Am A Russian Girl And Am In Love Wit Nigerian Guy

 HOW CAN I KNOW IF MY LOVE (BOYFRIEND) IS SERIOUS WITH ME IF AM FROM RUSSIA AND OUR
MENTALITIE IS SO DIFERRENT!!1
WE ARE TOGETHER FOR MORE THEN ONE YEAR, HE IS IGBO GUY, I KNOW HIS FAMILY BUT ONLY THROUGHT
PHONE. WE USED TO TALK TO HIS BROTHES AND SISTER AND ALSO HIS PARENTS.
WE DON'T HAVE PROBLEM. MAY ONE PROBLEM WE ARE FROM DIFERENT COUNTRIES.
HE IS TELLIN ME THAT WE WILL GET MARRIED SOON. BUT SOMETHING IS WORRYIN ME!!!!
IF ANYBODY GUYS AND GIRLS CAN GIVE ME ADVICE please DO IT!!!

What exactly is worrying you ?

Hi Tanushka, I am an irish lady married to an igbo man and have been to Nigeira. He MAY be serious with you.  how old is the man? its good that you have spoken to his family but its very important that you meet them in person. There is just no way of telling. Tanushka, the only thing you can do it is just give him the benefit of the doubt.  Remember there are a huge amount of differences between european ladies and Nigerian men just be patient and compromise with him. Nigerian men don't like to be equal to women they like to be strong and the head of the family. In their culture/society women look up to men and serve them like kings.  If you love your man you will treat him like a king and vice versa,  also you need to learn about his culture so open up to that and ask him about his tradition if you have not already done so. Communication is the key. Does he plan on staying in Russia? PLease make sure you do not get pregnant before you marry as they cannot accept these things  . Good luck.