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augustluv (f)
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what are the reasons for delaying sex till marriage?
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yimiton (f)
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It keeps up the respect for both partners.
It gives you something to look forward to on your wedding night.
It gives you a sense of bride that your lady was a maiden on her wedding night.
It breeds trust between you because you know that since she's not doing with you, she's not doing it else where.
You feel closer to God and believe He answers your prayers.
It keeps the lady's head high, just makes her feel cool that she's got something her boyfriend is dying to have and she's "keeping it"
The relationship stays longer because the man can't just walk out after waiting for so long. He's got to reap what he's laboured for.
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Ibisobrown (m)
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Its something that gives the lady kind of respect, and the man feel on top of the world when he is with is friends. Thats exactly how am feeling now.
While fellow Nairalanders this thread is coming from my own HEARTROB, my wife to be, She is a VIRGIN men am really going heels for this girl i love her and will do anything to make her happy. Just want to be with her always. I promise never to disappoint her.
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niceuzor
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Re: Reasons For Delaying Sex Till Marriage? "the word delay sound frustrating" why will one delay Sex till marriage?  for crying out loud we in the 21 century, everything things re changing. @poster can you kindly give me reason for your delay?  |
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MoOdYLaDy (f)
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Damn all these virginity things is getting wack and boring now, who care if you have sex before or after your marriage. Anyway do what makes you happy and stop following these people advice, what i seem to notice on Nairaland is 99.9% people preach something they don't abide too.
I don't even know who these Nairalanders are trying to make an impression on, by acting all innocent when it comes to sexual things, who keeps are shit whether you're a virgin or not, we are all behind computers, so no one is going see you, so plz people stop feeding us with "Am a virgin" crap
I realize you have to be a virgin to get respect from your husband, rubbish, abeg go and get a life jare.
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niceuzor
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MoOdYLaDy - babygirl i feel you jo?> Damn bullshit from this "VIRGIN" of a thing.
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omega25red (m)
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So what if you stay a virgin before you get married what if you get divorced ? you no go marry again because you have sex??
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drrionelli (m)
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I find it interesting that nobody thusfar has mentioned that, by waiting for marriage to engage in sex, BOTH partners are profoundly lessening the likelihood of contracting and spreading a sexually transmitted illness.
I also find it interesting that the responsibility of virginity seems to be put on the woman much more so than the man. I don't understand why that is so, but it seems to be the case.
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rachiwise (f)
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@ drrionelli
u r right jo,if some men don't go about sleeping around and disvirgining virgins ,there'd be more virgins out there.
why can't men be virgins too till there wedding nights???na only woman dey have sex???
to ladies out there keeping their virginity,i say keep up the good work!!!but please if u r keeping ur virginity just for a man(and not GOD),then hmmm,sey ur man too be virgin??
But for the love of GOD and only because of Him(and sexually transmitted diseases)keep up the good work!!!
please,don't keep your virginity for any sex-crazed man(who would have tested and tasted many girls).i wonder if men really worth the trouble??i don't think so!!!
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Busta (f)
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@ drrionelli
to ladies out there keeping their virginity,i say keep up the good work!!!but please if you're keeping your virginity just for a man(and not GOD),then hmmm,sey your man too be virgin??
But for the love of GOD and only because of Him(and sexually transmitted diseases)keep up the good work!!!
please,don't keep your virginity for any sex-crazed man(who would have tested and tasted many girls).i wonder if men really worth the trouble??i don't think so!!!
WORD!! |
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Nihil-ce-M
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This virgin crap is getting too much.
For all the girls who want to remain virgin for their husbands, just be prepared for the worse and the worst.
Nor even think of divorce if things start to go bad because if you leave am, who go marry you?
Shebi una say virginity is a woman's pride? So who go carry woman who nor get pride again?
Foolish people!
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rachiwise (f)
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@Nihil-ce-M Ebi like sey u chop something wey upset ur stomach,abi which kind yan u yan?? y the dissing?? To beefers out there, i pray say people wey dey vex say virgins still dey,make them daughters(and even unborn) lose I'm virginity at the age of 10,abi sebi them talk say catch them young(let them get more years of experience now  ),beefers!!! As for virgins out there and u want to keep it One Love,and for those who wants to lose it (or already has), Cheers!!! |
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Nihil-ce-M
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rachwise
I advise you keep yourself off my way.
You being a virgin is ur damn problem but coming here to brag about it is quite disgusting?
What are u trying to gain?
Do you think the members will respect you more when they know you are virgins?
Or you are just so desperate to find a suitor on line?
If that be the case who cares about ur virginity anyways?
How could you being one improve the lives of those sitting behind the screens?
Grow up people and spend your time in a more useful way!
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rachiwise (f)
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@Nihil ce m i guess u were in my way.dah!!! i never said i was a virgin or not but i am not against one like u are,and if i am or not is my 'damn problem' like u said'.(i really wonder y the beef?) as for the suitors,i have more than enough already,i don't even know how to handle them sef. ;Dso baby boy ,i aint looking for more.(atleast not u ) really i wonder what the beef is about,somebody spoil ya own????talo ba ti e je??abeg. Sucker!!! |
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(fake)david
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the major reason is stupidity.
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MoOdYLaDy (f)
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Do people get paid for been a virgin?  , all these virginity crap are getting old
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rachiwise (f)
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@MODlady Do people get paid for been a virgin? , all these virginity crap are getting old word!! u r right jare,but i really wonder y someone should feel because he/she is no more a virgin therefore everyone should also not be one. i would atleast want my daughters to know more about sex and at least be up to like 18 years (or more  ),before being actively involved in sex and not say they can start early because of the experience(like nihil ce m suggested).abeg!!which kind of experience be that??na for job?? |
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opokonwa (m)
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REASON?  SimpleBecause God says so!Do you have fear of God at all? |
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