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peu (f)
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it is not only tolumi that have this problem
many girls are out there who wants the same thing as she does
may God help us out
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Efani (m)
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lol y'all are desperate lol. yo toluni, have u tried other girls, its becoming an increasing trend. give it a shot lol and post da video on da internet lol jk
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Efani (m)
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or maybe u scare guys away wit your raging lust. guys want simple yet challenging women and i get tired of girls that give it too easy. or maybe your not attractive? lol
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easy01 (m)
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hey tolu
well what i will just say is that u go and get what u want but mind how u get it because not all guys out there a good most are after your hole u gat that after getting what they want tyhaey will run away, so shine your eyes and don't let sex turn you into a freak. all my heart
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Idekeson (m)
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Everyone loves sex my dear and don't let love and it's complications get in the way of a good "congo shinning". The bondage of one man one woman can be suffocating for a free-spirit like you.
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Fluffy (f)
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The bondage of one man one woman can be suffocating for a free-spirit like you.
The liberty of sleeping with everyone that comes across could also be deadly! |
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Blue2 (m)
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Dont mind all these perverts. Sex is good but shine your eyes because AIDS is REAL! That said i'm sure there is someone out there for you. Basing your relationship on sex could b dangerous but then who doesnt like DANGER!
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tolumi (f)
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thanks everybody.while some understand my plight,most people don't.it's just a pity im in my shoes!
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EbonymanUK
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Desiree Did you tell Tolu to go to Anne Summer. Isn't Tolu in Ilori do they have Anne summers over there  Tolu How far with your Dilema, very brave of you to post it, I must congratulate you, better than does so die in Silent., You people know who you are LOL |
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EbonymanUK
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Idekeson
NA wah oho "congo shinning". I have never heard it been refered to as Congo shinning
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seeker (m)
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Maybe, You're too lucky with sex, but not so in love with men.
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desiree (f)
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Desiree Did you tell Tolu to go to Anne Summer. Isn't Tolu in Ilori do they have Anne summers over there Tolu How far with your Dilema, very brave of you to post it, I must congratulate you, better than does so die in Silent., You people know who you are LOL okay, i didn't see the illorin bit, If you don't have a shop that cater for such needs in illorin, You can buy online or hit me up to sort u out with one   |
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EbonymanUK
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@ desiree
Does that mean you are a regular shopper at Anne summers LOL
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desiree (f)
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@ desiree
Does that mean you are a regular shopper at Anne summers LOL
Nope, *coughs slightly and scratches head* LOL. I just think it is impossible for her to have Sex with a guy without a tiny weeny bit of emotion attached. If she likes sex , fineee, she doesn't have to go all the drama of a fu*ck buddy----just get a "vib buddy"!!!  |
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thekrafter (m)
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LOL. Yeah, the "rabbit" will suit her just fine.  |
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eveseh (f)
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try to get one,
but u will just hold on
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dakmanzero (m)
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get a dildo, girl
they make em for a reason
if u don't the boys will quickly brand you a slut
besides a dildo is x100 better than the real thing.
No chance of aids, broken heart, syphillis, pregnancy
the pastor may still castigate you, but at least no-one will know. if u carried 2,000 boyfriends they would pray that your portion of hell be cooler than usual!
if I were a woman I'D tell dudes to go f**k themselves (literally!)
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naijacutee (f)
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Girl, I think you might need some counselling from a doctor. I don't know if theres any such counsellor that deals with sexual health in Illorin. If you can lay your hands on one, then talk to them. You might have issues surrounding your growing up that is causing you to be sexually insatiable now. i.e were you abused or neglected as a child? You really need to talk to someone that can offer you support through this time so that sex is not in control of you, because sex, in the wrong hands can be a very lethal thing.
I would not advise you to wear yourself out with vibrators or with any of these guys offering their numbers because they will only increase your desires. If you address the problem at it's source, it's not to take away your sexual urges altogether but to put them in their proper perspective.
How old are you? If you're under 19 , you can go to this website (It's a UK site but it won't hurt if no one finds out ) www.connexions-direct.com You can speak to a counsellor for free there (By e-mail or a web chat) if you're 19 or under and live in the UK. You literally have a one-on-one chat with a trained counsellor, and I'm sure they'll be able to offer you proper advice
Take care and good luck!
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dakmanzero (m)
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but beware,
you may be counselled into frigidity,
for body to become firewood is worse than a passing phase of sexual craving,
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seeker (m)
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Aunty Freud @naijacutie. She's not looking for the cure for her sexual appetite. She wants to have it, and use it.
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ldollier (f)
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tolumi, you started off saying that you are not a sex maniac but yet you love sex sex sex. that my friend IS CONTRACTING YOURSELF.
as a psychologist, once you accept what you are, then it will be easier for you. in other words you are a sex maniac, but its unfortunate that you are not lucky with men.
my best advice, is to find out what you do to men, that makes you so unlucky to them, it could be your personality, your looks, your character etc.
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PLAY-BOY (m)
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I think your problem is that u are not in a civilized area (Ilorin).unlike Lagos and other big city of the states. Cos when i was in Nigeria, we guys believe Ilorin is a state for MUSLIMS and NUNS.Actually, i've never been to ilorin but that was what i heard about Ilorin as a place.Also, i think your look also is one of the problems because most guys in University Ilorin are from Lagos and u know Lagos guys love only good things.
I will advice u not to make a mistake by forcing yourself on a guy because u want sex or smthing,that can add to your problems because after they might have had a round of sex or two with You they flee.The tips is that Alwayz look good every now and then because no guy will want to stay too long with a non-attractive chick and look and feel sexy all time.And i pray That God will help You solve Your Problems.
Goodluck
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beyunce (f)
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Ok. since u love sex. find a man that loves u and is willing to give it to u all night all day.
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eveseh (f)
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Ok. since u love sex. find a man that loves u and is willing to give it to u all night all day.
lol,everywoman likes sex,but no her way,lol girl  |
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naijacutee (f)
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I'D still advise you to seek help because sexual cravings - as with other cravings should be tackled from the source, Just the same way as someone who eats too much and becomes grossly obese - or someone who gambles too much, or someone hooked on crack needs advice. It's not because it's sex that you should go out and find men to give-it-to-you, and after that, then what?
The likes of seeker and dakmanzero are just being selfish and absurd
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