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babadee (m)
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yes! yes! yes!
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bballchick (f)
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no way will i eva fight ova a guy, hell no if he loved u he would av gotten rid of d ROSE girl, cause if u were not comfortable with her he should have listened to u, hes a loser ,
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Pip (m)
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Girl u did wrong and learnt yr lessons too. Absolutely nobody's worth fighting for. Yr boy friend or ex is lame
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Shalwz (f)
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Sorry girl, but its true that you r better off without that kind of unfaithfaul, lying player (, was waiting 2 dump since). Thank God that you got out of d r/ship wit just a few blows from the other chick. And look at d bright side; at least he didn't beat u for d other girl. But sis, learn one imptant lesson: NEVER EVER demean yourself and fight for a man. Though his ego and one side of him may be glad that he's such a dish and 2 babes could fight over him, but he will never appreciate or commend you 4 it! So kip your dignity intact and move on wit your beautiful life. Cheerio!
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ketch (f)
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Sorry girl, but its true that you r better off without that kind of unfaithfaul, lying player (, was waiting 2 dump since). Thank God that you got out of d r/ship wit just a few blows from the other chick. And look at d bright side; at least he didn't beat u for d other girl. But sis, learn one imptant lesson: NEVER EVER demean yourself and fight for a man. Though his ego and one side of him may be glad that he's such a dish and 2 babes could fight over him, but he will never appreciate or commend you 4 it! So kip your dignity intact and move on wit your beautiful life. Cheerio
common girl u should have read d hand writing on the wall. the guy was just playing you. and please never fight over a guy except he is your husband, and even that depends. . . ,
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edmondo (m)
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@poster
move on wit u life n forget about d guy
too much of nigerian movie dey disturb d guy.
@seun,
i think u should ban her 4 few days so shee no go fite because of guy again 4 her life.
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2bad (m)
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dump him, there are so many of us searching for you.  |
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sect (m)
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@seun how can you consider banning someone because of her soured love life!
@poster just forget about the guy and move on
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showbobo (m)
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can't you people read???she just came up with the story.it didnt actually happen to her or anybody, so,wassup with the advice???
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efuah (f)
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grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrinnnnnnn   |
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pmdaboh (f)
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@Poster
Please do not "fight" over any man again. For one thing, it confirms to the man that "he is all that" (an American phrase we use), and it demeans your status as a woman who has some dignity about herself.
Why fight the girl, does not your man know that he is NOT SUPPOSE to allow a girl over to his house that continually is trying to seduce him? Does he care about how that makes you feel after he knows he told you about it? I think he likes the fact that he is making you jealous, for that is a tactic and game as well. The games men and women play in relationships is really unnecessary. Relationships can thrive on building a truthful foundation, communication, trust, respect, and a mutual understanding of what is, or is not, acceptable while you two are together.
One mam I use to date always use to tell me about how this woman or that woman would try to come on to him, but he did not want them. To me, the ony purpose of continually telling a girlfriend or boyfriend this type of information is that they want to evoke jealously. He is handsome, and I am good looking too (or so I have been told). So, one day I told him, "you know just because I do not tell you how many men try to come on to me, does not mean that it does not happen, but I do not know what the point would be to mention this; for I am with you and do not respond favorably when those men try." Well, he did not want to hear that, for he said "lets not talk about it", and guess what, he never did again.
It seems as though your boyfriend had a "game plan" to break up, for he knew the girl liked him, wanted him sexually, and still he allowed her to come over. Do not be surprised if you hear they are together (at least together for a short while). Perhaps he could not have sex with her while you two were together, and it made it easier to have sex with her after you two officially broke up. MOVE ON . . .if he truly loved you, he would not use your fight as an excuse to break it off--especially if he contributed towards the confusion n the first place.
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mamaput (f)
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just maybe the poor man has a good job and cannot afford a fighting wife.
men in certain positions need discreet women.
i do not want to imagine a Hilary Clinton fighting see what became of lady DI
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showbobo (m)
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@Poster
Please do not "fight" over any man again. For one thing, it confirms to the man that "he is all that" (an American phrase we use), and it demeans your status as a woman who has some dignity about herself.
Why fight the girl, does not your man know that he is NOT SUPPOSE to allow a girl over to his house that continually is trying to seduce him? Does he care about how that makes you feel after he knows he told you about it? I think he likes the fact that he is making you jealous, for that is a tactic and game as well. The games men and women play in relationships is really unnecessary. Relationships can thrive on building a truthful foundation, communication, trust, respect, and a mutual understanding of what is, or is not, acceptable while you two are together.
One mam I use to date always use to tell me about how this woman or that woman would try to come on to him, but he did not want them. To me, the ony purpose of continually telling a girlfriend or boyfriend this type of information is that they want to evoke jealously. He is handsome, and I am good looking too (or so I have been told). So, one day I told him, "you know just because I do not tell you how many men try to come on to me, does not mean that it does not happen, but I do not know what the point would be to mention this; for I am with you and do not respond favorably when those men try." Well, he did not want to hear that, for he said "lets not talk about it", and guess what, he never did again.
It seems as though your boyfriend had a "game plan" to break up, for he knew the girl liked him, wanted him sexually, and still he allowed her to come over. Do not be surprised if you hear they are together (at least together for a short while). Perhaps he could not have sex with her while you two were together, and it made it easier to have sex with her after you two officially broke up. MOVE ON . . .if he truly loved you, he would not use your fight as an excuse to break it off--especially if he contributed towards the confusion n the first place.
some people would never read other people's opinions before posting theirs, you have just wasted your time on a common nollywood movie. |
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shy1amy (f)
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@ Seun,
Time ran out on me as i was posting this trade "He Dumped Me Because I Fought Over Him (To Keep Him)" in the cyber cafe so I couldn't log out my email account on nairaland.com before i left, so i am very sure someone else who used the PC after I left posted that "It is just a scene from a home movie" of a thing, complicating my trade.
I sware, this just happened to me last wkend, why in the world would I post some thing about myself if its not true?
I just don't know what is wrong with people, how can someone use my email account to post rubish making a fool out of me.
Seun I hope u understand my situation here but if you want to ban me, its up to you.
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ACL (f)
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SHY
don't worry no one can ban you & u don't have to swear because we believe you.
my advise
1. yoruba proverd says,(IPASAN TA FI NO IYALE OWA LOKE AJA FUN IYAWO) meaning the whip thats use for the ex is hidden up for the new. when your ex is ready to replace rose hers would be a WRESTLEMANIA .maybe on third mainland bridge and not in his house.
2. i made same mistake once, i dint fight the girl but fought the guy.
i later apologised , when i saw that he was enjoyin the new me i just dumped him for someone else. he came begging but it was too late. he taught he was smart but i was smarter.
revenge is good but very expensive. i advise you don't do anything.
3. you will see that posterity will judge the two of you.
Take care.
seun don't ban her o.
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showbobo (m)
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@ Seun,
Time ran out on me as i was posting this trade "He Dumped Me Because I Fought Over Him (To Keep Him)" in the cyber cafe so I couldn't log out my email account on nairaland.com before i left, so i am very sure someone else who used the PC after I left posted that "It is just a scene from a home movie" of a thing, complicating my trade.
I sware, this just happened to me last wkend, why in the world would I post some thing about myself if its not true?
I just don't know what is wrong with people, how can someone use my email account to post rubish making a fool out of me.
Seun I hope u understand my situation here but if you want to ban me, its up to you.
you posted this topic Yesterday at 06:48:00 PM and your second reply was at 07:46:57 PM, you mean you left your account on for an hour or what??you already fooled us all by posting a nollywood story here, just beg for forgiveness and don't say somebody used your account to post rubbish , *really pissed at the liar* |
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whitelexi (m)
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Hahaha. . . After reading all these posts before mine, i can only say one thing: There are guys worth fighting over!
Fighting is not mature oh, i believe there are many other ways to resolve a conflict, but just as gold and diamonds are precious, good men are also rare and should be considered priceless too!
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MP007 (m)
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you are dumb asxxxxholllllll. dam right i said , when will u ladies learn,
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Amigoz (f)
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 * shakes head as i wonder if to leave a reply or not. I have decided my advice is not required, Counsellors before me have already spoken*@ Poster, If it really happened to you, hpe you have gained something from all the advices. All the best Cheers me dear
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ehie007 (m)
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Some men are worth fighing for. it depends on the scenario, not physical fighting o!. Goodmen are rare treasures. Anywawy: guys its 12 days to go for the Fidelity Public offer to close. This is an opportunity no to miss at N8/share. We have the best stock in the market presently and would love you nairalanders to invest. The sooner you invest the better your chances of full allotment. Please if u need forms at your disposal i cand email a personalised form to your emails addys. All you need to do is to print out the personalised form, fill it and pay it into any fidelity bank closest to you. If your interested contact me with the following means: 1) ehie007@yahoo.com2) 08030513655 3) Fidelty Bank Plc 23 Awolowo road Ikoyi Lagos. (Dept.: Business Process) My name is Ehi and i work for Fidelity Bank. Hala   |
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Bblak (f)
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What a dumb thing to do???  Shakes headI'm sure u've heard it all. Guys are not worth fighting over.move on with your life and don't you ever try such again.  |
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segzi cres (m)
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you did a good job ojare putting that intruder in her place. hehe but em, you lost the fight
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chukz4real (m)
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@Poster,
All have been said. My prayer is that u create the time to go through the contribution of fellow Nairalanders. You are beautiful girl that' suppose not even to do much before guys calls. He never or maybe once loved u but, from your thread, he' been looking for an excuse to say "Its All Over". Accept it by faith and move on with life. Though don't know u characterwise, but for beauty, u'r a girl of guys dream.
Don't even tell him goodbye.
Tkea, I still dey available anyway oooooooo, only sey u no let me c your email address oooooooooooooooooooo
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pterygott (f)
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next time fight again u hear?
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Carlosein (m)
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you posted this topic Yesterday at 06:48:00 PM and your second reply was at 07:46:57 PM, you mean you left your account on for an hour or what??you already fooled us all by posting a nollywood story here, just beg for forgiveness and don't say somebody used your account to post rubbish, *really pissed at the liar*
@showbobo sorry i fail to see your point. she said she could not logout her account before her time expired at the cafe. well, if that's the case, it can run a long time till the system is either shut down/restarted or her n/land account logged out. and abstain from calling her a liar, (just imagine that what she said about her account was true and you would have accused her falsely). hope you don't have to eat your words later  |
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anney (f)
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@poster
move on with your life,is not going 2 be easy 2 do that but do it!cheers
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efuah (f)
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haba!! the poster said this happens to be a scene in one nigerian movies and you guys are still posting advice . . . open ya eyes and see well 
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tglaz (m)
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I wonder why some guys could behave in such a degrading conduct.Thank God you are still alive to see it happen.Love aint blind,it sees clearly.
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semidaraeb (m)
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Girl sorry for what happend he was looking for an excuse to dump you and he is even tired of using you as a sex machine for his regular service when he wants one
the other girl might just be the one he is actually planning to go out with and he has probabily bad mouthed you in your absence that is why she has effontry to talk to you the way she did,if not she wuldnt there do that which she did and also she probabily is not trying to seduce him but rather they are already frolicking in bed together
Sorry girl shit happens
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dremoney (m)
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i love the guy.
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