My Girlfriend Lied About Her Age: Should I Dump Her?

@ poster
The question u should ask yourself is if realizing that she is actually 3 years older than you has affected your feelings for her in anyway. if it hasn't, please go on with your relationship and forgive her for hiding her age from you. 90% of women (even men these days) do that. Some will even go as far as saying it is not ladylike to reveal your age She may have started this relationship with you not quite sure of where it was going, fell in love with you along the line and got scared of losing you if she told you the truth and kept looking for the proverbial "right time" to tell you. If on the other hand you start developing negative feelings towards her because she is older than you, then you have justified her reason for hiding it from you in the first place. Look on the brighter side man, if you dated her for so long without noticing she was older, it means nature has been good to her. Let this be a secret between you both, nobody has to know. besides, age is nothing but a number. Take my advice man and be happy with your woman. i am speaking from experience

 

@sagitarius
d strength in loving someone is to overcome challenges like d situation u painted. ask yourself this question;are u sure u've never lied to your babe on anything?
d answer to this question should tell u d decision to take.

if u however decide to dump her,just give her my number and the both of us will show u what true love is.my nos are 08069392164 and 08073318474.

very well said


Seriously

in as much as am totally for u to 4give and make up wit your lady, i would advise u proceed wit caution. two year is a mighty lot of time to keep sum tin away from u.
maybe it might seem insignificant, u know , probably to get into u at d initial stage of d relationship, but to keep it 4  2 years. what else  is she keepin from u?
but hey, love conquers all, , or so they say

hi busta,
i meant no harm.try taking another picture close to a church and watch my comments.you looked splendid though.

busta
you time don't mind them just be yourself

You're alright Man @ david,

@sagitarius ,

If you feel, especially based on two whole years of lies, that you can't trust her anymore, please just dump the girl jeje. The chances that this issue will lead to further problems in the future is very high.

My advice: please dump the girl fast (but not like a hot potato  ).

Saggy,
you know, the first step is to determine if you do not have any trouble accepting the fact that you are younger.
from what i've read, she definately does not have trouble accepting the situation.

If you come to the conclusion that you do not mind the age difference, then scold her a little while (which i assume you had done enough already) and move on.

i sense a lot of affection and passion in your writings. you love this girl, she obviously loves you too. That is more important than the sequencing of birth days.

however, you need to drive it home in no uncertain terms, that you will not accept any more lies or deliberate withholding of information. say all the nice things about how successful relationships are built on trust blah blah blah and move on.

I suspect you are a muslim, (sallah break and all). if you are, then you should probably know that you Prophet M'med (PBUH) first wife was older than him. That is a worthy example for you.

cheers

 Though I'm kind of young,and not yet into all these stuffs,but I can make out that the lady is so much in love with you and fears losing you if she should tell you the truth.
Furthermore,I can see that you are still in love with her,so why not give her another chance.

donot take her back asap,someone else will do that for you,
am sure u just answered someone's prayers,
Lose an opportunity and u lose it forever
many women few good women
very few wives, i laugh at you.BETTER ACT FAST

hi busta
i saw u re online now and decided to halla u
whatz up?

    thats not an excuse for wanting to dump her, or have you been thinking about doing that for a while and now decided to use the age issue as a media for doing that?(just curious),
   if you love her (as you claim to do), then you should sit down with her and iron out the issue, afterall relationships are not all about hugs and kisses, just as someone said earlier maybe she feels insecure bout her age(it happens you know), so you should accept her apology and talk to her, who knows, she might tell you some other stuffs bout her that you do not know

Dude we all understand that people lie for various reasons, and as one poster pointed out, she might have just been insecure.

the only issue here is how do u know if there are other things she's lied about.think u both should sit down hav a long chat.

so here's to starting all over. who knows the truth may even bring u two closer. cheers

i would understand if she lied about something serious, but age, that's crazy. maybe she really liked you and didn't want the age to decide whether you wanted her or not.