Help. My Girlfriend Wants Me To Choose : Or She Will Leave Me

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vindoheney (m)
Help. My Girlfriend Wants Me To Choose : Or She Will Leave Me
« on: October 29, 2007, 09:40 AM »

somebody needs your advice from this room. He is a guy that likes making friends with opposite sex more than the same sex. He has come to find out that he prefers that because when ever he needs help its the female friends that come rushing to help him.

But his girlfriend did not have anything against his preference ffor friends but recently, she is not happy that the number of girls calling him and asking him for help has increased alot. She gave him hell and told him to choose either to continue with her and reduce the number of girls as friends or loose her and go on with his collection. Up to the point that the best friend is a gilr and the girlfriend does not like this.

He loves the girl alot and even wants to marry her.He needs advice on what to do.
segzi cres (m)
Re: Help. My Girlfriend Wants Me To Choose : Or She Will Leave Me
« #1 on: October 29, 2007, 09:44 AM »

he should leave her and be a polygamous man. what do you think 2 is better than 1.
freee her!!!! is she supposed to control you? NO!!!!!   don't make a woman control you cause they over use the power and they are good at that. player! wisen up.
jkpretty (f)
Re: Help. My Girlfriend Wants Me To Choose : Or She Will Leave Me
« #2 on: October 29, 2007, 10:13 AM »

If u really love ur girl, u may be loosing her to ur so called "love for the female gender" If u still think u can handle the two, U may be pushing her away.

Yes, i love ladies to admire who i'm seeing, but when he simply can't pinch himself, & gets engulfed, there comes the problem.
tonia2000 (f)
Re: Help. My Girlfriend Wants Me To Choose : Or She Will Leave Me
« #3 on: October 29, 2007, 01:16 PM »


Yes he has to choose,if really he loves his girlfriend so well he has to reduce his no of friends.Also how can his best friend be a lady,I'm sorry i may not accept that too if i wr his g/f.
arshy (m)
Re: Help. My Girlfriend Wants Me To Choose : Or She Will Leave Me
« #4 on: October 29, 2007, 01:54 PM »


@poster

this is a very simple case, just put yourself in her shoe, if u can take that from her.
She is only trying to protect what is dear to her, she is not wrong in anyway my friend.
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Try and cut down the number, all that glitters are not gold.
Have a nice day
FactorChic (f)
Re: Help. My Girlfriend Wants Me To Choose : Or She Will Leave Me
« #5 on: October 29, 2007, 08:04 PM »

Quote from: arshy on October 29, 2007, 01:54 PM
@poster

this is a very simple case, just put yourself in her shoe, if u can take that from her.
She is only trying to protect what is dear to her, she is not wrong in anyway my friend.
.
Try and cut down the number, all that glitters are not gold.
Have a nice day

MAY GOD BLESS YOU FOR THAT COMMENT! Kiss Kiss
ima1 (f)
Re: Help. My Girlfriend Wants Me To Choose : Or She Will Leave Me
« #6 on: October 29, 2007, 08:33 PM »

you can't eat ur cake n have it too, if ur friend loves this girl then he should look into cutting down on the women around him. i doubt he would like it if it was the other way around.
Busta (f)
Re: Help. My Girlfriend Wants Me To Choose : Or She Will Leave Me
« #7 on: October 29, 2007, 09:40 PM »

if he loves her like he claims . . he better cut off those women or at least limit them
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