I Showed Her Too Much Love, Is It Wrong?

i have been dating my girl for 8 months, and anytime we are together, i always tell her aw much i love her and that i can't imagine life without her and all sort of things going through my mind. The i realised after telling her all these, she doesn't call me or send me a text, knowing fully well that i will surely call her (which i always do) she doesn't return my calls and some other things. But am concerned ,does she still loves me?. I need your advise, i don't want to be with a girl that doesn't love me and will later leave me   because i might kill "myself"

@busygirl
 I am planning on telling her tonight. But what should i say? and aw?

A woman is like a Shadow,  and a man is like an Arrow!
A woman is like a Shadow,  and a man is like an Arrow!

NEVER LET THE WOMAN KNOW HOW MUCH YOU LOVE
CAUSE THERE WONT BE NO PEACE IN YOUR LIFE
NEVER LET THE WOMAN KNOW HOW MUCH YOU CARE
CAUSE THEY WILL DO THINGS TO HURT YOU! AND ITS NO JOKE ABOUT IT!

@savesoul
your babe is just being carried away by ur love thinking that u cannot  break her heart since u have  bet ur life in the relashionship,. it happens at both side. i will just advice u to call her and tell her ur feeling may be she does not understand  that love and care should b share by both parties.good luck

@anney
don't u feel i will look like a Jackass telling her?

@savesoul

Sometimes was it right looks stupid and unthinkinkable but i think its the best way to get things going and done. I mean, aint it better to look like a fool than killing yourself emotionally??

Think about it.

I n z e

A woman is like your shadow - follow her, she flies; fly from her, she follows,


No matter how you look at it,  this is true.  This has nothing to do with being heartless, 

I am simply telling the brother,  if he wants this woman to truly love him the way he loves her,  he must not tell her or show her how much he loves her because he will end up chasing her all his life.   Do what he can for her, take care of her and love her,  but never let her know how much because she will take his kindness for weakness.

@ savesoul

i'd rather suggest u don't tell her anything. just change ur loverboy attitude whenever she's around you, thats all. and yea, you'll look like a Jackass telling her all that, don't let anyone tell u otherwise. u know it in your heart that its true.

just keep ur feelings to yourself whenever she shows up, remain pleasantly aloof but not distant. tease her and crack jokes at her expense often (not expensive ones o!) and lastly, don't call her to often man, resist the damn urge!! and no flashes too!


and before anybody chews my ass off, yes u can send her romantic texts once in a 'red moon' and call to say 'wazap!' (no pouring out ur heart now!)

that should do the trick!

@magneto
that is the trick, truly it works.


Same for guys too--that's just the way it is

@poster
Do the things she does to u, & see if she won't start doing the things u used to do _{who said life was fair}

i have read what most of the folks wrote here and they are partly right
I think you came on too strong like you were desperate for love. When you come on strong like professing your love all the time that scares both men and women away most especially if the person is just dating and you are talking about how you don't know what you would do if she ever left you. you even wrote that you might kill your self honestly you sound like a psycho i would run too. how old is the girl she is probably still young and is still non commital.

summary: you seem like a needy psycho who comes on too strong and i wouldn't tell someone that i would kill myself if they left me gosh that's scary I'm probably not coming back to this post because I'm scared to read your suicide note

holla

Seun ure so right. I don't see the reason y u wont tell or show someone how much u love them. It's even better u tell and show them how much u love them before someone else does that job for u. Everyone wants to be wanted so if u pretend or don't show it as ure supposed to then am sorry for u.

@poster, if u show a guy/girl too much love and they don't respond, its not because u love them too much( u can never love a person too much) but because they don't care for u ie unrequited love. This means that she's not the one that deserves that love rather someone else that can love u back deserves it.

Can any one be specific in what i should tell her?
Please help a brother 

funny thread and post replies.
. . . And I laughed. . .  out. . . loud!

I need a Girl. I need I Girl a would Love Excessively. I Need A Girl Soon Or Else, 


Id Keep Writing M**ware.

Anyway, jokes apart I need a Girl a Good One. I'm tired of my Hermit Life. I swear I am.

This is true because the relationship that just ended now for me was because i showed her too much love.
I should have concealed it a bit.
Now i know berra.

@Poster
same stories with me. Since i stopped the relationshp, ive been feeling like a burden just got lifted off my shoulders
Be brave, i know it aint easy. But ask yourself, what do you want in a woman, you want to be loved in return same magnitude you love her shey?
then if its not like that, it wont work. You will cry for few months, but i bet it, 3 months, you are back on your feet strong.
Time heals you know. My advice, talk to her and if no improvement, call it quits and move on