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omoovie (f)
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Let him break up naa! Shiooo! Sex na medicine? Abegi! Dump the miscreant! All he wants is sex and you better not give in. You will feel disgusted with yourself later on. Trust me. I know.
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icemann
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I hope u know if u don't give it to him he will go get it else where.
and that means he is cheating on u
VERY HARD DECITION TO MAKE!!!
i been with 2 virgins
I split wit the first 1 cause she was unfaithfull. started dating another guy when i travelled 4 3months.
Still with the second 1 and we have been dating for 5YEARS
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Toonice
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Wetin dey
« #226 on: May 24, 2008, 03:35 PM » |
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I hate this type of girl why u no won give her ut toto make he mess
If na me be the Guy i go just dey cary things pass ur back abi ur own toto na supernatural one. I fear o
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olymyde
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na wao when will you guys stop discussing this topic,, are you not bord,, well i think if you love him and you think he matured to continue the relationship after he has gotten what he desires,, then you are free to give it to him,, but make sure you are following your heart,, as for me ''i wish you best of luck after the greatest and deadly enjoyment of this planet''
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shockz (m)
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babe, i guess you really love this guy.but i feel love aint about sex.if it happens fine but threatening to break up because it hasnt happened or you aint ready is childish to me. well i guesshe doesnt love you for real since he is threatening you with sex. i believe you should let him go.take care.  |
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quickygirl (f)
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shag the hell out of him till he begs you for mERCY, GUYS IN SEX ARE REALLY THE WEAKER SEX!! IN BED  OMO FOLLOW YOUR MIND SHA SEX IS NOT LOVE O, MOST TIMES ITS NOT |
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francessby (f)
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You said the guy in question is your boyfriend but i wonder how two of you will be coping without having sex, whether you are a virgin or not are you not going to break that thing one day abi no be person go break am, does it need crude oil for it to break, don't mind me sha keep your virginity till you marry alright.
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Belface
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Just tell him to go buy himself a tie. He is a looser. Don't lose your vig to a asshole   |
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topup
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Wow, I am shocked, I am reading advice such as; 'If you are not ready to have sex, stay away from men and relationships' Are there no men out there that respect virginity??
I'm not sure whether she is waiting for marriage or not BUT if she is then I believe the guy has the complete wrong attitude. If he has always been ready for sex but you told him you weren't ready yet, then I still think he's not got the right attitude because he is pressuring you, what happens afterwards, what else will he pressure you to do.
At first I felt so alone, and naive to believe a man who truly loves you will wait, but now I believe it more than ever. If a man is in complete love with you and respects you, he will not want to lose you over something as ridiculous as sex. I mean it's not as if he's not going to get it anyways, you just need time to learn to trust and love him. Your boyfriend seems to have set a deadline for when he is to get your virginity, and he is getting frustrated as it is getting closer or even past it, he has cheapened your relationship to mere threats. It's hard to believe, but really someone who truly loves someone cannot treat someone like this. If he really is a sex addict, I still don't believe he would make such ultimatums, because if he loves you his love for you will make him honest with you, telling you that he really wants to have sex with you but respects you. If he believes he may cheat then maybe you two need some time apart. If you broke up with him, if he truly loves you, he will miss what you two shared and may be able to reprioritise what he thinks makes a great relationship, maybe then he may realise that it's not all about the sex.
Personally I think his friends may be greatly influencing him.
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gabrywyl (f)
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@Poster That means he does not love you. He's just findin reasons to get laid.  |
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archay9
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don't waste ur time with someone like that,he doesnt love u he is just after ur body.
A man that truly love u wont threaten u with a thing like sex.
Maintain ur virginity its ur pride
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ibkaye
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nonsense, the guy obviously does not love you, imagine, just because of sex
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vivaladiva (f)
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o girl mess ooo with protection or contraceptives
toto no dey turn platinum gba be
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olrotimi (m)
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the pol says it. don't give in, thats uif you havnt don't so already
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alakem (f)
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 it will take u will power to leave him and will hurt so much but please do, u ar too special to give in to a guy like him.why wait so long facing diff temptations and passing tro so much just to give in to a guy that sees sex differently.sex is not d ultimate.let d scalawag go. |
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creamdream
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then threaten that he should not come back begging, then break up.
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olaremint (m)
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think carefully, u know him better than anyone in this room,if he is in late twenties,ask him if he would marry u after, if he says yes,tell him to come and meet ur parents,if he doesnt,run.if he is below then he is a hitchhiker,always waiting for free ride.lest i forget,don't give in till u really want it
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k1banty (m)
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Virgin! Virgin!! Virgin!!!
e no easy to find one. Anyway sha make she take the best decision herself, all the posts for here don address the issue.
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t-babe (f)
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i don't abide with dt,any guy dt do dt did not love d girl.he is only interested wit d body not d girl.is beta d girl should leave d guy.
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dylan1ng (m)
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just forget him staright away . there are lots of guys out there that will respect and treat u well
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kugaba
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my little sista, u beta b careful. That fellow is not worth it.
ANYONE THAT IS WORTH YOUR TEARS WILL NOT MAKE YOU CRY.
i Hav a virgin girlfriend. I am not a virgin. I feel very guilty each time i think that i should try it.
She respects herself and i try to let her know that
THE GREATEST GIFT ANY WOMAN CAN GIVE TO HER HUSBAND IS HER VIRGINITY.
IMAGINE ME, a hot blooded male having to tame myself just to lead her well. i am always ready but hav to wait till she is ready.
Only Heavens know when she will be, but i must help and respect her.
Succumb 2 his threats if you're so ugly and sure not 2 find someone beta when you're ready. Otherwise, the choice is your 2 make.
but if i must say further, then i will say FLEE LIKE THE DEVIL before D NAME OF CHRIST( 10000 & OVER) IN DIFFERENT WAYS.
GUDLUK
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muchbabe (f)
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Girl don't give in to his stupid demand, Sex is never a prerequisite for love, let him leave, he aint worth it,
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a.A.K (m)
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don't do it.If i may add save it for me. |
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mens dept
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Re: Boyfriend Threatens To Break Up If I Don't Have Sex With Him
« #240 on: Yesterday at 08:18:29 AM »
think carefully, u know him better than anyone in this room,if he is in late twenties,ask him if he would marry u after, if he says yes,tell him to come and meet your parents,if he doesnt,run.if he is below then he is a hitchhiker,always waiting for free ride.lest i forget,don't give in till u really want it
This was perhaps the only post wey make sense, or at least I could agree with,
You see, if the relationship has gotten far without sex, and he now demands it, then he probably is using it as damage control. That is, he probably spent money, time, effort, his intellect, creativity, and so much all for you, and I GUESS (yes just a guess) that you may have not put in as much as he, so to compensate (spelling?) he is using sex as some type of tangible rebate he "Should " get.
I think he eventually will dump u afterwards--unless the sex is the BOMB. Also, before jumping into the "forget him girl" attitude so many people have posted here, ask yourself some questions. Did you meet him half way? Did you call him and shower him, and make him feel special? Did you let him plan or pay for all the dates or did you plan some and surprise him? If the answer is yes then you may look elsewhere, but if it's no--then you may have real problems with dating guys in general because most of us need some type of affection, even if its outside sex you dig.
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