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tolumi (f)
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he is my boyfriend who doesnt know how 2 give even if i ask.all he says is 'we've not been paid'i guess I'm not so lucky with men.please tell me wht 2 do.I'm really tired because each time i feel reluctant 2 give him,it results 2 quarrels.advise me plssssss  |
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toshmann (m)
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OPEN UR EYES BABY AND FIRE THE DUDE before IT GETS TOO LATE. YOU DESERVE BETTER THAN THAT.THERE ARE GENTLE DUDES OUT THERE WAITING FOR PEOPLE LIKE YOU. COME ON,I'M EVEN AVAILABLE  WHY DON'T YOU CALL MY NAME AND GIVE ME YOUR NUMBER CHEERS, ALL THE BEST. TOSHMANN |
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Bright2 (m)
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Tolumi(Omogemi) no be una say what a man can do a woman can do it better,now edon set to do you dey complain,(omogemi)still dey try your reward is in heaven atleast you dey give the boy hope of surviving 4 naija.
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Rhodalyn (f)
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stingy boyfriend, ditch him
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Bright2 (m)
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Papermoon nawar for you o, abi women no fit deliver again as una talk am?men oya make we know now from them, what a man can do can't women do it better again?.
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Seun (m)
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If a woman can live of a man, why shouldn't a man be able to live off a woman?
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funloving (m)
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Papermoon don hala !!!  Relax babe,what a man can do a woman can do better. Oya time to perform don come.Women to the rescue ! A boy is in need and the babe must provide  Jokes aside,Tolumi dump the g.u.y if you are sincere in saying he stylishly collects from you but does not give in return but if he genuinely does not have to give and you love him and he is a good man in all other aspects,you may have to tarry with and help build him up. You just have to discern whether he is sincerely broke or just plain stingy. Stingy people are very difficult to relate with.You don't need that kind of extra stress in an already stressful world. Wish you luck
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reniks (f)
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He doesn't give but he stylishly collects?U have 2 learn to stylishly not give him.But maybe he doesn't have for real[that depends on how long you've been dating],in that case you can bear with him a little.However if his stinginess is"straight from the heart"dump him jare because the relationship would be a parasitic one.
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disney (f)
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girl, you had better move on wiht ur life, the true fact, the guy don't love you. A guy that don't give to a woman just ain't a man. because men give to the women they love, they sacrifice for you, spoil ya and do stuffs for ya life. so if he is not giving, maybe he is giving to someone else. u had better watch out. Is it until you are married with kids , he start to give. Abeg, lets forget that ijebu mentality and you better look for a better man.  |
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foskybaby (f)
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I can tolerate any kind of man but not a stingy one
NEVER EVER
Thats disgusting
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Rhodalyn (f)
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absolutely disgusting!!!
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jayemkay (f)
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the guy has got to go! i mean he stylishly collects, without giving in return, you have to do something about it before he drains you dry
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tolumi (f)
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I'm not a working class lady,I'm in school and he goes to the extent of telling me 2 obtain from guys so as 2 gv him money.he says girls did it when he was in school and they still do.
how do i go about this?i need a man in my life.
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whocares
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The Mo Fo is trying to pimp you oh. You better run for your life. A guy that can ask you to obtain for him no really send you
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reniks (f)
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Yeah!!run as fast as your legs can take you.
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tolumi (f)
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hey guys thanks so much 4 ur contributions.i feel a bit relieved.more plsss
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larger_20 (m)
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don't bumb him, find out how much he makes and maybe start that way. Women are fond of making demand
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Dupsybaby (f)
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Nothing more,ditch that asshole right away,he's a BARAWO with style  |
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whitelexi (m)
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There's joy in sharing why are u complaining? |
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freaskie (m)
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Leave him stlylishly too
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freaskie (m)
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Leave him stlylishly too
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lovestinks (f)
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girl kick his broke ass to the curbs, he is a scrub a good guy will not ask if he doesnt give, much less get upset with u. most real men i know pride themselves in how well they take care of their lady, please u deserve better,
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naija4life (f)
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am somehow confused here, is it that he he's got doe but refuses to part with it OR He doesnt have much due to 'unforeseen circumstances'. Thnk well before doing anything 'stupid' as all these pipo telling u to dump his greasy a$$ wont be there 4 you when it happens. Look before you leap. All da best |
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mubowa (f)
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there is nothing like one is not furtunate with men, is just that you yourself needs to be smart. God forbid, spending on a guy that is stingy to me!!!!!!!!!! heck no, not that i want anything from man but even if am the queen of england and my boyfriend is a slave in togo, he still got some reponsibility to care for.so when does he get paid? ni kini owo to ma fun mi by force. i know my boyfriend is going to check this so don't make me go too far before he change his mind about giving me stuffs
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anon101 (f)
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i have been in this situation before and theres nothing like he doesn't have , he definitely has , say i ask him for $50, if he gives me $5 and hes like babes thats all i got i will really appreciate it rather than him not even making an attempt when you ask
Honey ,guys are mad . most of them don't want someone they will collect from ., as soon as this guy gets up financially he will tell you then that he doesnt feel like the man in the relationship and dump you , i wont tell you to dump him , as earlier said i can stand a liar, a cheat ,but a stingy guy is a NO NO
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harvey (m)
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Girls and money.guys who are stingy?this na serious matter.if the guy has and refuses to give,then he is impotent,but if he does not have or have little but his needs surpass his income,then i think u have to bear with him.
the stupid this about this guy is that he asks u to get money from guys and give to him.i know that type.they are like women takes them 1hrs to get dressed up,wear expensive cloths and all that,but their ass is lazy.girl Analise this situation critically before jumping into conclusion.remember u are the one who knows what is obtainable from this guy and in your relationship with him.
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kennygee (f)
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ie you are dating a guy who can not spend on you but likes you looking good and also collects money from you,screw him up big time.
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lil madam (f)
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>:(that guy is really an asshole.he can't give you and he collects from you. Leave him immediately because it wont be surprising if he's using your money to take care of another girl.
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