Married Couples And Porn

its true that life is tooo tooo short to be too up- tight with, at times you need to lay loose a little,
we have our needs and want they are things we want but don't need, and there are things we need but don't want,

PORNO FLICK = Instructional material

The guy made a stupid mistake. You do not need a porn movie to spice up your marriage. Most guys fail to realise that most wives will not like to be guinea pigs for porn experimentation. And in most porn movies, women are treated like sex instruments, WOULD YOU WANT TO DO SAME TO YOU WIFE?

My advice, men should study their women before going into marriage. You should expect to turn a once-in-a-week-sex lady into an everyday sex partaker!

Some people who know nothing about women will just be spouting all sorts. What makes anyone think that some times women do not want to be treated like a sex object? What makes anyone think it is only men who enjoy porn?

For a fact, a lot of women enjoy when a man talks dirty to them during sex. Let us leave all the posing and be realistic. When it comes to sex, we are all basically animals and animals can be male or female.Pure and simple

@Rottweiller, since you are such a seasoned marraige counsellor, pray tell us what you can and cannot use to spice up a marraige.

This is the 21st century and any one that thinks that sex is a slam, bang, thank you ma'am missionary affair should get his/her head out of the sand.

SOME PEOPLE WHO KNOW NOTHING ABOUT WOMEN WILL JUST BE SPOUTING ALL SORTS.  Jogego, I guess you are referring to people like yourself. We are talking about a man and his wife AND NOT you and what you do to your unlucky female victims. A wife needs to be treated with respect 'because she ain't a sex object. She's the mother of your kids. Someone that was pregnant for nine months and underwent the pains of labour ALONE. And people like you would tag her a sex object. There's a big difference between F**KING and making love. I await some punches,

Posted by: idiot
Other than how long the man is able to maintain an erection, and fake orgasms by the woman, what is the difference between sex in a porn movie and sex in real life?

Also, how are women in porn treated like sex instruments?
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NO COMMENT!  WHY? YOUR POST SOUND IDIOTIC TO ME!

Your user name is IDIOT, right?  Do you know what Rottweilers do to people like you? Just imagine,

If the coat fits you, then you put it on. What I directed at you, you refused to answer, which was since you are an expert, why don't you tell us how to spice up married life?

Since you think that my statement above refers to you, then so be it. And by the way, pray tell me what the difference is between f**king and making love? Since you are the expert might you be so kind dear sir to explain it all to us. I assure you, you have a full class awaiting you.

In any case, if you are such a smooth lover, why is your wife going through labor ALONE? If you love her so much, how come you are not beside her at her moment of need?

The elders say that he who has not seen another man's farm thinks his fathers farm is tha largest farm in the world.By that singular statement you made, you have just shown the whole world how ignorant and unlearned you are. For you to think that every Nigerian outside the country is involved in menial labour just shows the level of mediocrity at which you operate.

I have tried to discuss and argue with you as a civilised, matured human being which obviously you are not and if you decide to resort to gutter levels, I will show you that I was born and bred in Lagos and I can fight dirtier than any half-assed idiot coming out of port harcourt.

If you cannot contribute positively to a discussion, then keep your idiotic mouth shut. If you think that the people you are interacting with here are idiots and should cower at your every word, then think again. You do not necesarily need to open your idiotic mouth to every statement.

If you make statements in an arguement, be prepared to substantiate this with evidence when asked.You are yet to provide answers as to the many ways in which sex life can be improved which you claim to have.

jogego - take it easy, try not to lose ur cool . i understand ur anger - it also annoys me that he think Nigerians in europe are dish washers, how ignorant he is about the achivements of his country men outside our shores.

jogego.- SO U BE LAGOS BOY, , NA WHICH SIDE OF LAGOS U GROW UP, i am not a lagos boy . for i didnt grow up in lagos, but i am a lagos man because ive spent my adulthood in lagos - i be typical apapa man  - and i guess u know what the night life around the apapa area is like  - though i constantly make forays into the vi and ikeja areas when crawling the nights.

Just to confirm what you said: I am unlearned. I am a webmaster with more than 8 years experience working for an oil & gas multinational in the core south south of Nigeria. How unlearned can I be. May be because I am a Rottweiler. Have I got Parvo virus? uuummm, may be?

I could give you my cell number, you could give me a call next month when I would be on training for 2weeks at Learning Tree International, opposite the Euston station.

Who knows, I may be your in-law.

You guys started the insult farting and now you are writing grammar. You be lagos boy, am not just a lagos boy, I am a BARRACK Boy too.

Let's go to other threads, men.

U all: jogego, roteweiller n idiot please do ease up aight. Everyone's entitled 2 his/her own opinion without having to hurt another person or rain abuses!         Now, would someone puleaassee comment on this thread(and other threads) PEACEFULLY, or is the thread closed?

And it's obviously well researched?? Because someone put's in on a website with some fancy sounding titles behind his name? The idiocy of the moral majority 

Most of what is in that article is true. Taking out any religious sentiments, how can one claim to Love his wife and depend on some porn material to get him excited before he makes love to her? Porn is one of the reasons why so many marriages are breaking up today. Of course it's okay to learn from decent videos teaching more on how to make love and improve your sex life with your partner but porn is just too extreme.
 

Evidence?

Assuming that the man is the only one into porn and that porn is only used when the couple is together. I suspect that in most cases porn is just a masturbation facilitator. When both partners in a relationship have slightly different sex drives, porn could also prevent cheating, it all depends on your overall mental health and disposition. Anyway, for people with a repressed sexuality and little real life experience, the fantasy world of porn - could - be damaging, but that has more to do with circumstances outside of porn itself.
And please get my marriage out of this discussion, you know very little about me and shouldn't make any claims about how I feel for my wife, it is highly insulting

And that observation is based on what data exactly?

Appology accepted