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biggozz (m)
The True Qualities For Which To Chose A Spouse.
« on: October 13, 2007, 12:47 AM »

This is open for comment to both sexes,
 
What shoud be a persons genuine reasons to chose a spouse for a life partner?

For me, I think one should chose for compatibility reasons, one who is your friend because beauty and material things fade with time.
Attention (f)
Re: The True Qualities For Which To Chose A Spouse.
« #1 on: October 16, 2007, 12:18 PM »

God fearing, Hardworking, Intelligent, Compatibility and Love.

Outside these ones i mentioned, also please be sure you are contented with him/her as your best choice if placed side by side with anyother man or lady as the case maybe else you would be regretting your choice and wishing you'D have an opportunity to make a change.

Best of luck!
eezzy (f)
Re: The True Qualities For Which To Chose A Spouse.
« #2 on: October 16, 2007, 02:36 PM »

He should be respectful and loving.  I always feel that the super glue for marriage
is Love, Respect and Faithfulness.  If you love your wife/husband you'll respect him/her
and will therefore be faithful to him/her.  If any of these is missing, the marriage will surely
crumble.
almondjoy (f)
Re: The True Qualities For Which To Chose A Spouse.
« #3 on: October 17, 2007, 05:37 PM »

Independence
Confidence
Strong verbal and non verbal communication skills
Hopeless romantic
Educated/Exposed/Sophisticated----wears appropriate sleep wear to bed
Decisive
Good sense of humour
Good lover
Great with kids
Family oriented
Must be a crossword puzzle lover
Like to travel
Domesticated
Well groomed
Good cook
Employed
open minded-not judgemental
Versatility--must be able to blend in different crowds--street smartness/aje butter combination---like me Tongue.


MUST LIVE OUTSIDE NIGERIA!-------very important. Cool
Imani (f)
Re: The True Qualities For Which To Chose A Spouse.
« #4 on: October 17, 2007, 09:29 PM »

Quote from: almondjoy on October 17, 2007, 05:37 PM
Independence
Confidence
Strong verbal and non verbal communication skills
Hopeless romantic
Educated/Exposed/Sophisticated----wears appropriate sleep wear to bed
Decisive
Good sense of humour
Good lover
Great with kids
Family oriented
Must be a crossword puzzle lover
Like to travel
Domesticated
Well groomed
Good cook
Employed
open minded-not judgemental
Versatility--must be able to blend in different crowds--street smartness/aje butter combination---like me Tongue.


MUST LIVE OUTSIDE NIGERIA!-------very important. Cool

Militia/Bebelove/Militiana/Afrodixie/Almondjoy and the many more usernames you would come up with Grin Grin Grin

Na wa for you. On this Nairaland, na you biko. Wink
almondjoy (f)
Re: The True Qualities For Which To Chose A Spouse.
« #5 on: October 18, 2007, 12:54 AM »

Quote from: Imani on October 17, 2007, 09:29 PM
Militia/Bebelove/Militiana/Afrodixie/Almondjoy and the many more usernames you would come up with Grin Grin Grin

Na wa for you. On this Nairaland, na you biko. Wink


Prove it! Cool
Zandra1 (f)
Re: The True Qualities For Which To Chose A Spouse.
« #6 on: October 18, 2007, 08:19 PM »

@almondjoy ure funny. I was in the library with my class when I read your reply (the one above mine) and almost choked with laughter. I was trying so hard not to laugh and my professor kept on giving me a weird look. Someone has accused u before of having all these names and your reply also left me in stiches. If ure indeed those nicknames then u definitely need an award Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin. If I remember, the rest are female but almondjoy is male Grin Grin Grin Grin. Oh, this is very funny.

almondjoy, am not laughing at u but u do have a sense of humor.
presido1 (m)
Re: The True Qualities For Which To Chose A Spouse.
« #7 on: October 18, 2007, 09:25 PM »

Quote from: Zandra1 on October 18, 2007, 08:19 PM
@almondjoy ure funny. I was in the library with my class when I read your reply (the one above mine) and almost choked with laughter. I was trying so hard not to laugh and my professor kept on giving me a weird look. Someone has accused u before of having all these names and your reply also left me in stiches. If ure indeed those nicknames then u definitely need an award Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin.
Another type of 419

Quote from: Zandra1 on October 18, 2007, 08:19 PM
. If I remember, the rest are female but almondjoy is male Grin Grin Grin Grin. Oh, this is very funny.
This is a scam.
Yet s/he needs God fearing wo/man to marry.
Zandra1 (f)
Re: The True Qualities For Which To Chose A Spouse.
« #8 on: October 18, 2007, 09:53 PM »

@presido I don't get u. Besides, u shouldn't take it that serious. I for one think its funny but I guess d/f stuff get people to laugh Grin.
omena555 (f)
Re: The True Qualities For Which To Chose A Spouse.
« #9 on: October 19, 2007, 09:50 AM »

Quote from: almondjoy on October 17, 2007, 05:37 PM
Independence
Confidence
Strong verbal and non verbal communication skills
Hopeless romantic
Educated/Exposed/Sophisticated----wears appropriate sleep wear to bed
Decisive
Good sense of humour
Good lover
Great with kids
Family oriented
Must be a crossword puzzle lover
Like to travel
Domesticated
Well groomed
Good cook
Employed
open minded-not judgemental
Versatility--must be able to blend in different crowds--street smartness/aje butter combination---like me Tongue.


MUST LIVE OUTSIDE NIGERIA!-------very important. Cool


if i may ask, almondjoy, do u yourself possess all these qualities?  Huh Huh Huh
almondjoy (f)
Re: The True Qualities For Which To Chose A Spouse.
« #10 on: October 22, 2007, 09:01 PM »

You be the judge.  I think I do----will not demand them if I did not possess them.  Do you need proof? Cheesy
Islander (f)
Re: The True Qualities For Which To Chose A Spouse.
« #11 on: October 22, 2007, 09:03 PM »

Quote from: omena555 on October 19, 2007, 09:50 AM

if i may ask, almondjoy, do u yourself possess all these qualities? Huh Huh Huh

Yes she does and so much more Grin Grin Grin Grin
almondjoy (f)
Re: The True Qualities For Which To Chose A Spouse.
« #12 on: October 22, 2007, 09:07 PM »

Quote from: Islander on October 22, 2007, 09:03 PM
Yes she does and so much more Grin Grin Grin  Grin


Hello beautiful! Kiss


Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!  Ignorance is bliss! Wink  I am glad you have proof that I "possess" all those qualities and more!  Please tell omena555 please.  Spread the gospel please.
omena555 (f)
Re: The True Qualities For Which To Chose A Spouse.
« #13 on: October 23, 2007, 10:56 AM »

almondjoy, the one u have given the mandate to spread your gospel (indeed) doesnt even know if u are a "he" or a "she".  Undecided so hers is not a good judgement at all! people like u who exppect soooooooooo much from others may not even have it afterall  Grin
simmy (m)
Re: The True Qualities For Which To Chose A Spouse.
« #14 on: October 23, 2007, 11:09 AM »

hmmm.
we don  know if almondjoy is male/female, (tho he sounds very feminie to me) but do u know how mentally disturbing it is to communicate with sm1 u thot was female,  only to find out he s male?,  its almost like uve commited a honmosexual sin!!!!
almondjoy (f)
Re: The True Qualities For Which To Chose A Spouse.
« #15 on: October 23, 2007, 12:28 PM »

Bhwa ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha! Grin Cheesy Grin Cheesy Grin Cheesy Grin Cheesy Grin Cheesy Grin Cheesy

Quote from: omena555 on October 23, 2007, 10:56 AM
almondjoy, the one u have given the mandate to spread your gospel (indeed) doesnt even know if u are a "he" or a "she".  Undecided so hers is not a good judgement at all! people like u who exppect soooooooooo much from others may not even have it afterall   Grin

he he he he he he he he he he! Grin Okaaaaaaaaaay!  I think she understands so do not worry too much about it.  I have all those qualities I assure you.  They are not gender specific as you can see.  Haven't been around much on Nairaland I see?  Do you need proof I ask? Tongue

Quote from: simmy on October 23, 2007, 11:09 AM
hmmm.

we don know if almondjoy is male/female,

(tho he sounds very feminie to me)

but do u know how mentally disturbing it is to communicate with sm1 u thot was female, only to find out he s male?, its almost like uve commited a honmosexual sin!!!!


he he he he he he he he he he he!  You are too cute for words Cheesy Grin Cheesy Grin Cheesy Grin Cheesy Grin  It should not matter at all if the "love" is genuine!

I am sorry you are having a "psycho-sexual" identity crisis on my behalf--just by communicating on a website.  I promise to stay away from your bedroom and bathroom, if it will make you happy. Kiss I really would not like you to be suicidal. Grin--or sleep with a "She-male"! Cheesy Grin Cheesy Grin Cheesy Grin
almondjoy (f)
Re: The True Qualities For Which To Chose A Spouse.
« #16 on: October 23, 2007, 12:35 PM »

Quote from: presido1 on October 18, 2007, 09:25 PM
Another type of 419
This is a scam.
Yet s/he needs God fearing wo/man to marry.


Like you I guess? Kiss  Did you see God-fearing in my list? As you can see I am not and have no use for those!  Actually I prefer Satan-fearing! Cheesy

Quote from: Zandra1 on October 18, 2007, 09:53 PM
@presido I don't get u. Besides, u shouldn't take it that serious. I for one think its funny but I guess d/f stuff get people to laugh Grin.

Please pay him no mind at all Zandra1---he is very lonely!  Can you please ask him for his qualities and see if we can help him out here. Cheesy

Oh BTW-  updating ma list---nothing in skirts or trousers BELOW 29 years old!---don't dig kids for partners!---Preferably 30-45--thanks---no 20 somethings please!!!! Kiss
nwando
Re: The True Qualities For Which To Chose A Spouse.
« #17 on: October 23, 2007, 05:07 PM »

Quote from: almondjoy on October 17, 2007, 05:37 PM
tic
Educated/Exposed/Sophisticated----wears appropriate sleep wear to bed
Must be a crossword puzzle lover
Domesticated
Well groomed
Versatility--must be able to blend in different crowds--street smartness/aje butter combination---like me Tongue.



The highlighted part got me confused.
why crossword puzzle ?
are you grading them for worldliness awareness

and biko which one be appropriate sleepwear? no sleepwear Lips sealed Undecided
nwando
Re: The True Qualities For Which To Chose A Spouse.
« #18 on: October 23, 2007, 05:14 PM »

@ the poster

1.God fearing  if you are God fearing

2.Faithful and reliable.  no wondering eyes

3.Excellent personal hygiene

4.good table manners

5.ability to cordinate clothing and match colors appropriately.

6.Romantic

7.Well educated,if you are.

8.Employed and with good work ethics

9.Intelligent

10.Humorous
debosky (m)
Re: The True Qualities For Which To Chose A Spouse.
« #19 on: October 23, 2007, 05:15 PM »

@ nwandolina

you forgot 'sizable abunna'  Grin Grin
nwando
Re: The True Qualities For Which To Chose A Spouse.
« #20 on: October 23, 2007, 05:49 PM »

Quote from: debosky on October 23, 2007, 05:15 PM
@ nwandolina

you forgot 'sizable abunna' Grin Grin

bad boy debo.
It's not the size of the abunna but the fight in the abunna Grin
even almondjoy can confirm this
debosky (m)
Re: The True Qualities For Which To Chose A Spouse.
« #21 on: October 23, 2007, 05:50 PM »

ok my bad

'aggressive and skilled abunna' then Wink  Tongue
almondjoy (f)
Re: The True Qualities For Which To Chose A Spouse.
« #22 on: October 23, 2007, 09:44 PM »

Quote from: nwando on October 23, 2007, 05:07 PM
The highlighted part got me confused.
why crossword puzzle ?
are you grading them for worldliness awareness

and biko which one be appropriate sleepwear? no sleepwear Lips sealed Undecided

Nwando de Nwando----

Must look like you are going to bed not to the "farm"!  No nudity please unless I have "something" in mind.  It is part of the appeal.  So I have something to look forward to instead of shoving "it" in ma face when I least expect it.  Love P.J.s.  No boxers or T-shirts in ma bed please!


Cross-word puzzles is not a geriatric sport contrary to what most think.  It helps with vocab building and I am a sucker for guys and ladies who spend time building their I.Q.  It is an excellent way to travel around the world without moving an inch!

We are not in you know where please!  There is central air-conditioning and heating! Wink  No need to run around with wrappers on the waist and chest---very nasty!
almondjoy (f)
Re: The True Qualities For Which To Chose A Spouse.
« #23 on: October 23, 2007, 09:46 PM »

Quote from: nwando on October 23, 2007, 05:49 PM
bad boy debo.
It's not the size of the abunna but the fight in the abunna Grin
even almondjoy can confirm this


You get am!  Chaka the Zulu! Grin  Not Pee Wee Herman!
simmy (m)
Re: The True Qualities For Which To Chose A Spouse.
« #24 on: October 26, 2007, 09:10 AM »

almond joy is a f, ing bisexual!!!!
Yikeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeessssssssssssssssss! Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
he/she loves both he s and she s
almondjoy (f)
Re: The True Qualities For Which To Chose A Spouse.
« #25 on: October 26, 2007, 03:07 PM »

Hmmm!


Waka pass je je!
Attention (f)
Re: The True Qualities For Which To Chose A Spouse.
« #26 on: October 29, 2007, 11:17 AM »

A good quality to look out for in a person you'D love to marry:

Look for a person that compliments you i.e. look for a person that has what you are lacking.  if you are short, look for a taller person, if you lack self confidence, look for someone that is self confident.  With this you give what you have and take what the other person has. And also you will feel good knowing you can get his or her assistance in whatever area.

A person that can make you smile when you feel like crying!
Dont marry a person that has a physical attribute or trait that you hate and that can't be changed, else when you're in, you'll feel frustrated and then you can't change it.
omena555 (f)
Re: The True Qualities For Which To Chose A Spouse.
« #27 on: October 30, 2007, 10:08 AM »

* faithful and trustworthy

* very understanding

* romantic

* someone i can learn from

* patient

* God fearing (he must LOVE God with all his heart)

* enlightened

* VERY good personal hygiene

* good sense of humor

* fun to be with

* someone who can take care of me

* most of all, MY FRIEND  Grin
Toke mi (f)
Re: The True Qualities For Which To Chose A Spouse.
« #28 on: October 31, 2007, 11:49 AM »

 1.Must be God fearing.
 
2.Must be caring.

3.Must be Fun to be with,the one that doesn't nag.
 
4.Someone that my own weakness will be his strength vice visa.

5.Must be educated,tribe is not a barrier.

6.A homely man,not the type that keeps late.

7.A future oriented man that will have interest in my goals.

8.Must be faithful , so help me God
kaylala (m)
Re: The True Qualities For Which To Chose A Spouse.
« #29 on: October 31, 2007, 11:53 AM »

wao  Shocked how come i have all these qualities, i am the man Grin
Toke mi (f)
Re: The True Qualities For Which To Chose A Spouse.
« #30 on: October 31, 2007, 12:19 PM »

 1.Must be God fearing.
 
2.Must be caring.

3.Must be Fun to be with,the one that doesn't nag.
 
4.Someone that my own weakness will be his strength vice visa.

5.Must be educated,tribe is not a barrier.

6.A homely man,not the type that keeps late.

7.A future oriented man that will have interest in my goals.

8.Must be my best Friend

9.Must be faithful , so help me God
nwando
Re: The True Qualities For Which To Chose A Spouse.
« #31 on: November 03, 2007, 10:18 PM »

Quote from: kaylala on October 31, 2007, 11:53 AM
wao Shocked how come i have all these qualities, i am the man Grin

Oooh la la!

By the authority vested in me ,I declare you the man.
You may kiss yourself Grin
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