Why Do Guys Lose Interest In Relationships After The Chase?

because half the time the girl isnt all she cracked herself up to be.

                        
                       
                i think its just a guy thing!
                  because sometimes the the girl is not
                    boaring at all,
                      infact she now wants to see him all the time
                        if she has cash she wants to spend on him ,
                          she wants love attention and all that
                            she sends him SMS always, he just reads it and no repplies
                              he gives the excuse that he has no credit
                                she rechages his phone after one or two times call he stops
                          so u see that its really not the girls fult here.





                            expirience has shown that the chasing piriod
                                 other wise known as the toastting time
                                    is the best time a lady can really have
                                       because at that time the guy is really her
                                         toybox then , she calls the short then
                                           but when the guy johny begging choup sweet potato
                                               then he just stops calling and expects the girl to do all the
                                                   dirty job





                          so chicks hold your potato 4 long
                             if he wants u he would keep doing the dirty job
                                for you, hahahahahheehehhe
 
                 
    i think i should be a councelor to ladies
       i no say mo lenu gon
                                 

                   



                                           NO, I CANT

                                                because i am different

The calling should not be a one sided thing.
I dated a girl that calls me whenever she thinks i suppose to call but did not. Atimes, she call me with her last credit. I will then buy credit and send to her to pay her back.
Before her, i dated one girl that only flash whenever she want to hear from me. Atime she will not even flash for 2 months.
The call, text is also a good assessment for the man to determine your level of care for him.

Most girls don't realise it but more often than not,when a guy chops and starts going,its not because he's got what he wants,have u thought whether that all that is available on the plate?i mean it,many girls really have nothing else to offer?!They find it hard to pass through the discipline of developing their minds.they just develop THEIR LOOKS ,THEIR BODIES , and thats all that will be on offer if that is d case!!!!!!

I'd suggest that guys tend to lose in a relationship based on the following reasons: while chasing/trying to woo the lady it's always a new experience to him, he is always prepared because she might be unpredictable and act funny because life is an adventure. So the lady believes that since she'd accepts the guy's proposal the guy should live up to billing.

I think most of our naija babes take it too far perhaps due to cultural thing. A lady doesn't have to throw herself at a guy on the first approach I agree hundred percent.  But why lead the guy on when you don't want him in the first place?, why keep pushing him just to find out how far he can take it?. Why let him commit his time, money and emotion for so long?. We (men) are like little children sometimes, you push us too far we become rebelious, you buy us beautiful toy you get our attention (I'm nottalking about materialism here), you show us love we become our love, you are friendly to us u have us to yourself. There is this saying that "we (men) are like hardwood floor if you lay us down right the first time you walk on us forever".

As for me, I only owe you 3 unreturned calls within 3 weeks period. If you are too busy to return 3 consecutives calls, it could be you're too busy for me, you are out of town, you are currently in a relationship, or God forbid you are sick. Who want to waste his time anyway.  By the way why do u ladies always want to see us suffer like that?.

@nwando
dear,like i said,those that have developed only their looks are for the mattress,those that have developed other things like their minds,(because its primarily about companionship,which is a thing of d mind)will end up being companions for life!!!

lol@nwando

LOL
That is eh!
I'll have my ghana must go on the next locomotive back to Okija junction

Interesting,   

Simplest answer is once a man knows something belongs to him, the chase is over. It doesn't mean he doesn't love or care anymore, it only reflects a change in the order of priorities.

Life is afterall about the last big thing you did,,  so always make sure you man/woman is the last big thing you did.

And you guys will listen?

How i wish there was gsm when i was 'chaseable' lol

do  all of you understand the meaning of TERMS AND CONDITION APPLY

We always listen. If you think we don't its because you people are never plain.

The answer is this: For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction