Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?

@ all
     No fear with mephisto, its peace, its only fake people that brings threats. 4give me 4 disrupting your thread because of a soul on the T list, well lets see how srtong she claims to be,

  the fake hair is the one that gets to me the most. Add to that fake airs.
The fake accessories can attract a man, only the inner character keeps him.

I doubt it, more often that not its the "rejected" woman's desperate attempt to convince herself. 
Frankly if a woman who was worth it rejects u (i admit it will happen to almost every guy out there), most men i know are humble enough to admit that the girl was just out of their league anyway.
Its different from the other scenario u describe.


I concur.

all this is preaching. Perhaps that "be friends first" scenario worked in the 80s . . . . today there is no time to attempt to be friends first when you know that u're not the only one doing the "chasing". In a world where its who gets there first that wins, no one wants to sit down waiting for the "Friends" phase.

Did that several times in college and had empty hands to show for it.

like i said before, men view women as gamesand you wonder why we "play" hard to get

4Play no be your kind that cae up with the stupid concept of calling women "queens" and they too go around screaming "treat my like a queen!", a phrase I loathe very much actually.

so if women go around thinking they are all that and  bag of Doritos esp those that really are not, blame yourselves for telling them that stuff and stop complaining at the end of it.

Queens ko, Brooklyn ni.

Look, its a game. Better get over it.  


If you don't try how do u know if she was worth it or not in the end? The empty handed phase comes out as a learning experience, now more than ever you have a better idea of what u actually don't want.


Do i blame them?   The "pitch" is all part of the "chase".

 i noticed you are hash

ok David, tell me, what do you want us to do to satisfy you guy?
if we dnt pull up small resistance, we're viewed with supicion(as you stated), but if we put up resistance, we're playing too hardki le fe ka se? 
 

See this is why I usually prefer reading your comments on stuff like this. You usually saying it like it is even if it makes guys kind of look "bad"

Glad you agree that it's the ideal way to establish some sort of friendship first and good to know you are aware that most men are impatient, therefore they should just blame themselves in the end if the person they chased without barely knowing ends up being someone totally wrong for them. Relationships that usually last are the ones where the two were close friends from the beginning, not when they guy just lusts after he person 2 mins after seeing the girl.

Lol blame 2Face jare, na him start that madness with his bloody African Queen, now we'll never hear the end of "treat me like a Queen" bullshit. Makes me sick.
I personally prefer "treat me how you'd loved to be treat or how you'd treat someone dear to you". Simple.

the hell is egunsi sef?

Well in my part of Nigeria it's Egusi

and Normal people don't eat that crap that looks like vomit. Only thing that should be eaten with amala is OKRA

look, little boy, i said get the fcuk off my backi no send youi told you why you got blocked from my YIM, i dnt like womanwrappersomo, you make me sick. . . . you dnt even qualify for the weakest link in naija society, consider yourself part of the trash pile. . adios. . i no get time for you, boynow, shoo fly dnt bother me

egunsi, egusi potatoe potatawho cares as long as you understood what i mean. . . so i never learned to write yoruba, ok. . if normal people dnt eat the crap the looks like vomit, consider me not normali love it and i eat it. . 

Haba, i guess you guys re not beefing in here 

morenike09 Oluwa      Who is Niceuzor ?  By the way how did you sef 

Please let's be sincere here who are you?