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Ibisobrown (m)
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Hello Friends,
I have been in a relationship for 2-3months now, with the love of my life and have not taken her to my place though we do meet at where i work (cyber-cafe), I love this God sent Angel with all my heart, She is just too precious for me to trade with, She has sometime wanted to visit me. but i have one way or the other postponed it because she is just too hot and do not want to deflower her, just trying to control myself.
Anyway to cut the long story short she finally paid me a visit, so after much chatting and since i do not want to deflower her i only ask her to do sometime, since it was only the two of us in the room but she refused and told me that she can`t and will not do it.
I only ask her to take off her shikt and undes only and put them back. just want to know if this is too hard for a girlfriend to do for his boyfriend on their first day? Is it too much to ask from your girlfriend?
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davidylan (m)
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it is not too hard but is certainly not too smart of you. Is your interest in her limited to what is under her skirt?
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Ibisobrown (m)
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@Davidylan
But i have no intention of making love to her, and it was not because of what was under her shikt but to take a good look at my Angel.
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davidylan (m)
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so you can't take a good look at ur "angel" with her clothes on?  |
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ThoniaSlim (f)
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Hello Friends,
I have been in a relationship for 2-3months now, with the love of my life and have not taken her to my place though we do meet at where i work (cybercafe), I love this God sent Angel with all my heart, She is just too precious for me to trade with, She has sometime wanted to visit me. but i have one way or the other postphoned it because she is just too hot and do not want to disflower her, just trying to control myself.
Anyway to cut the long story short she finally paid me a visit, so after much chatting and since i do not want to disflower her i only ask her to do sometime, since it was only the two of us in the room but she refues and told me that she can`t and will not do it.
I only ask her to take off her shikt and undes only and put them back. just want to know if this is too hard for a girlfriend to do for his boyfriend on their first day? Is it too much to ask from your girlfriend?
its obvious your not matured, why would she take her skirts off just to prove to you she has feelings for you? she comes to your house for the first time, and your already asking her to take off her skirts and undies, maybe the next time would be for her to take off her bra and undies, the next time would be, she should take off everything, so you can just experiment, not do the real thing ohh, just experimenting  . one thing is obvious your only interested in her physically. she's a very smart girl, who does not deserve someone like you. so if your just interested in whats between her legs i suggest you BETTER LEAVE HER
ALONE , for someone else who is more matured and would appreciate her better. |
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davidylan (m)
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what i don't understand is what happened to friendship and bonding in a relationship? Why is the very first thing on our mind sex?
The other day a moron was mooning over losing her virginity before she was 24 and i just shake my head in shame . . . what has the world turned into?
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Joey82 (m)
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@poster
What if she takes her clothes off and one thing leads to another, u may end up doing what u're avoiding, besides its completely immature to ask a lady u call ur God sent angel to do such athing.
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omena555 (f)
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@poster, exactly what kind of fulfillment do u hope to derive from taking a look at her without her skirt on!! that is disrespect for ur so-called angel. why treat her so cheaply? since u say u want to avoid sleeping with her, wht then is under the skirt for u to see? an ant?  |
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spikedcylinder (f)
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Hello Friends,
I have been in a relationship for 2-3months now, with the love of my life and have not taken her to my place though we do meet at where i work (cybercafe), I love this God sent Angel with all my heart, She is just too precious for me to trade with, She has sometime wanted to visit me. but i have one way or the other postphoned it because she is just too hot and do not want to disflower her, just trying to control myself.
Anyway to cut the long story short she finally paid me a visit, so after much chatting and since i do not want to disflower her i only ask her to do sometime, since it was only the two of us in the room but she refues and told me that she can`t and will not do it.
I only ask her to take off her shikt and undes only and put them back. just want to know if this is too hard for a girlfriend to do for his boyfriend on their first day? Is it too much to ask from your girlfriend?
Is this for real or you just fooling around? You want her to lift her skirt and underwear so you can see her what, er, mound? What would that do for you? I hope this girl drops you as fast as a burning train!!! The other day a moron was mooning over losing her virginity before she was 24 and i just shake my head in shame . . . what has the world turned into?
I don't understand this statement. Are you pissed that the girl lost her virginity at such a young age or you're pissed that she was mooning about it? |
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lamidebaby (f)
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@poster
Sweetheart, first of all u don't disflower a girl, u deflower her.
Secondly, i find ur entire approach rather juvenile, i mean what on earth would a grown
ass man pull such a stunt for? This is what happens when u watch too much sexual objectification
of women on tv/ChannelO, MTVBase n other black music channels.
To imagine u did that to her (an angel) on her first visit? R u sure u actually 22?
I guess by her 3rd visit u'd have nude pics of her on ur laptop. God deliver us.
In summary, u really insulted her n womanhood. u messed up. She deserves a sincere apology.
U need to grow up.
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c_blow (m)
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some guys are 'a disgrace'  |
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efuah (f)
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take off your clothes?? that was disrespecting n annoying!! it's like wanting to examine something on ur child  |
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tkb417 (m)
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@lamidebaby watch ur mouth o.  abi why must you lecture us english here @Poster Next time, action speaks louder than words. Try removing the skirt yourself. I'm sure she wont object after some persuasion You sounded like a novice in this game. See as people just dey bash you left right and center. C'mon guy, you can do berra  |
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yimiton (f)
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Very funny indeed.
Children will be children.
I'd be doomed if this poster is not a teenager.
What on earth do you want her taking off her cloths for? Why would you want to taste something you aren't ready to eat?
No, it's not too much to ask just too stupid to ask!
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somze (m)
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This is one of the things that make Nairaland fun. I've seen some very silly posts during my time here na wa for naija sha and Seun put this crap on the main page, funny |
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inze (m)
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Be Smart Boy, If u truely love her like you say, you should learn to respect her and treat her like a queen. We all know that its always one thing that leads to another, i mean, things don't just happen, we make them happen. What happened to those good old morla instruction classes we receive in some junior high school?? . You claim you don't want to do something stupid, so don't be stupid and have self-control for there's no difference in seeing what she looks like either topless and having sex with her, because the mind can be a very dangerous tool (What goes into the mind of a man, doesn't defile him but what comes out of it). Thread carefully. You might loose what you have (The coucil of elders have spoken) I n z e |
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mekoyo (m)
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How can you ask her to take off her cloths on her first visit to your house? She's a very smart girl and i'm sure you are not. That is the problem with all these boy-girl relationships, the guys are only interested in sex and after satisfying their lust desires they dump the innocent girl hmmm innocent did i say something like that? Well back to the main issue, guys come on lets stop all this immature behaviour and behave like adults, leave this ladies alone they have a life to live. They have a future too, why should a guy ask a girl he loves to take off her cloth when they are not married even the dumbest person on earth would understand that *hiss*
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inze (m)
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@lamidebaby sexual objectification ?? Where the heck is my dictionary.  |
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inze (m)
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@c_blow
I don't fully agree with you when you said "some guys are a disgrace" they only need correction and i guess that's why this poster is here i guess.
Someone else might think you are as well.
What goes around comes around
I n z e
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inze (m)
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Even a newbie at nairaland (pule) says it better.
everyone take note of this guy.
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tkb417 (m)
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@c_blow
I don't fully agree with you when you said "some guys are a disgrace" they only need correction and i guess that's why this poster is here i guess.
Someone else might think you are as well.
What goes around comes around
I n z e
Word. And don't be decieved. That Pule must have been banned. that can't be a newbie |
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akara (m)
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@ Poster if she took her clothes off for you to admire this Angel that God has given to you, will you also have taken your clothes for her to admire you? You sure about yourself so? |
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iyken (m)
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Hmmm, another one bites the dust. I think we re dealing with another case of underage here. |
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jorem (m)
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Dear friend, this is not the right time to do that, the best thing for now is for you to allow GOD to have His way in the relationship, rather than making irrelevant demand which can lead to undesired result |
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klas (m)
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What do you mean by not wanting to deflower the girl? Have you confirmed the girl to be a virgin? Anyway, for you to ask the girl plainly in the circumstance you narrated like a doctor who want to carry out pelvic examination appear to me that you are the one about to get deflowered. May I warn that what you will find under the skirt doesn't come with Users Manual. IF YOU WANT TO BE AN ANARCHIST, PLEASE KNOW THE RULES
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TCUBE (m)
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You weird and imature, u don't tell a lady to take her pants off, you just met 3 freaking months ago, She wants u to have her but u keep playing Tom and jerry, Your Angel will soon be taken away from u by a lucifier , u are simply a weirdo, ma 13 old brother even get skillz pass u
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mellow (m)
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The guy obviously do not want to DEFLOWER his ANGEL with MR DICKSON but
will undoubtedly do it with his EYES. Whatever it means, it means the same thing to me.
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Seun (m)
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It's not the same thing but "take off your clothes" is not something you go around asking women.
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TCUBE (m)
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It's not the same thing but "take off your clothes" is not something you go around asking women.
don't mind the man, What does he gain from "just looking" instead of "doing it", he is just one of a kind, am guessing a virgin |
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mellow (m)
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Atleasth he want to look without touching that might to him to a great extent satisfy
his sexual urge.
Seun, would you rather he ask a man?
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