My Mum Is Still Being Chased By Men

This is very disturbing to you i know. Its good to know that she rebuffs those men. keep tracking her with all d wisdom u need.
As soon as you observe any emotional imbalance on her part, try and get at it and help her out. She is a woman, you have the responsibilty to protect her.

One Hot mama!

my own is,is your father still a life or is he dead, even if he is not with mama u have to respect her decision u can change her from not been our mama. think well

@poster u'll grow up to know that there are always MEN like that around,
Help yourself,  FREE your mind, You should start growing and thinking of your place,

I understand what you feel,

i look like my mum and have all her kind of curves so i know i'll still be chased by men even when i'll be 80 years old 

@poster
Why not tell us where your father is first and then we will know what to say instead of all these imaginations.

In this part of the world, during the night before the burial of  someone, if a man ,the widow is forced to drink the water used to wash the corpse of her husband to prove her innocence but if a woman the widower is presented with a damsel for the night to consol him over the death of his wife!


God will Judge! _{a prayer of the helpless}

@ MAKI
 
    You sure got a big paire of curves on your chest baby.

Sorry Nairalanders, I'm not trying to put you guys on suspence, I've not been online lately I just saw most of the reply and I'm really grateful to responses gotten from you guys

like I've said, my dad's late and these men are really desperate, the problem is that they are many and I feel my mum even if she wants to resettle, she would be really confuse as to who to go with,
and their advances are really risky, I mean they even come with mum to our home sometimes, and even if I had not known misssion, I'd still have suspected something else, they come as office collegues but their mission is to come and see her children, so as to know if she's really saying the thruth about having kids _{(saw that also from a text I read)}

so you guys can see why i'm confused, not that i'm selfish but in my situation it can really be tight

some even try to be friends with me,
I've only accepted friendship with one of 'em _{cause of his money} (he's really a money bag)

Bros,
Leave your mama make she rest, haba! You wan marry am?

@ poster
 what u just wrote about being friends with one of the men because of his money is not right. u might get attached to him because of his money and your mum would feel since u re cool with the guy she could give in to him. I know because am a mother and know that woman especially wives and mother allow the influence of their family change their decisions. So please allow your mum to make her decision. She might not be interested in remarrying, ( it is not written anywhere that a widow must remarry)

 So do not add to your mum's confusion just because u are drawn to money. Money bags might have a terrible behaviour towards women, You don't know and I guess u do not what to find out from your mummy's body.

 
I think she is right Getting attached to the money bag is even worse. so please ma guy just allow your mama make her own decision without you interfering. though you can choose to bring up the issue and give advicesif you choose to, but please talk to her in a matured way.

u did not give us the full details, is your father alive or he has divorced your mother.That can't be when your father i sstill there,so if he is there or even if not there i will advise your mother to continue avioding those men

Are jealous or being threatened of your mum having admirers or having a fling

now and then? She is a woman and she have her feminine needs a d desires

just like any other woman, even you too. So please, feel free to allow her live

her life the way she chooses just like her kids.

You're just like the proverbial "ara Epe" who has to have eyes in everything.  I think you should really be ashamed of yourself for going through your mum's mails.  Mails are private or supposedly so,  but with "ojuyobos" like you sniffing around looking for what is not lost, expecting e-mails to be accorded the desired respect is like waiting for light to be steady in this country.

So now that you've gone through her mails, what have achieved ?.  You have just violated her privacy.

Let's see how brave you are.  Why don't you call her and discuss your fears and concerns with her and let's see how she'll react to your busybody tendencies.  Engage your mind positively and mind your business.  If she decides (which will eventually come to pass) to date anyone, I can guarantee that you'll be the last to know, trust women for that, so choose your worries.

What has her staying in America got to do with this? What she is trying to let u and any other chauvinistic male out there know is that as long as the husband is late, there is nothing (morally, socially, religiously ,read 1Cor 7:8-11 e.tc) wrong in the woman remarrying. God! sometimes I get tired of the hypocricy and selfishness of our menfolk. If it were to be the other way round, then nothing is wrong with the man remarrying, but when it concerns the Woman, she doesn't have any need for a companion except to take care of her children abi? Na Wah for men O!