My Mum Is Still Being Chased By Men

My mom's still being chased by men,

I got to knnow by reading her text messages and hearing her conversation on the phone, with oooooooout her knowledge,

i'm really disturbed, cause i don't know what would become of me and my siblings when one of this men finaly gets her

from the text messages it sounds that they are still begging her and she's like refusing cause she's got children, I even read someone say her first born (that's me) is not old enough   and is no excuse (_{can you imagine})

you guys should tell me what to do, I'm really confused

And, how old is your mom? You shouldn't be reading her text messages either, I don't even read my fiancee's! 

Not a thoughtful thing to say - we don't know the history of his father's absence. He could be late, who knows?

You're meant to be giving him advice regarding his mother, I'd say that's very disrespectful. There are situations where jokes are appropriate, this isn't one of them.

u still havn't told us where papa is and how old mama is.

i guess she should be old enough to handle such advances.
its just normal that women get men come around all the time.

its left for her to make the best decision.

i think mama is ok, afterall, she hasn't brought anyone home yet.

Some people go just post sha!

yea peps like siena are right. we may not know the crust of the whole matter, from your Pop whereabout, how old u or your mum are, or d likes. But from your story, it seems your parents r seperated.

Since we all don't have these info, my candid advice is that - whatever thing may be going on, You NEED TO BE A MAN, STAND UP TO UR RESPONSIBLILITY AS D FIRST BORN, TO PROTECT URSELF, UR SIBLING'S & UR FAMILY'S INTEGRITY. ACT SMARTLY, not like a kid. Do your findings, Talk maturely with your Mum. Do your best, right. Good luck to u

People, am sorry to digress a little, i found my profile pix to be too large. i've tried doing it all to no avail. please can someone tell me how i can reduce it to a smaller size. thanks so much.

Abi, well things does happen such way though, but omo is aint easy seeing your self in kind of situation, u really don't hv option i guess, but stil thank God she even think of her children, if na that kind yeye moms she go just dey do her thing, nothing dey happen, well things will be aiight though!

@ pterygott,  she must be a hottie!

like u right.

could u do me a favour? how can i reduce my pix like urs. mine's too large. i've tried reducing it all to no avail.

cheers dear.

  so your mom is still smoking hot! , are your folks still an item? if no then all i have to type or say is that she has the right to be happy and women have some ''basic'' needs (if you get what i mean ) but you just have to be matured bout the whole thingy being the first born and all,  you have to be able to control your emotions even if she ends up with a guy or a man or a baba 70 (i reject it for your mom-c) 

  p.s how old are you?

Abeg Phiniter wetin be your age?

@ edddie, the only way i can think of is for you to reduce the size (pixel number) of the photo before uploading it.

open the photo in MS paint, click image, then stretch/skew. and reduce the percentage of the photo. then save it and upload and see if that helps.

another way that might be helpful: if you have Corel Photo Down loader or any other image application software. use the tools in it to reduce the size of the photo, sae and upload.

hope this works for you.

eyaaaaaaaaaaaa i really feel for you dear brother.i do read my mums messages and she reads mine too.we are so very close so i don't see any harm in doing so.it depends on how close you are with your mum.now to your problem;
where is your dad(late or seperated)
how do your mum dress?
have you told her what you saw in her phone?i mean does she know you read her messages?

my mum is really endowed with a nice backside that i can't help but sometimes get jealous of.she knows that a dresses very well too(at least  befitting a married woman living in niaja)guess if am in your shoes,i would discuss it with her.whatever she says would determine how to solve the problem.goodluck folk but don't forget shes got her life to live.

@poster i know you are angry and jealous over your mum,
don't worry she wont hurt you and your other siblings, she wont remarry if thats your fear ok. you can still call her , speak with her, tell her how you feel. tell her how much you and your siblings loves her, that will do the magic too.

peace

Take it from someone who is still there, my dad pursues young girls like crazy, he even tried snatching my brothers

girlfriend, well not to drift to far away, if it hurts you that much, just approach her about it. All these SO- CALLED   

GROWNUPS that are still as RANDY as hell. I wonder how i will introduce my dad to my fiancee when that time comes.

u dint give us the whole details, is she separated from your dad? Please lets be careful with our replies, this is someone's mumm, no need for rude, suggestive or cat call remarks