Worst Thing Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Has Ever Done?

Bridget007, get a grip of yourself. Are you ok. Why in Gods name would you hang on to a man who has no love for you. He only wants you because he sees green card, as soon as that comes through he will dump you. It is not Going to work because he is doing nothing and you are the only one who wants the relationship. He uses you, abuses you, humilates you and disrespects you. girl, what else do you need. plus he is a financial drain on you. Damn girl, kick his arse out, let them deport the stupid, selfish bastard. He has used and abused so many women and they are all stupid.

Aisha, you are absolutely right, I'm just a hopeful fool, I live not too far away from you. I bet you probably know of him lol!

ALL THAT  I HAVE SEEN POSTED HERE IS ALL ABOUT SEX, STRANGE UNCLES, AND EX-BF'S. You NEED TO HEAR MINE. I ONCE DATED THIS IGBO CHICK. I DID NOT EVEN SLEEP WITH HER FOR ONE DAY. THIS WAS BECAUSE SHE SAID THAT SHE HATES GUYS AFTER SHE SLEEPS WITH THEM. ME NA I BE MUGU. I DID NOT KNOW SHE WAS GIVING IT TO OTHER GUYS LIKE RECHARGE CARDS. I BROKE UP WITH HER. THEN SHE NOW WANTED ME TO ENTER THAT CANAL. ME I DEY CRASE,  I KISS WINCH,  OR ROMANCE CRASE,   I JUST TOOK A FEW MWWAHHHS AND GOT OUTA THERE. SHE DEY CRASE.

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@ d guy who posted this: Your own is coming! Do you have sisters? Mother? Aunties? How can you beat a girl because of money you've spent. All women should walk run away from you without looking back. I hope she survives you!

@ bridget 007

You dey craze? Wetin you still dey do with that demon possessed individual kukuma carry belle born pikin? What he did to you yl u were pregnant wasn't enough? Is it until he hurts one of your children that your eyes will open? I don't understand women that stay with men that beat them. God help my husband if he beat me or unnecessarily hurt my children___somebody go die that day!

My ex got really drunk at a party and as I drove him back home. He threw up in my car. And it wasn't the small one but the huge seemingly endless one. That was the grossest thing ever. Made him wash my car though.

She denied me sex on a cold cold night when it was raining with all the thuderstoms and lightning and the weather was so cold, she had aroused me with fore play ad all that only for her to tell me that she is not in the mood anymore -it was actually her way of punishing me for a mess up i did earlier in the day as i later found out

It was the longest night ever. I have never begged for it so much all my life but she refused bluntly and i  enventually slept alone in the sitting room.

@rebellious

This new one no go make it pass you car door. I predict. it's like a blind date gone wrong. wait and see.

He cheated on me with this banker lady for almost a year even though he was living in my house for the better part of it. I recently accessed his email and found out that even after he had assured me it was over and proposed to me, he was still begging her (with serious lyrics,o!) though since November it has stopped. Now I'm worried that he's only with me 'because it didn't work out with her. Though he's still living with me and making a lot of effort to get me involved with his folks, part of me cannot forgive him. I'm just praying for things to work out for him so he can move on.

I must report myself to the whole nairalanders: worst thing I did to my ex before we broke up:

1. beat her up
2. took her atm and withdrew all the notes in it and spent nights sleeping from one hotel to another so as to deplete such funds.
3. Left her broke and travelled for x-mas to my base in K - town

Please don't crucify me I only did those things to hurt her feelings and make her pay for every goddam dime I spent on her in our three and half years relationship.

I was enjoying this thread until i saw this post and i became utterly disgusted. I can't believe that you proudly posted this. In this day and age you beat up a woman, cleared her account and shamelessly report yourself to nairalanders. Is it that your babe never spent anything or made any sacrifice while you guys dated since you said that you did all that to make her pay for the few kobo you spent on her. How, i pray my brother is she suppose to reclaim all her own sacrifices.  I bet if you were the one that walked in on your woman and your friend in a compromising situation like it happened to one of our fellow nairalanders, you would have just shot both of them.  I wish i could see your ex and tell her to thank God its over between you guys because she might not leave with her life if she stays longer with you. I think you are very vindictive and should be avoided like a plague.

bridget007
Please is this a complex thing or is it that your guy has so brainwashed your brain into making you think that you can't live or achieve anything outside him. Why would we women open our eyes, see ants coming and still keep it open. Isnt it obvious to you that nothing good can come out of the relationship. Dont you have folks or friends that can advise you. You had kids by someone before , now you are in an abusive relationship and you are confused about marrying him, i think you have a very low esteem and you need counselling, above all you need God. 

I couldnt even say it on here.

what are we hmmming about?

i was just playing with my x phone when i accidentally stumble on some nasty sms between her and somebody i percieved to b her girlfriend.  I began to wonder if she was a lesbian so i decided to investigate only to kul her girlfriend and a big baritone voice was saying hello. Of course she denied n said it was her girlfriend until i told her her i kul her girlfriend, d look on her face was worth 1 million dollars  until defense turn 2 attack with " WTF were u doin with ma phone anyway" . we didnt break up because of that it was 4 other reason.

The worst thing she ever did was making me know her, how I regret that day!!!!