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Question: Should you jilt him before he jilts you?
Yes,he would do it anyway - 29 (46%)
No,i will watch and pray - 13 (20.6%)
Maybe,not sure - 21 (33.3%)
Total Votes: 63

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bovo (m)
Re: Jilt Him Before He Jilts You
« #96 on: October 23, 2007, 06:50 PM »

HELLO ALL, Grin  I do not agree with the idea of JILTING HIM BEFORE HE JITS YOU, if your partner starts behaving differently , why don't you just let him know, i bet you he'll repent or better still let you know you've done something wrong,  believe me, jilting never works because you'll always get jealous when you see your ex-partner with another BABE Wink  But on the other hand, if he JUST JILTED YOU, and he once REALLY LOVED YOU he'll be the one with GUILT,


@kooldamsel "The real pain i believe,is the pain of rejection,the pain of giving your all and having it thrown in your face.Why wait for that?"
maybe you have'nt met the right guy, keep searching and quit jilting
you really need to know how good it feels to have never JILTED in your life Grin Grin Grin Grin
bovo (m)
Re: Jilt Him Before He Jilts You
« #97 on: October 23, 2007, 06:55 PM »

HELLO ALL, Grin  I do not agree with the idea of JILTING HIM BEFORE HE JITS YOU, if your partner starts behaving differently , why don't you just let him know, i bet you he'll repent or better still let you know you've done something wrong,  believe me, jilting never works because you'll always get jealous when you see your ex-partner with another BABE Wink  But on the other hand, if he JUST JILTED YOU, and he once REALLY LOVED YOU he'll be the one with GUILT,


@kooldamsel "The real pain i believe,is the pain of rejection,the pain of giving your all and having it thrown in your face.Why wait for that?"
maybe you have'nt met the right guy, keep searching and quit jilting
you really need to know how good it feels to have never JILTED in your life Grin Grin Grin Grin
kooldamsel (f)
Re: Jilt Him Before He Jilts You
« #98 on: October 23, 2007, 09:35 PM »

@bovo
Who are you to talk bout love.Ok here is a question for you,what would you do if you found out your bestfriend is trying to date your friend an d also while they chat he sends a portion of their conversation that suits him to your mail box just to spite you(because he is jealous) but u just can't see it.Here is my opinion,he is an evil,twisted,two-faced bastard,and a backstabber too.Sure,you would agree.Please dnt post on my thread again.
bovo (m)
Re: Jilt Him Before He Jilts You
« #99 on: October 24, 2007, 01:35 PM »

Quote from: kooldamsel on October 23, 2007, 09:35 PM
@bovo
Who are you to talk bout love.Ok here is a question for you,what would you do if you found out your bestfriend is trying to date your friend an d also while they chat he sends a portion of their conversation that suits him to your mail box just to spite you(because he is jealous) but u just can't see it.Here is my opinion,he is an evil,twisted,two-faced bastard,and a backstabber too.Sure,you would agree.Please dnt post on my thread again.

Guess you've said it all, and if you don't mind he's not my friend,  He's just a SNITCH!
bovo (m)
Re: Jilt Him Before He Jilts You
« #100 on: October 24, 2007, 01:55 PM »

Of course, I know nothing about LOVE but and i bet you are the one that knows all, 
well, things would be going well with me and my Ex-girlfriend if it were'nt for you and my So-called best friend who'm you also turned against me,
I really saw you as beautifull and smart, but now you turn out insultive and Dumb Angry Angry Angry
and as for my "best friend" Angry Angry tell him he's a BIG TYM SNITCH
kooldamsel (f)
Re: Jilt Him Before He Jilts You
« #101 on: October 24, 2007, 06:35 PM »

@bovo
You are shameless,tope was never your girlfriend.She was everybody"s girlfriend by the way you know she still wants my bro n she ditched you big time because of other guys not me.Guess this topic applies to you.You,bamiyo n tope have issues that doesnt concern me.You are shameless. Grin
Mystique (f)
Re: Jilt Him Before He Jilts You
« #102 on: October 25, 2007, 01:34 PM »

Why is this getting personal. . . ?? Undecided Undecided
ifyalways (f)
Re: Jilt Him Before He Jilts You
« #103 on: October 25, 2007, 02:10 PM »

Quote from: kooldamsel on October 24, 2007, 06:35 PM
@bovo
You are shameless,tope was never your girlfriend.She was everybody"s girlfriend by the way you know she still wants my bro n she ditched you big time because of other guys not me.Guess this topic applies to you.You,bamiyo n tope have issues that doesnt concern me.You are shameless. Grin
washing of stinking dirty linens in Niaraland.
hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha Tongue
you guys are getting toooooooooooooooo personal please.
go settle your differences in private please.
live on
Re: Jilt Him Before He Jilts You
« #104 on: October 25, 2007, 03:47 PM »

I believe true love exist and also in letting go, if he's no more intrested and you realised the bright colour of love in him is fading, although it's painful , but better you deny yourself and control real feeling for wrong guy  .I can't advice  to jilt but respect youself by letting him go, because i so much believe in SELF RESPECT.
ifyalways (f)
Re: Jilt Him Before He Jilts You
« #105 on: October 25, 2007, 04:02 PM »

live on wellcome to nairaland jare although no one wellcomed me.enjoy the ride my sister abi na bros sef
Bblak (f)
Re: Jilt Him Before He Jilts You
« #106 on: October 25, 2007, 05:21 PM »

peeps in

@kooldamsel
i feel u.ride on dear

@ifyalways
u're highly welcome
ifyalways (f)
Re: Jilt Him Before He Jilts You
« #107 on: October 25, 2007, 05:30 PM »

Bblack i don wellcome myself since.anyway thanks but i for prefer you wellcome me with open arms, embrace your sister common Tongue Tongue my arms are still waiting for the embrace.be fast about it before niceuzor comes to do that. Grin Grin Tongue
dapsins69 (m)
Re: Jilt Him Before He Jilts You
« #108 on: October 25, 2007, 07:24 PM »

its always better to be the one doing the jilting,


its best when u jilt her without her knowing, thats jilting her and making her believe she did the jilting,

know what i mean,  Wink Wink Wink Wink Wink
peachie 1 (f)
Re: Jilt Him Before He Jilts You
« #109 on: October 25, 2007, 09:59 PM »

jilted or not jiltes i was jilted and feel really angry yet sad,i was talking with a man for 3 months onthe internet and we hit it off great,he was to come to the usa and live here.the other ady he neede 75dallers in american money for a visa lottery .i didnlt have it as i;m a single mom just surviving,today is the first day not a thing he has said to me ,i feelduped and my heart is broke,what do you all think.
ifyalways (f)
Re: Jilt Him Before He Jilts You
« #110 on: October 25, 2007, 10:39 PM »

Quote from: peachie 1 on October 25, 2007, 09:59 PM
jilted or not jiltes i was jilted and feel really angry yet sad,i was talking with a man for 3 months onthe internet and we hit it off great,he was to come to the usa and live here.the other ady he neede 75dallers in american money for a visa lottery .i didnlt have it as i;m a single mom just surviving,today is the first day not a thing he has said to me ,i feelduped and my heart is broke,what do you all think.
dear sister in this present world?how can you beleive and fall for such craps.dear me to avoid worst ones in future never take in every thing you read or everone you meet on net.haba,yes we might all talk,get attcahed to someone whilist on the net but please don't give room for love unless you meet phsically and mind you the meeting should not be on one persons account too.take heart dear.BETTER DAYS AHEAD §lol
kooldamsel (f)
Re: Jilt Him Before He Jilts You
« #111 on: October 28, 2007, 08:42 PM »

Sorry guys for getting to personal.The guy is fool of bullshiznitz and can be a good specimen for us to experiment on in terms of the topic at hand
@Bblak
Thanx girl
@ify
Sorry o jare.You welcome
@peachie
Hey ya.Sorry girlie.
@dapsin
You re mean
ifyalways (f)
Re: Jilt Him Before He Jilts You
« #112 on: October 29, 2007, 01:43 PM »

thanks kooldamsel.you really are KOOL.have fun dearie Tongue
rockiedink (m)
Re: Jilt Him Before He Jilts You
« #113 on: October 30, 2007, 10:25 AM »

", they say two wrongs don't make a right, " remember the words of that popular song by Wyclef Jean? If he's acting funny, you wouldn't be a saint by jilting him now would you? i still believe any relationship can work if you make a go at it. afterall, you guys had something going which is why you started the relationship in the first place!!! i still believe it better to talk about it than take arbitrary decisions,
segunbukky
Re: Jilt Him Before He Jilts You
« #114 on: October 31, 2007, 02:00 PM »

KOOLDAMSEL, i think your advice is a little harsh, do you av a boyfriend?the fact is that not all guys are the same and some guys might act weird and still be in love with you without you knowing it, Ladies, if you guys start to act funny,try asking them questions and settling things,not jumping into conclusions that you might eventually be dumped, two wrongs don't make no right, you can decide to dump your guy ONLY if things get real worse, i mean WORSE,
akeye (f)
Re: Jilt Him Before He Jilts You
« #115 on: October 31, 2007, 03:25 PM »

@segunbukky
y must a guy act weird and still be in love doesnt he know what love is?
and y shuld ladies be d ones to sit a guy down to talk to him when he's behaving funny are the guys not suppose to be da head of d game?
babes i think d rite tin is to jilt him before he jilts u because if u allow him do it before u,u'ld be on his list of use and dump.
so babes shyne your eyes Shocked
kooldamsel (f)
Re: Jilt Him Before He Jilts You
« #116 on: October 31, 2007, 07:28 PM »

@segun
You re only saying that because ure a guy.
@akeye
Preach the gospel sis.Its time to end such things.Use and dump,what nonsense.Infact some guys dnt deserve pity.
janami (f)
Re: Jilt Him Before He Jilts You
« #117 on: November 02, 2007, 10:08 PM »

i thot one wasnt supposed to tk things too personally on d forum. kooldamsel and bovo please  behave urselves
bowa (m)
Re: Jilt Him Before He Jilts You
« #118 on: November 03, 2007, 01:05 PM »

hi kooldamsel,you are cute so i see no reason why a guy should make an attempt to jilt u.well attitude in relationship is very essential u know,have you eva sat down to ask youself questions like,am i doing the right thing to make the relationshio work?it's not about u meeting the right partner,but it's about u been the right partner,then u'll influence your man.goodluck Cool
kooldamsel (f)
Re: Jilt Him Before He Jilts You
« #119 on: November 03, 2007, 01:43 PM »

@janami
Ive apologised already.Ok im sorryyyyyyyyyy Grin Grin
@Bowa
Thanx for the compliment.
chaloo (m)
Re: Jilt Him Before He Jilts You
« #120 on: November 03, 2007, 01:54 PM »

Kooldamsel

what kind of love is that which you could finish whenever you want. i would want to know the reasons why my partner is not happy , try to resolve the differences.

May be you guys are taking about not love. 
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