not known. moreover, every lady has potential of doing the same thing. therefore, take heart & continue your life don't be distracted.
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jintujinta (m)
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If that is true, sorry brother but packing out is not the solution. Before i attempt giving any solution i want to ask you a question. What about you? Have you ever cheated on her. Be plain. Jesus said to the crowd that brought the woman that was caught in adultery: " Let him cast the first stone, whoever is not guilty of a sin"
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Easybaby (f)
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You don't have to do anything againsince you have left all your belonging to her, took your only daughter and left the house for her 
You have done everything . . .welldone!  
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Lady M
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I dnt believe this story please. Tell us d real stori n stop appraising yourself. Who no like e mama soup?
abegee!!!!
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ThoniaSlim (f)
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@topic
Read through your posts and found out your not worth the pity. as much as am not in support of your wife cheating i still believe you got some fault also. as some people said above, your not telling the full story,
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THO
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Where do u thing u are running to? abi u want to marry an angel? is a pity u did not get a decent person but u is your luck because is not written on the face. Just invite her parents and find out what is wrong wt her. but I still suggest that u tell us the real story.
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Bensogie (m)
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, Law of CAMA. Think back!  u didnt give a detailed information, i mean 'behind the scene'. Dont just tell us what u want us to know, and expect us to condemn the woman for her actions. If u want honest suggestions, then share the Full story.Cos we are a family. My Opinion |
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derasky
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is it because may be she has not caught you in the same act. search yourself very well, can you swear that you have never cheated on this woman before? Anyway, whatsoever happened, if she is repentant of her sin, please forgive her and give her another chance ok! I know it can really be painful.  |
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mrtunde (m)
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I somehow get a sense that either the story is a fabrication, you know something to get a thread going, or there are significant pieces of information missing.
so update your post my guy if you want honest replies!!!
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@tomX (m)
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Tell us the real story bro, is very hard for a woman who has all of that to step out on a marriage.
People may cheat for a variety of reason. Sometimes it could something trivial or something fundamentaly great. It all depends on the mindset of person doing the cheating. Try to settle it; invite her parents to talk to her. Fighting her will not make you happy; you'll be happier if you can somehow fix your marriage. And don't forget to visit to a doctor for HIV test. Sorry my man.
This advice is as good as it gets. Dialogue, forgive, and start on a clean slate with her. Consider leaving only if you still don't get any meaningful result after your dialogue. Whats all that talk about leaving all your property for her. Is that a way of rewarding her and boyfriend for their adultrous laisons? |
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oyinyechi (f)
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No one is perfect. I believe the two of you need 2 sit down and talk. COMMUNICATION is the key.
No matter what her reasons might be try and forgive her, i no it is difficult 2 forget.
The lord will be your strenght.
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ebony4life (f)
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what a pity
i'll advise you forgive her [though difficult], then try settle the issue, its obvious smt is missing in your marriage that she's probably found elsewhere.
try save your home rather than walk away
rmbr your vows, 4 better 4 worse, till death do us part True talk try and forgive her,Be a real guy by mending your marriage. Don't add more to the rate of broken homes we have. Think about your daughter. God will help you. Peace,  |
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ebony4life (f)
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Less I forget,
I recommend a film After the Vow for you.
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samueline (f)
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@ poster, i wonder why you're suddenly acting like a saint. I decided to check your profile before replying to this post and I realised that you're nt a saint either on a number of occassions, u gave your mobile no freely to people especially females promising to have sex with them. I rily wont go into so many details here. I think everyone who has posted a reply here shld look at your profile and read your previous posts on other threads and then determine the kind of person u rily are.
I think there's something you're nt telling us here.
Where not talk things over with your wife since you are not so much of a saint. Get her to apologise, and then you too should do the same and then move on.
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Carlosein (m)
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@ poster, i wonder why you're suddenly acting like a saint. I decided to check your profile before replying to this post and I realised that you're nt a saint either on a number of occassions, u gave your mobile no freely to people especially females promising to have sex with them. I rily wont go into so many details here. I think everyone who has posted a reply here shld look at your profile and read your previous posts on other threads and then determine the kind of person u rily are.
I think there's something you're nt telling us here.
Where not talk things over with your wife since you are not so much of a saint. Get her to apologise, and then you too should do the same and then move on.
well well well. tell us the real gist now bro. that way we can help u. |
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arshy (m)
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@poster
You have taking a decision, so what do u want us to tell you?
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marco74 (m)
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men am amazed at the response from both the guys and the girls;try 2 talk 2 her,and just 4give her??interesting!!if i didn't know,i'd have thought this was a forum in usa or one of the western countries.get real my friends it can and will never be the same again.don't trust her,she will do it again,and the reason she is going 2 give then will be different.i don't condone extra-marital affairs from the man or the woman.my advice would have been the same if a lady was the one asking for it.
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romeo (m)
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just gve me a call and i will put you tru on what to do, i don't really have to see you.But a call will do.08033338914
Cheers.
i tell you same thing happened to me too i met a six footer lady who requested i help her .she is apdded in every angle, and we got to me house she requested to take a shower but guess what? she's really BIG!! , a GIANT being but with a large mess she soon began to scream hello thief of heart : just allow me to say you are hot hit me on 08033338914 and lets talk. its all lies to take waist bead/chain to mean sometin fetish, Please pardon me for this, i once f**kd a big girl waist chain/bead she got pregnant.
its just a fashion trends ladies wearing beads round their waist or guys don't you like them on it?, as for me it TURNS me on when i see on even on a Mad woman (joke).
@Oluyemimi please when next u want to go out without your strap, let the location be my house, simply hit my on 08033338914 and let me hav a feel of what u sell (milk shake)
such a fool you are bro |
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manoy (m)
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Why are u guys bothering yourself.He is brutal lier
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1 Forums / Family / I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? on: Today at 07:10:45 AM
, i actually have bin a real guy i.e. rich, cool educated, sexually active and what most ladies will trully pray to have,but still i caught my wife cheating on me, though i have decided to leave all my belonging for her, take our only daughter and leave the house for her, please what do i do?
2 Forums / Fashion / Re: Going Out Without Wearing A Bra on: October 05, 2007, 07:18 AM
@Oluyemimi please when next u want to go out without your strap, let the location be my house, simply hit my on 08033338914 and let me hav a feel of what u sell (milk shake)
Quote from: chistiana on September 29, 2007, 12:57 PM
There is nothing bad in going out without a bra, depend on the size of breast.
am out there on the street of Lag without bra.
3 Forums / Fashion / Re: Going Out Without Wearing A Bra on: October 05, 2007, 07:12 AM
Quote from: chistiana on October 01, 2007, 08:10 AM
and what happen to that, actually my size no dey 4 market.
so i got no choice lol.
your size dey my house come and get it. from 1 dozen and above, i'll giv it to you.
4 Forums / Fashion / Re: What About Waist Beads? on: October 05, 2007, 06:55 AM
its all lies to take waist bead/chain to mean sometin fetish, Please pardon me for this, i once f**kd a big girl waist chain/bead she got pregnant.
its just a fashion trends ladies wearing beads round their waist or guys don't you like them on it?, as for me it TURNS me on when i see on even on a Mad woman (joke).
5 Forums / Religion / Re: If Churches Are Banks on: October 05, 2007, 06:40 AM
ok! Ok!! Ok!!!, u v all succeded in craking my ribs, because rit now im on my hospital bed seeing to the repairs(by miracle) of my ribs.
Now can someone tell me what CBN will be?,
6 Forums / Health / Re: Exercises To Increase The Penis Size on: October 04, 2007, 01:41 PM
men! try constat sex. trying out regular intercourse increases the tin.
7 Forums / Sexuality / Re: Farting From The Pussy on: October 04, 2007, 01:24 PM
Hi everyone! i can proof this '' ,
8 Forums / Sexuality / Re: Doggy Style Is Definitely For Lower Animals : Read My Story on: October 04, 2007, 01:18 PM
Quote from: otuwe on October 03, 2007, 06:12 PM
sex generally was initiated by animals
maybe u should stop having sex alltogether
that would make u more human
@otuwe : you are simplpy my kind of person, i wonder why people have a one way kind of reasoning.im sure you are glue to doing papa and mama style.
Doing doggy wont make u a dog, because u don't exercise in one pattern but in different ways. think.
9 Forums / Romance / Re: Ever Slept With A Guy And He Just Disappeared? on: October 04, 2007, 12:58 PM
Quote from: londoner on October 01, 2007, 05:36 PM
Have you ever slept with a guy very quickly after meeting him, but as it started to happen you got that sinking feeling in your stomach? You knew it was a mistake, but you did it anyway. And then the thing you KNEW would happen actually happened: He unexplainably disappeared from your life. Honestly, have you ever had this happen? Of course, the worst part wasn't that it happened, but that you KNEW you shouldn't have done it in the first place, but you did it anyway
just want to ask all the ladies in da house
The explanation is that he got what came for, any slight intention of getting into anything serious was quenched by you giving it up so easily. Its a double standard I know, but if your going to have a one night stand be able to bear the consequences. Is he going to take you out and dine you, why? You did it backwards my dear. (no pun intended).
Anyway, its a lesson learned for you and you wont do that in a hurry, if you want a guy to see as you as more than a lay. Take heart, we all make mistakes. I have never been in that situation before.
at first u get confuse then you shine your eyes to up coming events. but girl be careful
10 Forums / Business / Re: What Kind Of Business Will Someone Start With N100,000 In Nigeria? on: October 04, 2007, 07:45 AM
beavers007 : my man lets hook up please, because i think i need to drink from your wealth of knowledge.my nos 08033338914
11 Forums / Family / Re: Want Sex But Husband Says No on: October 03, 2007, 01:46 PM
I will only say CAREFUL! please if you cna call me on this nos 08033338914, because i need to ask you so serious but secret question.
Meanwhile take CARE.
12 Forums / Jobs / Re: Banking Jobs on: October 03, 2007, 01:35 PM
Hi gbegna! HND Accountancy here please help. Thanks
13 Forums / Forum Games / Re: Kill English And Go Free! on: October 03, 2007, 07:14 AM
Waoh! i can't believe seeing people murder english in this manner and way, if all of us should spoke english like this, what will our children spake?, abi what do you think?
14 Forums / Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: I know am hot, Can I meet you? View my Pix on: September 06, 2007, 05:11 PM
hello thief of heart : just allow me to say you are hot hit me on 08033338914 and lets talk.
15 Forums / Autos / Re: People Who Need Cars Betwwen 350 - 500k on: September 06, 2007, 04:36 PM
hi @ Viperman: please can i get your nos for biz discussion mine is 08033338914
16 Forums / Health / Re: Wish I Could Be Slim on: September 06, 2007, 03:28 PM
just gve me a call and i will put you tru on what to do, i don't really have to see you.But a call will do.08033338914
Cheers.
17 Forums / Sexuality / Re: Craziest Sex You've Ever Had on: August 28, 2007, 05:16 PM
i tell you same thing happened to me too i met a six footer lady who requested i help her .she is apdded in every angle, and we got to me house she requested to take a shower but guess what?
she's really BIG!! , a GIANT being but with a large mess she soon began to scream
18 Forums / Jobs / Re: West Coast University, Panama, Nigeria Campus Is Offering Admissions on: August 10, 2007, 08:04 AM
plpease is this real?
19 Forums / Politics / Re: N820m Yar'adua Inauguration-is It Worth It? on: May 22, 2007, 08:55 AM
i cry to, a country where waste is the name of its capital
20 Forums / Jobs / Re: Job Seekers: What Course Did You Study on: May 15, 2007, 06:37 PM
yeah! mine is HND - Acountancy (IMT)
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Mikel X (m)
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This whole thing is a fake and waste of time. Get a life man!
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mellow (m)
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You said you caught her cheating? Is it in a game of Ludo or draft? Please, do let us know where and when she cheated.
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jibolala (m)
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I think is better to keep quiet than just writing because others are doing so.Honestly,there is no evidence that you are married.You are only trying to play on people's intelligence. I demand an apology for wasting my time reading this trend.
Dear All,
I suggest we should change the topic to '' I cheat and lie?:What do I do?''
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omena555 (f)
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having gone through this poster's profile and recent posts, all i can say is that he's just one hell of a rotten guy! rich and cool indeed, when in one of his posts he was actually looking for a job! who even dash this guy wife sef?? he's just bored and trying to get a thread started by all means. very dumb i must say! |
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