My Relationship: I Want Out!

Hi all,
I have been dating this guy for the last couple of months, but there's no love, it's just a struggle. I don't know how to tell him that I'm not interested anymore because he has said again and again to never leave him and he almost begs. He is a nice person, overall, but I just don't feel him. Help!!

love is a choice that require effort;love(feeling) is a product of love(action).discuss your differences with him before wanting out.or are you seeing another guy, just joking

be nice and tell him you don't think it can work.

You don't love him so what's the point? Don't hang on just because you pity him. It won't work. Be sincere and tell him the truth.

Dont lose that boy, I don't know why but i just have a good feeling about that one,  its probably not interesting now because you're not giving it any attention either - u feel it wont work and u want out. Give it a little while and be sure before u take any decisions

I get so worked up over two kinds of people:
[1]Men who beg women never to leave them and [2]Women who say they want to leave a man but don't how or they are confused.

Love is not a battle you fight day and night.If it not there it is not there.No need dragging it.

I am okay with working out a marriage but why do you have to burst your brains and spill your bowels working out a relationship[not marriage,mind you] that is not working and what is so hard about telling the g.u.y you want out ?
Move on if that is what you want. Tell him gently but firmly that it is not working and move on.

G.u.y.s please stop begging women to love you !! It is not manly and once a man starts doing that he loses his self worth.Such people are 'wussies'(losers,weaklings).
 If a girl says she does not want you and has made it clear she does not want you,please move on.

There are some 6.5 billion human beings on planet earth.There is certainly somebody out there for every woman and for every man.
Lets stop this trash about holding on,hanging on,begging on,very confused,suicidal traits and what have you that people cook up when a relationship goes sour.

You are a human being and you have got the power of choice in you.Use it.No body will die,I assure you.

Sorry ,I have been a bit on the harsh side here but I think it is time will learn to live our lives the way God wants and that means,we should not be held in any form of relationship bondage.

It's hard, because he hasn't done anything, I just don't feel the love anymore. If there was a reason, it would be easier to tell him that's its because of xyz, but what makes it so hard is that I don't know how to just tell him out of the blues that I want out. I know I should just tell him, the longer I stay, the harder it becomes, but the question is how do I tell him in the most easy yet least hurtful way?

How ?

I get Barbz's dilemma. She knows that she wants out, and she knows the very nature of the relationship as it is. It's not that easy to just break up with him. There's probably other implications attached to the whole scenario. I don't know the answer to her problem, but her question would be to create a sort of exemplified way of how she can approach and break up with her guy. I know of a different girl who wanted to break up with her guy and when she was just planning to, she got a text from him telling her that he loved her and didn't know what to do. That presents a problem in the way it changes what she's supposed to tell him or the time she is supposed to tell him. Barbz's question is valid. How exactly would she do it?

That is very fine

girl
jst be real
try tell him as cool as possible  _{i understand it kind of hard tho}
the whole point is that you have 2 tell me

good luck
 

Hmmm ,   

Exactly wht I was going to say,

 This is a fcuking ancient topic men, posted in the days of Tafawa Balewa 

Then get out already