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Winnergal (f)
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This is what i've been hearing people say but i don't know whether to believe it or not: That white guys don't like black women i.e. they are not attracted to black women. And even those of them who date black women treat them like shit. Black guys even treat their white girlfriends/wives better than they would treat their black girlfiends/wives.
I think we black women deserve our due respect. We are no slaves or servants. When are we going to be accepted and respected just like white women are being accepted and respected?
My black ladies in da house what d'y'all think?
Guys could also share their opinions. Cheers
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iice (f)
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Funny, from what i know, they treat their women like queens  . . .
IMO, it's not that they don't find us attractive, i think it's more like who we are (I mean the 'strong black sistah') that intimidates them. I have friends who date black women. Hah! they let the women walk all over them.
Am not so much used to seeing the White man/Black woman relationship as much as the Black man/White woman 
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foryou (m)
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men i hate white people like hell because they are all racist ,but i have a white girl as my wife and she know that i don't like white man if any of them date my child i can kill the child believe me white people are race too much
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Winnergal (f)
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@Niceuzor
Surprised or shocked? Na which one?
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FactorChic (f)
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that's is a BIG LIE!! It's been proven, White Guys treat their ladies (black women), WAY BETTER than d black men,
A lot of black women have grown tired of being alone or celibate and now were considering to date outside of the race to find love and companionship, they're not even considering it anymore, they just go for it, !
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chaloo (m)
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money4you
It is difficuly to understand people like you. You say that you are married to a white girl but you hate white race. You say that you could even kil your child if some white is attracted to them. how your brain works.
You need to rise above the inferior complexity. Black race is no less than white or any other race.
between i am not a niaja man.
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Siena (m)
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men i hate white people like hell because they are all racist ,but i have a white girl as my wife and she know that i don't like white man if any of them date my child i can kill the child believe me white people are race too much
What on earth are you babbling about?!  I can't make any sense of your post. You consider white people are racist, yet you're married to one! How does she feel about your hate? How will your children feel, they'll grow up even more confused and full of hate than you are! Honestly, why did you marry your wife? Did she get pregnant, or was there another reason?  |
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naija_diva (f)
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@topic
i ususally see it the other way around, white girl, dating black guys.
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omogenaija (f)
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money4you u need to talk to God |
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foryou (m)
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chaloo @ you need to go to hospital for medical check up ok? it seems you are a fucking white right? i have not marry my girl yet but she got pregnant and i love her she is not like white rase
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typical
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i do not see many white men with black women. Some of my friends have indicated that they are not necessarily attracted to black girls. Some would rather have black women just to be able to say to people that they have tasted and used black women before.
I don't think they are attracted to black women the way white women are attracted to black boys
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Leilah (f)
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I know lots of white men here that are not racists that are interested in black ladies. I also know a few who are married to lovely respectable white educated men and these men treat them with respect they don't go around cheating on their asses at the slightest chance nor do they treat them like chattels, house maids etc.
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mazaje (m)
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men i hate white people like hell because they are all racist ,but i have a white girl as my wife and she know that i don't like white man if any of them date my child i can kill the child believe me white people are race too much See how some people's brains work, go and get a life you unscrupulous maniac, how can you hate white people and stll want to marry a wite woman? ignorant lunatic. |
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chiogo (f)
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uh uh, white men don't date no black women. Rather, it's black men datin' white women. I swear black folks are stupid. Even if white dudes think black girls are cute, they don't date them but black dudes are stupid as usual, u know d sayin' "u don't realize how important what u have is until u lose it", this applies to black folks. They look down on their girls. Most of 'em would mess around with a black girl but when they want to marry, they marry a white/latino chick. why?? idk, maybe they're scared of their color?/ You know like how most white folks are scared of every black they come across, thinkin' all black folks are crack-heads?/ u would expect that a black person would know better but no, they follow suit. That's mental slavery!! You see black folks sayin' stuff like "u dark-skinned fool" like it's a crime to be dark-skinned, as if they're not black too. For real, these stuff piss me off but then, that's their problem. Like i always say, am not black, jare. Am Nigerian.
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mutter (f)
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Chigo, there are also many black guys who leave a relationship or marriage with a white woman and then go home to marry.
Maybe we are all seeing it from our own point of view.
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chiogo (f)
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Lol, @mutter, am not talkin' about African dudes when i said black. I don't believe africans are black. When i say black, i mean African-Americans. 
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(fake)david
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@Poster - where do you get your assertion from?
A white man can die to put his p enis inside a black p ussy - it has been proved by research that the wishes of most white men on their dying bed is to have one last chance of putting their treasured d ick inside a black p ussy.
Your assertions are outright baselss and wrong - my dear gooness.
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JustGood (m)
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Why do these people like to mix us up with Black Americans?
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JustGood (m)
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I know lots of white men here that are not racists that are interested in black ladies. I also know a few who are married to lovely respectable white educated men and these men treat them with respect they don't go around cheating on their asses at the slightest chance nor do they treat them like chattels, house maids etc.
You mean they are better at concealing their indiscretions and not very lousy about their indiscretions? Such rubbish assertions as if some of us don't live in he midst of mainly white people. I live in a massively predominant white place and the few black babes here will not marry a white man, except some of those girls from Congo and Rwanda who happen to be asylum seekers. We sometimes see what they really are, not what they want the rest of the world to believe. They can get really violent and unfaithful. Never at home. Always out at the pub for drinks etc abeg make we hear word jare |
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Hero (m)
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You kids are silly. 96% of married African-Americans are married to a fellow blacks person whether they be African, Caribbean, Afro-Hispanic and or African-American. That's the second lowest rate of intermarriage behind European-Americans who are about 97%. Asian and Native Americans are the highest mixers with rates in only the 70 percentile range and hispanics follow them with a rate in the 80 percentile range. I don't know were you guys live and or get your information from, but African-Americans DONT mix to all that great of a level and they definitely don't marry outside their group to any significant level either. Don't let the TV propaganda construe to you what the reality is. While many black men have and will mess around at times with some non-black girls, when it comes time to settle and down and get serious the vast majority see a black women as their only credible option and statistics have proven this. Many say, and I can't really disagree, that African-Americans may just be about the most flat out racist and or racialist people in America, meaning that they and most others don't click very well. The few little blacks you may see out on the street and or on TV in a mixed relationship is NOTHING when one compares it to the fact of that there's over 44Million of us in this nation. If I had to genuinely assess the situation, I would come to the conclusion of that amongst the Negro race, African-Americans were the most non-compliant group, when it came to even the desire to want to mix with groups outside our race in a serious relationship. For most their is no other option but a fellow black in their minds. Africans here in the US see to be the most complient and disierous of such a relationship. They love them some white folks, especial the fresh off the plane ones.  |
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almondjoy (f)
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@Poster - where do you get your assertion from?
A white man can die to put his p enis inside a black p ussy - it has been proved by research that the wishes of most white men on their dying bed is to have one last chance of putting their treasured d ick inside a black p ussy.
Your assertions are outright baselss and wrong - my dear gooness.
Just Imagine!  I agree by your "gooness"!!!  You kids are silly. 96% of married African-Americans are married to a fellow blacks person whether they be African, Caribbean, Afro-Hispanic and or African-American. That's the second lowest rate of intermarriage behind European-Americans who are about 97%. Asian and Native Americans are the highest mixers with rates in only the 70 percentile range and hispanics follow them with a rate in the 80 percentile range. I don't know were you guys live and or get your information from, but African-Americans DONT mix to all that great of a level and they definitely don't marry outside their group to any significant level either. Don't let the TV propaganda construe to you what the reality is. While many black men have and will mess around at times with some non-black girls, when it comes time to settle and down and get serious the vast majority see a black women as their only credible option and statistics have proven this. Many say, and I can't really disagree, that African-Americans may just be about the most flat out racist and or racialist people in America, meaning that they and most others don't click very well. The few little blacks you may see out on the street and or on TV in a mixed relationship is NOTHING when one compares it to the fact of that there's over 44Million of us in this nation.If I had to genuinely assess the situation, I would come to the conclusion of that amongst the Negro race, African-Americans were the most non-compliant group, when it came to even the desire to want to mix with groups outside our race in a serious relationship. For most their is no other option but a fellow black in their minds. Africans here in the US see to be the most compliant and desirous of such a relationship. They love them some white folks, especial the fresh off the plane ones. Please educate them. I think some have been watchin' too much of American Idol and "Heroes" series! See how some people's brains work, go and get a life you unscrupulous maniac, how can you hate white people and stll want to marry a wite woman? ignorant lunatic.
What on earth are you babbling about?! I can't make any sense of your post. You consider white people are racist, yet you're married to one! How does she feel about your hate? How will your children feel, they'll grow up even more confused and full of hate than you are! Honestly, why did you marry your wife? Did she get pregnant, or was there another reason? It is called "subconscious racism".  Even in the sleep. Why do these people like to mix us up with Black Americans?
I see you have superior qualities eh? How dare "those people" mix "you people" up with "them peoples" of tainted blood!!! |
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JustGood (m)
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I see you have superior qualities eh? How dare "those people" mix "you people" up with "them peoples" of tainted blood!!! I see you can only associate dissimilarities with superiority/inferiority. Fact is, we are different. I fail to understand people who try to lay claim to intelligence but fail to exhibit same when it comes to certain things. We are different! It does not necessarily make any better than the other. |
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almondjoy (f)
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I see you can only associate dissimilarities with superiority/inferiority.
Fact is, we are different.
I fail to understand people who try to lay claim to intelligence but fail to exhibit same when it comes to certain things.
We are different! It does not necessarily make any better than the other.
Why do you spend so much time trying to convince yourself about obvious facts? Who is arguing with the fact that "we are different"? Is the Hausa man not different from the Ibo man? And the Bini man not different from the Calabar man? Like we need you to tell us "we are different"? There are subtle differences within any group of people not to talk of different groups of people. It is redundant reading it from you that's all. Please come up with original ideas.  |
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JustGood (m)
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Why do you spend so much time trying to convince yourself about obvious facts? Who is arguing with the fact that "we are different"? Is the Hausa man not different from the Ibo man? And the Bini man not different from the Calabar man? Like we need you to tell us "we are different"? There are subtle differences within any group of people not to talk of different groups of people. It is redundant reading it from you that's all. Please come up with original ideas. Now you're being daft. It was you who got riled up because I mentioned the difference. Do you just feel compelled to say things, even when they are pointless? |
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almondjoy (f)
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Now you're being daft. It was you who got riled up because I mentioned the difference. Do you just feel compelled to say things, even when they are pointless?
Hmmm!  |
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almondjoy (f)
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I wonder oh! |
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uspry1 (f)
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Winnergal is so wrong and narrowed-mind. That is obviously that she never been outside of Nigeria to see the REALITY. If she comes to the USA, she will have her culture shock and adjust her lifestyle---won't be the same like Nigeria.
I have seen many white men dating black women everywhere in the shopping malls, colleges, even in family reunion, birthday party, nightclubs, etc. More likely both white men/black women who are the same taste, same middle-upper class, same education background, common interests, and excellent financial stability.
In my Baptist church, we have few wedding events that happened to be white man got married to black woman, our church member. My church is multi-cultural church people, but still large number of blacks.
This is 2007, not 1960s despite of racism out there in the USA.
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Blatant
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Winnergal is so wrong and narrowed-mind. That is obviously that she never been outside of Nigeria to see the REALITY. If she comes to the USA, she will have her culture shock and adjust her lifestyle---won't be the same like Nigeria.
I have seen many white men dating black women everywhere in the shopping malls, colleges, even in family reunion, birthday party, nightclubs, etc. More likely both white men/black women who are the same taste, same middle-upper class, same education background, common interests, and excellent financial stability.
In my Baptist church, we have few wedding events that happened to be white man got married to black woman, our church member. My church is multi-cultural church people, but still large number of blacks.
This is 2007, not 1960s despite of racism out there in the USA.
Come back and tell us what happens to their marriages in 10 years |
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lazy (m)
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I don't know about how they treat the women but historically European Men have always been fascinated with African Women. That is why in the Diaspora you had so many Mulattos, Quadroons, and Octaroons running around. They have always sexually desired them and wanted to be with them. The idea that European Men are not attracted to African Women is crazy. Seeing a European Man with an African Woman is not anything out of the ordinary because it has always been like that.
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almondjoy (f)
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Dating for an enriched life experience okay. But marriage?--- Uh-uhn! The least successful of all inter-racial marriages is black women marrying white men--don't care where the black woman comes from. Those marriages never last more than 2 years unless you are "Kate Henshaw Nuttal"!---Even Diana Ross! Don't have to provide any stats here. Just look around you or check out your relatives/friends who are black females marrying white men. Those relationships are doomed for some reason. No friends, constant inter-racial wars with relatives and in-laws(like I have time for that) fake smiles, tea/coffee in the hot sun, speaking through your nose without Pidgin English" all year round? Confusing ma poor kids with different shades of relatives! God forbid bad thing oh! I love ma pidgin too much for that kind of sacrifice!  Say who die? So I personally would never dream of marrying a white man for cultural reasons. Will gladly date some for the sole purposes of enriching ma database, making new friends, exposure and enhancing ma optimum performance in the day and night. --Stick to your own kind---"born in and away bred Nigerian"! --No born and bred in Nigeria please! You must have spent at least 10 years outside Nigeria--thanks! |
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