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mailmalc (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?
« #352 on: March 10, 2008, 05:27 AM »

ha  Undecided  Undecided so u don't trust me. Check ur YIM for our convo.  Tongue
morenike09 (f)
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?
« #353 on: March 10, 2008, 05:31 AM »

Quote from: mailmalc on March 10, 2008, 05:27 AM
ha  Undecided  Undecided so u don't trust me. Check your YIM for our convo.  Tongue
hmmm!! am being watched aren't i? you work for EFCC? is buzzgonzz EFCC employee? ok, let me get online sha. . .
morenike09 (f)
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?
« #354 on: March 10, 2008, 05:33 AM »

@mailmalc
ROTFLMFAO. . . . Grin Cheesy Grin Cheesy Cheesy
buzzgonz (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?
« #355 on: March 10, 2008, 05:38 AM »

Mailmalc - Thanks for telling me,Goodnite  Cool
morenike09 (f)
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?
« #356 on: March 10, 2008, 05:41 AM »

Quote from: buzzgonz on March 10, 2008, 05:38 AM
Mailmalc - Thanks for telling me,Goodnite  Cool
eh en? so now we both know each other, wetin now?  Undecided
buzzgonz (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?
« #357 on: March 10, 2008, 05:44 AM »

Tomorrow we go yarn sleep dey catch me!
morenike09 (f)
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?
« #358 on: March 10, 2008, 05:50 AM »

Quote from: buzzgonz on March 10, 2008, 05:44 AM
Tomorrow we go yarn sleep dey catch me!
yarn ko yearn niomo go and sleep. niceuzor, abeg, carry and go for your own matter. . buhbye!! am out!!  Grin Cheesy Grin
mailmalc (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?
« #359 on: March 10, 2008, 06:25 AM »

Quote from: buzzgonz on March 10, 2008, 05:38 AM
Mailmalc - Thanks for telling me,Goodnite  Cool

heY ! what did i tel u? lol  anyhw sha good night.  Morenike good night too
2bad (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?
« #360 on: March 10, 2008, 07:23 AM »

a girl who allows a guy to sweat his arse out before accepting him to her life should be made to sweat her arse out too after getting into the relationship.
i hope everyone gets it.
why should a girl kill a guy because she is trying him out, i think girls taste a little bit of thewhole wahala too and the best way a guy can do that is after gaining his authority.
so girls don't stress us when we are after you. Cool Smiley Cool
chrisoml (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?
« #361 on: March 10, 2008, 08:20 AM »

Quote from: 2bad on March 10, 2008, 07:23 AM
a girl who allows a guy to sweat his arse out before accepting him to her life should be made to sweat her arse out too after getting into the relationship.
 i hope everyone gets it.
why should a girl kill a guy because she is trying him out, i think girls taste a little bit of thewhole wahala too and the best way a guy can do that is after gaining his authority.
so girls don't stress us when we are after you. Cool Smiley Cool

guy thanks alot 4 bringin back our attention to the real issue here once again.
 since  @D-reloaded,  @4Him, @Nwando, @vampire, @morenike09 came on board this thread everything just turned up side down always making d forum luk like a way zone.
please lets aways take things easy oooo.
mind u am not mr. don't rock d boat, but loves when peace reigns
Emad (f)
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?
« #362 on: March 10, 2008, 10:07 AM »

i think it is all about the challenge and the quest to conquer something new
once she is conquered he looses interest especially when he feels she loves him
Take my advice girls NEVER tell a boy you love him, let him just guess that you might
by what you do . because once he gets comfortable he stops chasing, and then the hunted becomes the hunter

this has not yet worked for me but i am sure it is the right recipe  Grin
scofield (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?
« #363 on: March 10, 2008, 10:50 AM »

sometimes playing hard to get does not work.you make a guy wait for so long then you say yes.its like a game when he eventually gets you to say yes, he now gets bored and seek other girls.why not let everything flow than stressing the guy playing hard to get.at least you both would develop an understanding of yourselves.he would not look at you as a challenge.
coo_pedro (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?
« #364 on: March 10, 2008, 11:07 AM »

Quote from: Emad on March 10, 2008, 10:07 AM
i think it is all about the challenge and the quest to conquer something new
once she is conquered he looses interest especially when he feels she loves him
Take my advice girls NEVER tell a boy you love him, let him just guess that you might
by what you do . because once he gets comfortable he stops chasing, and then the hunted becomes the hunter

this has not yet worked for me but i am sure it is the right recipe Grin

Efuah since it hasn't work for u then hw sure are u?

please don't discourage others from doing what they ought to do.
kalmebad (f)
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?
« #365 on: March 10, 2008, 11:26 AM »

@vkt3344

TNks 4 ur comment and observation, can't say much
hakeen
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?
« #366 on: March 10, 2008, 11:58 AM »

what of the babe? we are all pretending as if it takes 1 to tango. Huh
to me
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?
« #367 on: March 10, 2008, 12:17 PM »

i guess when guys realise that you truly love them they tend to relax and expect you to take all the shits they put across to you all in the name of love.
my advice is that it si always good to hold a last joker.don't give them all because if you do they ll be too relaxed Wink
larryolus (f)
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?
« #368 on: March 10, 2008, 12:25 PM »

larryolus
well, no one can reallt tell why, 'because it baffles me too.
Hardly can u see 10% out of 100% relationships that does not come that way.
Is only by God's grace that few of such 10% are able to sustain the relationship.
Anyway my own advice is that we should place our commitment in GOD's hands.
hakeen
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?
« #369 on: March 10, 2008, 12:31 PM »

Quote from: mailmalc on March 10, 2008, 06:25 AM
heY ! what did i tel u? lol anyhw sha good night. Morenike good night too
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true true  very true
osegwu (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?
« #370 on: March 10, 2008, 12:50 PM »

Man is a conquerer by nature. Conquer one keep aside for the raining day and go

on up to conquer yet another and the game goes on and on until he himself is conquered for good.

It's no big deal. When you are chasing you chase after the body for that is all you see and you are

interested. When you conquer you are after the mind which include the character, when this is negative,

you become disappointed for the waste of time and effort, FINANCIAL? is something else. Because you are a gentleman

you don't just say go, you use diplomacy and allow the bunch of disappointment to go figure the rest out herself.
clintonty (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?
« #371 on: March 10, 2008, 01:11 PM »

 Smiley Smiley Smiley  You've all made senses and said it all, ladies should study the virtuous woman in the book of proverbs (Bible) and see that a man alone should not be left to do everything while the lady sit and watch things. When a lady does not have it in mind to make impact in the life of his man, all she wants is bring but no take, Mr Biggs all the time (she cannot even cook), if pleasures and delicacies only are found in the foundation and day-to-day building of your relationship, very soon, not even the guy alone, you'll both be tired. Well, only a virtuous woman can continue to win the heart of her fiance even after length of time.
PL+C
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?
« #372 on: March 10, 2008, 01:27 PM »

Destroy this temple and it will be rebuilt in 3 days. Tongue  I bring peace! Cheesy Grin
mekk (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?
« #373 on: March 10, 2008, 01:36 PM »

, Some of these chicks are just piece of shit if u ask me.I don't mean any offence guys believe me.they contribute to a large extend when a guy starts acting kind of wacky.
  Now a girl deceives that she is a virgin and at the end of the day u discovers otherwise.and then she rephrase it,that she just had it once.be the judge, how the hell do u want him to still be in that fucked relationship?, these  gals are their own undoing in truth.
PL+C
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?
« #374 on: March 10, 2008, 01:47 PM »

Quote from: mekk on March 10, 2008, 01:36 PM
, Some of these chicks are just piece of shit if u ask me.I don't mean any offence guys believe me.they contribute to a large extend when a guy starts acting kind of wacky.
  Now a girl deceives that she is a virgin and at the end of the day u discovers otherwise.and then she rephrase it,that she just had it once.be the judge, how the hell do u want him to still be in that fucked relationship?, these  gals are their own undoing in truth.

This is happening to me presently - the new girl claiming to be virgin but she won't allow me to quit the relationship.  Still claiming virgin and is getting to 2 months now and nothing for PL+CSad I'm tired and want to dump the ass for others who are really interested. Cheesy  She also claim of not trusting me – whether I dey for hit and run. I'm free to do every other thing but the down is no go area, but If I discover that she is fake,  PL+C will dump the silly ass.
iniekem (f)
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?
« #375 on: March 10, 2008, 02:56 PM »

that is the mystery of human relationships, its an unending cycle with the guy positioned to be on top, its nature
G17
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?
« #376 on: March 10, 2008, 03:01 PM »

that's the mystery of human relationships,,  its an unending cycle with the guy positioned to be on top,,  its nature
Emad (f)
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?
« #377 on: March 10, 2008, 03:02 PM »

Quote from: G17 on March 10, 2008, 03:01 PM
with the guy positioned to be on top,,  its nature

Bull shit , for me it is 50-50 or else i am out  Angry Angry
popin5 (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?
« #378 on: March 10, 2008, 04:49 PM »

what i will suggest to check such challenges, is that both parties should check for compatibility between them.
when u don't flow, its going to be a hectic task for both to measure up to each others expectations(several miles away from your fantasies). should have some things in common because love alone cannot continue to sustain and nurtue a relationship(have important and interesting things to talk about).
both parties should be potential Isaac Newton in discovering their partner's areas of interest and should try and be flexible to an extend so that when together u enjoy one anothers company that you would begin to dislike the fact that you would have to go, you would desire more contacts and will miss each other so much. this will motivate the calls and wonderful concepts for expression in SMS that u wouldnt want to delete them from your phone.
this is not the ultimate solution, remember is just a suggestion
nwando
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?
« #379 on: March 10, 2008, 06:04 PM »

Quote
guy thanks alot 4 bringin back our attention to the real issue here once again.
 since  @D-reloaded,  @4Him, @Nwando, @vampire, @morenike09 came on board this thread everything just turned up side down always making d forum luk like a way zone.
please lets aways take things easy oooo.
mind u am not mr. don't rock d boat, but loves when peace reigns 
 


Hmm chisolm , take ya time O  Cool
Elgaxton (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?
« #380 on: March 10, 2008, 06:23 PM »

selfishness from both sides finito! especially from the babes Smiley
stillwater (f)
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?
« #381 on: March 10, 2008, 07:53 PM »


selfishness from both sides finito! especially from the GUYS Smiley
adeboo (f)
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?
« #382 on: March 10, 2008, 08:46 PM »

Cause its just human nature to give up on chasing something when u have it in ur possession.
cyclopxdan (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?
« #383 on: March 10, 2008, 09:13 PM »

Ehmmm, its always like when yu are chasing them, they frant and do all sort of things, that alone is enough to forget them after 5mths or less
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