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ne4real (f)
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it is left 4 both partieds to decide on what they want for themselves
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Rhea (m)
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Most couples consent to that; knowlingly or unknowlingly.
How else can you explain child delivery six months after wedding?
Let's be realistic. Some couples resort to that as a means of consolidating the marriage or arm-twisting domineering parents.
Some women however resort to that in getting the man to 'hurry up and settle down'.
While it goes against the 'no-sex-before-marriage-thingy', how many virgin brides, and grooms do we have these days?
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1regina10 (f)
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I am a woman and really, I'D be very confused. I mean what is his reasoning???  |
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mystikalb2 (m)
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@SHOWBOBO
ur really said it all, come all this yoruba's boys and girls way ful here, u wan tell me say u don forget ur traditions,
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nikynike (f)
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High rise in childlessness-High rise in divorce. If pregnanting is the best for the man let him go ahead.  |
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luluosas
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He is not a Christian and besides, he does not trust himself of fathering a child after holy wedlock.
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odiaseo (m)
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We do not know the full details and circumstances surrounding the guys desire for the bride to get pregnant. The fact that he demanded that, doesn't automatically make him a non christian. He may not have matured to take a stand against tradition which makes the word of God of no effect.
Is the girl in question a christian? If she is, she should consel him based on the bible. A medical examination should be able to clear any doubts about fertility.
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ThoniaSlim (f)
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That can't be an option, instead i wouldn't get married to such a man, cus its obvious he has security and trust issues i would not want to deal with.
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Winnergal (f)
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what if you get pregnant for him and he dumps you even before he marries you?  |
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