Banned From His Wife's Bedroom

why did they have separate room to start with? to get banned of because

even if couples have seperate bedrooms, its not ok 4 one 2 b banned from d other's bedroom. as much as they have rights 2 their privacy, they still have right 2 each other.
what i don't understand is why a third party (i mean @poster's mother) will have 2 come in and settle their differences, at least that's not healthy 4 a matured couple

@topic
i tire o .

It is really no problem if they have a seperate rooms.But the problem is why did she "bann" him
from entering her room?Your uncle should retrace his steps.
But come to think of it,I hope the woman is not Mike Tyson in that home,because the word "bann" connote
authocracy.

shakara oloje. banned from my wife`s bedroom? me? hm. she will be the one to bite her finger over it. wetin i wait for? kia, i don ban myself from the whole house for one week. let me run through my phone book,  he scrolls down,  yeah!

amina
edith
bekky
Hadiza
sally
chinyere
yes, xrty

all them will keep me occupied without stress, without yawa.

then when i decide to come back home, she must be ready to leave my house. i pay the rent, remember.

some liberties are not to be taken for granted. not these days.

i don laugh tie for here ooh. Make the wife beg him wife well well before a woman can Ban her husband from entering her room that mean there is an issue n it, i am suspecting it could be an issue of other woman outside,[i]i don't know it only a guess[b]the man might be sleeping around and the woman might not want to catch you know all these sexual transmitted diseases and it could be vis-versa.

[b]why on earth should husband and wife leave in a separate room.

@poster
if u have a say in this issue please kindly beg your uncle wife for forgive her husband.

@poster, please what exactly is the husband's offence? knowing that will help us understand this issue better. a one sided story is sometimes misleading oh.

and i say a resounding AMEN to your prayers.

well,i not impressed they had separate rooms.
then the wife should remember he could bann her too.u know men wahala is always worst and its difficult for a woman to keep up witha man's
waywardness.so she should be careful.(maybe the man is playing around-she no wan get hiv)

Please married couples should learn to be faithful to each other. Seperate rooms for married couple is not good at all. It shows they fail to understand each other completely.
Woman that is acting so harshly on her husband like this, who is marrying who?
Does that man have say in that house at all?
Even if the woman paid the house rent, feeds the family and do most of the responsibilities, bible says she must be submissive to her husband.
Please d attitude of banniing is very bad.  

na wao, i don't think banning one's hubby is the best way out of a misunderstanding in marriage no matter the offence.couples should learn to communicate.i also can't find any reason why a married couple should have sepearte rooms.In short the prist who wedded my husband and i advised that we should actually get a small bed for our room(not six spring o) that way,diffrences will be quickly resolved when body touch body-you know what i mean?From personal experience i can testify it works.

As for your uncle,If you can advice him next time he should try to handle such issues in house.it gets more complicated when you involve third parties in your relationship ESPECIALLY family members.He should find a way to apologise for whatever he has done wrong even if it means going on hid knees.Make e no worry,no body go see am and if his wife is wise,she no go tell anybody talkless of getting bigheaded on account of that.

LOL

How very unfortunate. the western movies and life style has over shadow our reasoning forgetting we have a long standing, respected and well deserve culture that these same western elite cherish so much.

I thought when a man and a woman agree to be one, even when things are going bad they stick to each other as glue? if so, where is the glue that bound these couples together? For a woman to ban her husband who takes his time to travel (if they are not from the same place) to her people to do the necessary thing that is require of a man and the woman now turn to deprive him of his matrimonial bed and room. she is asking for the inevitable to happen to her. 

She should blame her self for the worst outcome of her actions on me.                 Just bicos i love and marry you, that does not give you the guaranty to lock the bed room door on me. What nonsense                   I am an African to the core!!! 

before ya'll start jumping into conclusions, what did the guy do in the first place, did he cheat, because if he did they he needs to be banned so he doesn't pass on any disease, but if its a minor quarrel then they both should make up and start sharing one room, lol then the wife can ban the husband from the other side of the bed, dividing it with a bedsheet or a tape.

but the husband needs to apologize n stop involving a 3rd party

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how on earth can a woman ban her husband from entering her room,well,if it is me, i will never beg her to unbanned me, but all the same you have to allow the 2 couple to settle there matter ,because that is there problem.