I'm Married But Sleeping With A Staff In My Office

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Gentleman,  what you are going through is normal,  people enjoy the danger. Don't mind all these people here pretending otherwise.

What you have to ask yourself is that, is this danger worth your marriage?

If the answer is no, then I would suggest that you should try these thing with your wife, I mean push the boundaries with her, it would breath new life to your marriage and help you stop what you are doing.

think its time people posting topic be recommended for sanity screening.you two are simply MAD.

go check ur wife's cun t,a part is bitten! i did it,because u are an infidel,she keeps running to me always.
spend some time with her please

@ main poster,

Repent! The kingdom of God is at Hand.

naija men and pretence ! you bet most of these guys do worse than this when no one is watching ,

@ poster
Go on go on.

@poster

hmm! hmm!
Personally I wont cast the first stone because i know where i am coming from but like Jesus, i condemn you not but say go and sin no more,  what i see in most of the underlying msg in the reply is (depend on your strenght to bail you out of this predicament but doesnt work)

well in the world allover, i always wonder y get married in the first place if i know i would continue commiting adultery after marriage?

to me i feel many of us have not gotten the full idea of why sex, marriage etc.

first of all, i feel we need to distinguish and call a spade a spade,
sex is good, pre-marital(fornication) /post-marital(adultery) is wrong. that is what i training and learning to believe.
 
secondly, am taking my time to understand marriage, sex(God's context), commitment, communcation etc before commiting to a lady,

so my friend, laws(do/don't do this) will not help but just SIMPLY trust God. because when i was fornicating with a girl, deep within me i know it was wrong but i CHOSE it but gradually trusting God to Stop it and today i have the courage and have since stop fornicating, so i will like wise encourage u that in this situation, SIMPLY TRUST GOD and He will give you the strenght to stop, by flesh shall no man prevail,

With God Nothing is IMPOSSIBLE,

What did you do during your youth,when you where in secondary school,university,youth service.It is so sad that you look so sex starved despite the fact that you are married,i don't think you have a problem,you are just a nusaince and a disgrace to manhood,i just pity your wife and kids,which you sure don't love,because when you would reap,they would also reap with you.FUCKING IMBECILE

@ Poster,
Talk more to your wife, spice up your sex life at home, educate your wife on those things you'll love to see her wear or do, Make sex with your wife good enough not to want to look out and most importantly, ask God for forgiveness, trust in His infinite mercy and grace and resolve in your heart to go and sin no more.

@Besteric

You and the poster are simply sex addicts just like the drug counter part. Listen to your self, u know it's dangerous and unadvisable and yet u can't stop, just like a chain smoker Doctor telling patients not to smoke.
believe me u both need help before u ruin not just your lives but the ones of the people that so much loves u (family).

The poster has owned up and that's the first road to recovery. Don't thnk it's that simple to walk away, not everybody has the strong will to break such a habit because two souls have been tied together.

You need power from above to resist such temptation, and that's the reason why the SON of God was made manifest;to destroy the works of the devil. Jesus will love to help you if only you let him.

@errbody
he without sin cast the first stone

@ poster
don't wait till its too late to withdraw , and that might be tommorow

I think there is something wrong with your marriage and you are using the office girl as a way of escape.Look at your marriage and if it is not redeemable then walk out(though I understand this is easier said than done).I have come to realise that people marry for vaarious reasons other than love and friendship.And there is no formula to how these things work or turn out.

I hope you don't get your fingers burnt at the end of the day.

Good luck.

Nigerians!!!!  Pretenders of the highest orders.
Apart from few here, majority of the posters condemn in totality the action of the first poster.  Does that mean that we all have not done the same thing he claimed he had done?  Has anyone of us ever stay with only one partner in all our lives?  Has any of us never slept with a woman/man before?  Come of it and don't tell me that he is married so, he suppose not to have done that, truth is, those sexcapades that each and everyone of us had done in the past is not different from his own.  90% of male posters here will fall yakata for a woman who give in for sex at any slightest opportunity, while 90% of a female will not say no (albeit relunctantly) to sex from a man even though he is married.
Mark it, I am not saying the first poster is right even though his topic is just for entertainment sake, but we should try and be realistic about topic of this nature.
As far as I am concern, topics of this nature is so senstive and more secretive that each and every one of us have one we guide jealously, but once someone came out to tell his or her own tale, we will voice out our other sides.  This scenarios is not different from pornography matters, where each and every one of us will not mind watching blue movies, but will not mind how much to acquire one, but will never own to supporting it openly. na wah for naija and their life that is full of pretences.
now for my opinion on the topic, like i always say in a case of this nature, don't put such a topic on a public forum of this nature, because you wont get candid advice, tell close friends and associates, or better still, just like you know what you are doing is not good, the only way out of it is, the deed is done already, the earlier you put a stop to it, the better.

Poster! poster!! poster!!!
Why do i find this act ridiculous  ?
  Well i guess it might not be your fault, temptation perhaps. Am a lady i know what ladies are like.
But really it'snt a good thing to start sleeping with your boss/co-worker or the other way round  .
I work and i can't see myself having a relationship or sleeping with my boss or co-worker, its not wise you know  !
If your married i advice you go back and work on your marriage, don't let any beauty make you go astray.
And if your not married, you need a good sex/relationship counsellings. I pray it works for you.

abeg na your life o. Enjoy yourself .But have u and ur partner done open Air 'caning ' in the bush or forest.I suggest it.can you send me the info of ur fellow animal.I guess I am more of an animal than UCarry go My Chairman

Bros i dey feel u.

i understand ur troubles. Don't mind these people that say all manner of things talking as if they r saints.

all am going to tell u is it is not good.

try get over it and stick to ur wife.

please i beg of u.

though its hard but bliv me u ll get over it.

good luck.