Ladies: Your Love Life Or Your Career. Must We Choose?

When i was still studying engineering in school, one cynical lecturer told me engineering was practically a waste on women because we never have what it takes to work as engineers. I was soo mad!! So i set out to prove him wrong. i left school in August and i got a job in October in Abuja without having served.  the salary on my appointment letter was 63k. i knew it was too good 2 b true because they just told me they made a mistake and it shld be 35k. Its still good since i have no experience to offer.

my problem is, now my fiance believes that i'm worth more than that and he wants me to come back to ph where he is and get certifications before my service next yr february. i believe he just wants me near him since Abuja is no place for a young single lady on her own_abi? i really like the job here but i also want to be where he is.

Although living in Abj i tend to spend almost the 35k in a month i'm wondering whether i should give up such a job that is really what i want to do to go back to Ph because 'His royal Highness' wants me with him. Yes i miss him, yes i want to be with him but do i really have to sacrifice my career for that??

i'm so confused.