Boyfriend Threatens To Break Up If I Don't Have Sex With Him

Hey
girl d prob is lovn him 2 da bone.How long av u been 2geda?

You can be rest assured he's no good

Let me give you a tip.  You don't have to fall in love with the first guy that asks you out.  Seek out a good one.

@ Poster,
at 27 and still a virgin, I should expect you to know all the tricks of guys now and how to keep them exactly where you want them.
Sure this is not the first boyfriend who has asked you for sex, nor the first one who has threatened to break up if you don't agree to it.
In my own opinion, you're beginning to loose your grip because you're not that young anymore, it's time to get married and you're scared of loosing this guy.
As you must already know, sex is not a guarantee that this guy will not dump you once he's had what he wants.
I'll advice you keep keeping on, don't give in to him, unless you really want to not because he wants it desperately.
If he's ready to get married (as I think you are too), sex may not be the perfect reason to get married, but he should start thinking of it, then, he can have it anytime he wants. Otherwise, he might just want you for the sex and walk out.

Kiss his ass goodbye!!!!!!!!!!

Better dump the guy and do so fast! Once he sleeps with you, you will just become another girl in his life.It is a proven fact that if a guy really loves you, sex is the last thing that comes to his mind.

@ poster, in my opinion, if you r truly inlove and attratced to your guy i don't see anything wrong in making love to him; why say 'sex? its sounds COLD. its as if eithr of you are not truly inlove bt just there for company. Its understandable when what a girl needs at certain time of her life is just a good friend, she can count on without sexual intimacies. If he truly loves you and is understanding, he will try to make you feel relaxed about making love to him not pressuring or threathening you about it.
  And if you truly love him, d real love O! lovemaking will simply come very natural between both of u. and also i can sense a fear that he might walk out on you, if you sleep with him. My dear, walking out on someone goes both ways,  being married as avirgin, or marrying the first guy that disvirgined you, does not guarantee happiness, fulfilment in marital life. sometimes the lady might end up not liking the way the guy makes love to her when she finally ties the knot wiht him. Inner doubts within her mind starts cropping up, she may ignore it but deep down she knows , she's not satisfied sexually and she will either resign herself to her fate or handle it in a different way.
   This guy is also unsure too, he wants to know if both of you are sexually compatible apart from being very close friends and doing things togther.
please don't be scared of knowing yourself better sexually, when you are ready for it;because it will help you to choose a compatible partner as a husband when the time comes.
  Best of luck with your decisions , but think about it.

@poster,

jusy like many nairalanders have told you, do not for any reason have sex with this guy.  

if he is anything less than 21 years old, then he is probably just being influenced by his friends and the fact that he is young and insecure could also be a factor. you know, all the growing up hormones and not enough life worries to keep him busy and challenged. he probably spends a good part of his day gisting with his friends, watching movies and musical videos or playing games, all that build up into the proverbial 'idle mind' you've heard of

if he is older than 21, in school or graduated, working or serving, living at home or living alone etc, then he definitely does not love you and he is not d guy for you. because he should know better than that by now

to honor your husband with your virginity on your wedding night is one of the greatest gifts you can give the man you want to spend the rest of your life with.

keep it real and be true to yourself, you thank yourself for it in future

fleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee u love him but he doesn't love u. . . don't ask me how i got to know, his threat is self explanatory

and you actually want to have sex with him so he doesnt leave you?

if you dare spread ya legs for just because he says he would leave you, then you are the worst fool i've ever know. in fact, i dare say you aint worth marrying!

tell him N-O fuull stoppp!!!

any man who threatens a lady with sex is not in love but in lust. so my dear, run as far away as u can and don't look back.(he doesnt deserve u one bit.and am vry sure that if u yield,that relationship will never work.even if it does, he is not a faithful type.

@ poster,

 

DONT DO IT

if sex is the reason he is going to break up wit u then i dnt think he deserves u jst save it for the best one

you don't have to meet up to his worthless demand,this simply implies all he wants is to get in between your legs.you're still a young girl and still has a long way to go but if you think you're madly in love and want to keep him then its up to you,