Am I Realy A Fair Weather Friend

I VE A VERY CLOSE, DEAR AND GOOD FRIEND WHO HAS ALWAYS BEEN THERE 4 ME WHEN AM EMOTIONALLY OR fINACIALLY DOWN.
                                         (SHE ASISTED ME IN GETTING THE PLACE I WORK PRESENTLY)
SHE WAS SICK LAST WEEK ,I HAD EVERY INTENSION TO CHECK UP ON HER OR CALL BUT SKIPPED  MY MIND SINCE I HAD ALOT OF
RUNNING AROUND TO DO.  MOREOVER! DIDN'T KNOW HER ILLNESS WAS SERIOUS.
WHEN WE FINALLY SAW, MY DEAR FRIEND KEPT AWAY from ME 4 THREE DAYS, WHEN I FINALLY SURMONED COURAGE 2 APPROACH HER,
SHE SAID SO MANY UNFRIENDLY WORDS 2 ME. SHE CALLED ME A FAIR WEATHER FRIEND, ONLY THERE 2 COLLECT AND ONE WHO IS ONLY THERE WHEN THE GOING IS GOOD.
                                                             {I FEEL SHES TAKING IT TOO PERSONAL}
I WAS REALY HURT because I KNOW AM NOT ALL SHE THINKS I AM! I RESPECT AND APPRECIATE HER BIG TIME. I HAD 2 INVOLVE A MALE FRIEND OF MINE
2 HELP ME TALK 2 HER AND APOLOGIED ON MY BEHALF. YET SHE SEEM 2 BE DISTANT WHICH IS GETTING ME REALY WORRIED AND MAKING ME FEEL
LIKE AN UNGREATFUL OPPORTUNIST

I understand that she was mad at you. What I don't understand is why she should call you such names especially an opportunist. Does she want to be paid for all the times she was there for you or what?
What else were you suppose do after the apology, lick the grounds or what?
In my own openion, a lot of people ask for too much when they've helped people out at one time or the other, must we always become demanding and ask to be paid back?

Your friend had every right to be mad at you but none to call you names or ask for a pound of flesh in payment for a cup of water.