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doncaster (m)
Marriage By Introduction
« on: October 16, 2007, 09:13 PM »

Hi peeps i was introduced to a gyl by a good friend and the basis of the intro is for Marriage and the gyl herself knw about it as i do.
So guys we have been keeping intouch ever since then although we are not in the same country but she visit and i visit her as well.
My question now is do i need to ask her will u marry me.
Please candid advice will be appreciated.
finekid (m)
Re: Marriage By Introduction
« #1 on: October 17, 2007, 06:09 AM »

Well my brother you still need to ask wo Grin
almondjoy (f)
Re: Marriage By Introduction
« #2 on: October 17, 2007, 04:21 PM »

Quote from: doncaster on October 16, 2007, 09:13 PM
Hi peeps i was introduced to a gyl by a good friend and the basis of the intro is for Marriage and the gyl herself knw about it as i do.
So guys we have been keeping intouch ever since then although we are not in the same country but she visit and i visit her as well.
My question now is do i need to ask her will u marry me.
Please candid advice will be appreciated.

Quite tricky!  You have a 50% chance of success.  You have too options.  Be optimistic or be pessimistic.  You already answered your own question.  You were introduced on the "basis of Marriage" and both parties are aware.   I know a couple who did that between UK and USA and are still married today with 3 kids.  Not that it has been easy--but like anyother relationship, you have to work on it. 

Mt take--go for it if you care for the gyl--if it feels 50% right and you like what you see.  You can work on the rest.  Afterall, you have "visited" and she has "visited". If you feel you have all the time in the world and you have doubts, then keep searching then.  Goodluck! Kiss
Ojurere (m)
Re: Marriage By Introduction
« #3 on: October 18, 2007, 02:47 PM »

wow, what can i say? Marriage by Introduction/ correspondence. Can we find out what the Bible said about man finding the woman? Even if you were introduced on the basis of marriage,  you still MUST ask her to marry you because at time assumption is the mother of frustration. My guy you have to ask her to MARRY you, if only all you wnat in a woman is found in her.

Above all this ask God to allow his WILL be done.
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