Isn't Love At First Sight Infatuation?

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mc_noxious (m)
Isn't Love At First Sight Infatuation?
« on: March 17, 2006, 06:15 PM »

"love at first sight" is a common phrase! A lot of people believe that you can see someone and at the same spot fall in love with that person!  I think you're only attracted to the person, for if you don't see that person in say two weeks you forget how the person even looks!

Love is something you learn like you learn a, b , c and so on! tell me what you think!
Rhodalyn (f)
Re: Isn't Love At First Sight Infatuation?
« #1 on: March 17, 2006, 06:23 PM »

love is a feeling that comes from the heart
mc_noxious (m)
Re: Isn't Love At First Sight Infatuation?
« #2 on: March 17, 2006, 06:29 PM »

love is a feeling that comes from the heart


do u mean love can come from the heart "at first sight"?
Rhodalyn (f)
Re: Isn't Love At First Sight Infatuation?
« #3 on: March 17, 2006, 06:36 PM »

it's possible
whoknoxluv (m)
Re: Isn't Love At First Sight Infatuation?
« #4 on: March 17, 2006, 06:49 PM »

love at first sight . well to me it is possible because it is something that you will continue to develop gradually and before you know it u re in love.
let me ask u there a question without you  having a first attraction can you be in love ?
i need answers to this contact me dadewusi@yahoo.com Smiley
nikinash (f)
Re: Isn't Love At First Sight Infatuation?
« #5 on: March 22, 2006, 12:39 PM »

there will be attraction at firs sight and love may grow from there
glodave (f)
Re: Isn't Love At First Sight Infatuation?
« #6 on: March 22, 2006, 12:45 PM »

love is a feeling that comes for the heart! when u'r in love, u don't need to be told, u'll feel it like  Shocked Shocked
typical
Re: Isn't Love At First Sight Infatuation?
« #7 on: February 12, 2007, 05:02 PM »

At first sight could be the love of God but not love the way you mean it.

That's mostly infatuation and love of the physical body. It's very common these days and that's why our relationships don't last again
RuuDie (m)
Re: Isn't Love At First Sight Infatuation?
« #8 on: February 13, 2007, 10:53 AM »

well ,  a couple of years back & i'D have said what rubbish; but now i believe, really do believe that there's such a thing as love @1st sight 'because i've been a victim and even though i never had the chance to xpress my feelings, never got the opportunity to share even a single special moment with that girl , 

but  4 years and countin, the image of her face still holds my heart like a vise ,  the memory of her presence still looms large over my horizon like tenses in present form ,  Thoughts have her have become as much of a feature of my day as words ,

now tell me,  if after 4yrs and still countin, i'm still as passionate, 'bout someone i'm probably never ever going to see again in my lifetime, as i know i am; is it infatuation or is it lust? tell me ,
Stilettos (f)
Re: Isn't Love At First Sight Infatuation?
« #9 on: February 13, 2007, 11:01 AM »

yeah it is infatuation , I have had plenty of those Grin
ATLANTA96 (m)
Re: Isn't Love At First Sight Infatuation?
« #10 on: May 27, 2007, 07:22 PM »

mostly yes, but some times is not,
things happen,  Shocked Tongue
smile007
Re: Isn't Love At First Sight Infatuation?
« #11 on: May 27, 2007, 07:35 PM »

Probably yes  Grin
nuzo (m)
Re: Isn't Love At First Sight Infatuation?
« #12 on: June 04, 2007, 07:39 AM »

I met a girl last year in a biirthday party, we spoke a couple of times on the phone before we lost contact. But i still have this strong feeling for her that ive not had for anyother woman. Unlike me, the thought of having sex with her didnt come to my mind.
So, i think love at first sight really works. because for me, there is no way i can develop love for somebody i don't love at first sight. I tried it before, and it was a waste of time.
2dye4 (m)
Re: Isn't Love At First Sight Infatuation?
« #13 on: June 04, 2007, 08:07 AM »

love @ first sight a.k.a "the flesh"

for me i believe its a physical attraction and if genuinely pursued can blossom into love. shikena!
 
Bassey231 (m)
Re: Isn't Love At First Sight Infatuation?
« #14 on: June 04, 2007, 06:10 PM »

Love at first sight?Men this thing no dey exist ooohhhh!Attracted at fisrt sight,yes.Infatuated at first sight,very common.Stunned at first sight,ok.But love at first sight?Naaaah.Love is like a seed,it has to be planted and nurtured before it blossoms and this process takes time.Maybe that phrase should be expressed as a clause Wink like em,em,em,let's see.Ok,"knew at first sight that I would fall in love", how's that?
iykstein (m)
Re: Isn't Love At First Sight Infatuation?
« #15 on: June 05, 2007, 10:44 AM »

" Love @ 1st site " really do exist,
the fact that some people have not experienced it doesn't mean it don't exist,
2dye4 (m)
Re: Isn't Love At First Sight Infatuation?
« #16 on: June 05, 2007, 11:51 AM »

Quote from: iykstein on June 05, 2007, 10:44 AM
" Love @ 1st site " really do exist,
the fact that some people have not experienced it doesn't mean it don't exist,

love does not emanate from sight, but from the heart.
Bosdem (f)
Re: Isn't Love At First Sight Infatuation?
« #17 on: November 16, 2007, 09:55 AM »

For me, it's infatuation, love is a gradual thing, you don't come across someone on the street and fall in LOVE at a mere sight, I think it's infatuation and not love.
Aiphie (f)
Re: Isn't Love At First Sight Infatuation?
« #18 on: November 16, 2007, 12:35 PM »

Quote from: 2dye4 on June 04, 2007, 08:07 AM

for me i believe its a physical attraction and if genuinely pursued can blossom into love. shikena!
 

You spoke the word.

At first sight, all there can really be is an attraction. Da true love, da real thing, comes with time. Cool
akeye (f)
Re: Isn't Love At First Sight Infatuation?
« #19 on: November 16, 2007, 03:38 PM »

i don't believe in love at first sight.
Elgaxton (m)
Re: Isn't Love At First Sight Infatuation?
« #20 on: March 10, 2008, 08:01 PM »

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Love at first sight?Men this thing no dey exist ooohhhh!Attracted at fisrt sight,yes.Infatuated at first sight,very common.Stunned at first sight,ok.But love at first sight?Naaaah.Love is like a seed,it has to be planted and nurtured before it blossoms and this process takes time.Maybe that phrase should be expressed as a clause Wink like em,em,em,let's see.Ok,"knew at first sight that I would fall in love", how's that?

Big Thumbs up for ur post bro.
ariblaze (m)
Re: Isn't Love At First Sight Infatuation?
« #21 on: March 10, 2008, 08:21 PM »

i believe love at first sight exists
adeboo (f)
Re: Isn't Love At First Sight Infatuation?
« #22 on: March 10, 2008, 08:43 PM »

I feel that when u see the person, initial attraction begins - then that is what leads to love cause am sure u have to be attracted first before it turns to love abi?
stillwater (f)
Re: Isn't Love At First Sight Infatuation?
« #23 on: March 10, 2008, 08:53 PM »

I think that phrase should be changed to infatuation at first sight.
adeboo (f)
Re: Isn't Love At First Sight Infatuation?
« #24 on: March 10, 2008, 08:55 PM »

Quote from: stillwater on March 10, 2008, 08:53 PM
I think that phrase should be changed to infatuation at first sight.

Or even attraction at first sight.
Scarlett (f)
Re: Isn't Love At First Sight Infatuation?
« #25 on: March 10, 2008, 09:17 PM »

There can never be love at first sight, it is naturally and technically impossible
morenike09 (f)
Re: Isn't Love At First Sight Infatuation?
« #26 on: March 10, 2008, 09:20 PM »

Love at first sight? hmmmnot in for it. i believe love progresses on its own and takes time. Sure love can hit you anytime, but it takes time for you to recognize it and to make sure its real love, not  just contemporary love or love of the moment.
ifyalways (f)
Re: Isn't Love At First Sight Infatuation?
« #27 on: March 10, 2008, 10:11 PM »

i think its attraction at first sight,maybe love might come up later  Undecided
TOYOSI20 (f)
Re: Isn't Love At First Sight Infatuation?
« #28 on: March 10, 2008, 10:52 PM »

@ Post

Nothing like that, has and ever will exist.  Embarrassed
morenike09 (f)
Re: Isn't Love At First Sight Infatuation?
« #29 on: March 11, 2008, 06:14 AM »

Quote from: ifyalways on March 10, 2008, 10:11 PM
i think its attraction at first sight,maybe love might come up later  Undecided
quick summarization of what i said  Grin
easybaby. (f)
Re: Isn't Love At First Sight Infatuation?
« #30 on: March 11, 2008, 06:55 AM »

Yes i believe lost at first sight Cool
as far there is dough Kiss Kiss
Elgaxton (m)
Re: Isn't Love At First Sight Infatuation?
« #31 on: March 11, 2008, 10:41 AM »

Love at first sight is more of Lust than love itself.

U see a pretty lady or Handsome guy, u start feeling some kind of nasty sensation / chemistry (even from afar).


You meet the person and u guys just gel well. Next thing, sex until una tire and the whole so-called love disappears because there was never a foundation for ya love.

Love involves a lot of discipline Jare.
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