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I-man (m)
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Most of these people with their self-righteous indignation are probably guilty of same or will be at some point in their marriage How many men are actually faithful to their wives in Nigeria? I remember Chris Rock once said,"a man is as faithful as his opportunities".Never mind the pretentious women,their own is even worse. 
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bellychiz (f)
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your a very cruel human bein if i may add, since u know your not ready to settle down y did u gt married in the first instance? poor lady u married, after u wil transfa disease to her abi? do u even think of AIDS n oda STDS? God fle from that lady that is makin u to commit adultery she is d real devil herself, den u ask God to forgiv u cus u av sinned against him n man.
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soapdish (f)
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@poster You are simply pathetic, how cold you even come to nairaland to seek for advice. Don't you have respect for the vows you and your wife took at the alter. Anyway, your sins will seek you out, maybe you wife will start paying you in kind or you contract STD that Cd cannot protect you from. I hope you will let us know.
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One Life (f)
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my brother, i want you to know that "no man carries fire in his belly without getting burnt " very soon u will see the result of what u are doing. what is not good is not good. the lady just want to ruin your home. what are u enjoying in her that is not with your wife. even if she is better than your spouse there is a way u can make your wife to be better than her.
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luckia (m)
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Hello guys, i just don't know how to believe this he just said, how can God give you a head fix with brains and you decide to think with yah meat beneath your two legs, oh please, it makes no sense but sense to me, yah, how can you say you regret such action when you still find the pleasure doing it, if i should put bitter leaf in your mouth, definitely i know you face will change shape and styl, you will pour it back on me, but when i give you sugar, you will definitely smile at me and swallow me, or possibly kiss me after the swallow, so if you think the action (SEX) affects you, treat it like the bitterleaf and if not like the sugar you already did. man think and act like a man
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muppet
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heh, wot r u guys all yaking about?stop acting as if u all don't know dt d society we leave in 2day seems 2 condole married men 2 still sleep around(LEAGALIZED ARISTOS,SUGAR DADIES AND WOT HAVE You, ) so because this poor guy decided 2 publicize his own as a post in nairaland,u all then dim it fit 2 start pointing accusing fingers at him u should all better crosscheck urselfs first oo.am sure most of us are all guilty as charged  im nt tryn 2 say d guy is right o, anyway please MR TRY N B PRAYERFUL ,TRY AND CULTIVATE IN2 UR DEARY WIFE WOTEVER IT IS THAT ACTUALLY ACTRACTED You 2 DIS DAMSEL,AVOID D SO CALLED LADY AS FAR AS POSSIBLE OR ELSE You'L DEFINATELY END UP LOOSEN UR DEARY WIFE n your coworker wuld lose nothing because she'l walk away in2 another fools privates  (dt's if she ever wishes 2 get married)
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eiknarf14
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u should be ashamed of yourself man, You've totally lost your dignity and your head, !
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supercunt (m)
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its allowed but don't get caught
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Americas_man (m)
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Some people here are claiming to be saint. That what they fantasied in their bedroom.
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Americas_man (m)
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3 nos Compaq Presario/INTEL Dual Core T2330 (1.6Ghz)/1Gig Ram/120HD/15.4 Widescreen/WLAN/DVD Writer/Window Vista Premium - N119k. Brand new and still in the box. Brought in from the United States. Interest buyer should ring me on 08023207667. Thanks all.
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skyone (m)
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DELIVERANCE! DELIVERANCE! DELIVERANCE!
that's what u need
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jodeci (m)
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i owe you a medal,please do get in touch with me.a dead man with a dead conscience
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bennard
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what goes around must come back so keep it up u have won
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babadee (m)
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what goes around must come back
@poster just picture your gardner banging your wife over and over and over again by the hedge in front of your house or the tool shed, if you're cool with the pic, keep it up then
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onilanre (m)
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Stupid man  Imagine! Okay u don watch too much sex films, u now need practical experience abi? useless thing. If na true, u better open up to your wife because the consequence will be disastrous ok. You are not safe, your wife is not safe even your unborn piki is not safe atall. Next time u do that, your prick is gone
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kaecy5 (m)
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well, take a sample view of the responses u would see different people pointing different fingers
kill him , eat and die, become fat for killing, wicked man, bad woman
we should stop for once and stop pointing fingers at the poster whom already is in a confused state and is asking for help, don't crucify him any longer , simply help him out
one good thing this should teach us is before we get married we should get married to some one we really really love because if he luvs his spouse he wont cheat but if he assumes he luvs his wife, well he is as free as a bird because he would pounce on the next available prey
so before we continue to crucify him let me ask u all, take time and think about your self, if your in the same situation how would u come out of it
am not in support of his acts, but we need solutions not continued accusations
enjoy
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smtprince (m)
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@kaecy5
true yarn my brother.
I would just tell my wife to be bringing lunch for me in the office or to come and see me towards the closing hours , if this can happen for a week or four then the rate of the shagging would reduce and the partner would be pixed and it would not automatically end but atleast its a starting point.
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ochi-aha (m)
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Well, am against your sleeping with your co-staff. Anyway, lets tell ourselves the truth, there is a lot of sexual harrasment going on in workplaces now, although in very subtle form, if the originator of this thread refuses to do, you can trust that the fairer sex members of staff in his place of work, both the hooked and unhooked, will gangup against him and even get some guys who think with their pen.s to join them in maltreating the poor guy Its tail this guy loses and heads he loses also  We need law to protect us all from sexual harrasment 
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Signor Zax
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heY! dudE, thumbs uP! nO MINd dEM JARE. uR LIFE NA YA OWN. lIVE AM AS u LIKE. ALL THESE PEOPLE WEY THEY CLAIM "MORE RIGHTEOUS THAN THOU" THEIR OWN BAD PASS YA OWN.
SOME OF DEM SELF FIT DEY DO AM WITH EIDA THEIR SISTA, BRODA, COZEN, PAPA's WIFE, DAUTA'S HUSBAND, SON'S WIFE AND de commit ALL MANAS OF INCEST. MY GUY FIRE ON AS LONG AS YA CONSCIENCE ALLOW You TO DO THE BOTH OF DEM. EM, EMM, You KNOW YA WIFEY AND THE OMOGE FOR YA OFFICE.
onye ne kwu? talon soro?
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Terminator
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You are not the 1st and wont be the last to get involved in this kind of of despicable act. But like others before you, you may be caught one day. Please don't blame it on the devil. I wish you wife was sharing herself too with some other guy, that would have been fantastic. But guess what she is more honourable and have a lot of respect for you and her family unlike you and wont do such a thing. Go on share it with all you co worker and ladies in your street, at least while buy a single book when you can borrow many in the library. Super Stud. I WISH YOU WELL.
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onyeka_ng (f)
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what a mess! 
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onilanre (m)
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You will soon die. Useless man, afterall u re married or what else are u looking for? what does she ave that your wifey no get. u better repent now!!! idiot dog
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ilugunboy (m)
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@poster,
Pally, don't mind them with all their vituperations, if they have the opportunity, they will do it, especially most of the ladies blowing their mouths away.
My advise is this STOP IT BEFORE IT GETS IN THE WAY OF YOUR MARRIAGE-THINK OF THE EFFECT ON YOUR KIDS
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henryone (m)
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Hello guys i notics that the contrbution is more of ladys guys say sum tin, because 4 your brother need adavice.but bros stop it is bad.
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Chigotex (f)
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It's not about abuses but lets pray for him that God who has given him the instinct to realize that what he doing is bad, should equally give him the grace to get out of the shameful act of immorality.
@poster, remember heaven they say, helps those who help themselves. The pleasure might be for a while but the consequences might be long lasting!!!
He who has ears, let him hear what the spirit is saying!!!
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bashdecash (m)
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is bad the way u guys bounced on this guy; how can he relay his problem to a community like this and what he get in return are BOMBS.
Pally, since u are tired of it, then quit and stop being tempted. IT HAPPENS, NA You TALK UR OWN
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saintchi
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please who ever you are if inded it is real, then know that that is the highest level of unfaithfulness. What you need now is QUIT no matter the treat from her QUIT. More so, if Jesus comes and finds you in that act, where you spend eternity HEAVEN or HEAL decide today before it becomes too late
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stephen2 (m)
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Its not your fault,i know, Guys,i really don't think insulting this fella will change things,the best thing i think we can do for him is just to pray for him,because i strongly believe that there's a spirit controlling him.
PRAY FOR HIM,THATS WHAT HE NEEDS NOW,NOT THE INSULT AND STUFFS
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zeros (m)
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i agree wit smtprnce 2 an extent and also wit odrs(d do as i say not as i do  ) marriage is a complex institution, kastro may v married 4 love 4getting one of the ingredents of marriage - food, companionship and sex. Even the bible recognise that a couples should not deny each odr sex even if it meant doing it anywhere, style, anytime as long as d 2 agree. wot i think kastro shld do is to either groom d wife to have d big appetite like his or cut down to her level. mayb d wife nurses such desires but he has been too scared to try it wit her. On shaggin your co-worker please stop, if u think u can't stop, go ahead and marry her, we africans recognise that and some men of God in the bible and koran. need i quote 
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PurestBoy (m)
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Its not your fault,i know, Guys,i really don't think insulting this fella will change things,the best thing i think we can do for him is just to pray for him,because i strongly believe that there's a spirit controlling him.
PRAY FOR HIM,THATS WHAT HE NEEDS NOW,NOT THE INSULT AND STUFFS
Thanks for your advice but prayer cannot work for a womanizer like him. what he need is maximum beating.
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Tamrat
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@poster Why are you making such a fuss over this issue? It's an everyday thing. I'm not encouraging you though. I think by sharing it wt us,you know what you are doing is wrong and you already know what to do. WHAT You GOTTA DO, DO QUICK.
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almondjoy (f)
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I-man (m) London,UK Posts: 3078
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Re: I'm Married But Sleeping With A Staff In My Office « #64 on: January 18, 2008, 02:03 PM »
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Most of these people with their self-righteous indignation are probably guilty of same or will be at some point in their marriage
How many men are actually faithful to their wives in Nigeria? I remember Chris Rock once said,"a man is as faithful as his opportunities".Never mind the pretentious women,their own is even worse.
Yeah! If they ever do get married in this lifetime.  Nothing like the voice of reality, or should I say actuality! He he he he he he he he! I cannot fit to laugh oh! The things people worry about. @poster If you like sleep with the CEO of your company. It is none of my business. I will not bother you with my escapades either! 
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