if u really love this girl(ur friend),then wait for her and keep being her friend,with time she will give in,but please if u know u can't do want she wants(concerning her convenant with God which i'm sure has no fornication in it),then please leave her alone.
But i know what she is said will benefit both of u,so think about it.
Concerning ur former girlfriend,stick to ur guns,so far your mind is made up,but please u don't have to be harsh to her and with time she would move on.
Cheers!!!
