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lanrelagos
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please run away.u no need that guy.no mind the Mv guy,na like ur boyfriend!
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Roadblock
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Girl nothing to think about, it is obvious that there is only oe thing he is after and that is to register you as one of the girls un his bed list. Sleep with him and he will still drop you even faster than he would have when he has not gotten what he is after.
I want to believe that the reason why you are still a virgin at your age is not because you are afraid of getting pregnant or getting infected with disease, but because you have the fear of God inside you. I know that fear is is there and that is why you could hestitate even during threat. There is only one advise for you. Leave that relationship as fast as you can becasue is a matter of time as long as you remain in it he will have his way. Look inside you don't ignore what your spirit is saying. Act fast.
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knzguru (m)
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Why are u guys bothering yourself with such an obviously ridiculous scenario.
The chic claims to be a virgin (at 27) with a boyfriend (who's obviously retarded) that's demanding to have sex or break up.
Come on let's be real, for her to be asking advice (on nairaland of all places) then she's got issues or this is pure bollocks.
please som1 ask her how she's managed to remain a virgin all this while if she can't handle such issues herself
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Comfort86 (f)
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Honey, it is not worth it! What if things fail to work out between the two of you---so, what?---You would have just given him your ta-ta for free??? How will that make you feel? Don't get me wrong; You may not mind and even view the experience as a wonderful and unregretful one. But keep in mind that once it's gone, it's gone. Let your spirit lead you and take care of yourself.  |
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jaybaby (f)
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Nu ve====dnt mind her-----She dsnt know what 2 do @ 27? RUBBISH
kNZ--WELL SAID
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sod4luv (m)
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Girl nothing to think about, it is obvious that there is only oe thing he is after and that is to register you as one of the girls un his bed list. Sleep with him and he will still drop you even faster than he would have when he has not gotten what he is after.
I want to believe that the reason why you are still a virgin at your age is not because you are afraid of getting pregnant or getting infected with disease, but because you have the fear of God inside you. I know that fear is is there and that is why you could hestitate even during threat. There is only one advise for you. Leave that relationship as fast as you can becasue is a matter of time as long as you remain in it he will have his way. Look inside you don't ignore what your spirit is saying. Act fast.
Thatz right, act fast, and also follow ur heart, |
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knzguru (m)
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@jaybaby uhmm,
thanks 4 agreeing but wats with d Pareto Principle on Male Impotence - 80% of men are impotent .
Sounds like u've got some unresolved beef wit us. want to talk about it |
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RichyBlacK (m)
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Just tell him how you feel and if continues being a wafflehead just leave him alone.
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darkhand
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I hear about these cases in which people have relationships without sex. I find it strange, they are the grounds on which I believe that there is juju, otherwise why would any healthy man stay with a girl and not have sex with her? Na craze? The boy is a fool, does he not know women? When the thing enter the girl head she will give it to someone else and start telling him stupid stories. My dear give the boy chop , afterall you don suffer the guy.
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whitelexi (m)
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Listen very carefully:
When you walk past a dog and it growls at u, better give it a bone before it finds one of your's!
Food for thought
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Eclairs
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Dated a girl for three years without sex bcs she said she wasn't ready. She dumped me after 3yrs telling me I am not the Mr right afta waitin patiently for her to make up her mind. I was with her because I loved her and not because of sex. She was a virgin when I met her, and I left her as a virgin. Now I feel used as I look back and see that apart from the experience, I gained nothing out of the relation but lost nearly all. At least, I realise now that if a sad experience doesnt kill you, it ll makes you stronger. I cnt help thinkin things would have been diff if we had had sex but its all good.
If you not keen on sex, tell him outrightly that you not keen and move on so he cld find someone else. please don't keep him waitin saying things like "u would have enough when we get married" In as much as I am against sex before marraige I would advice that you part ways as you both want different things.
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Digiman (m)
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I hope you had the good sense to show him the nearest exit !
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FactorChic (f)
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When someone threatens to break up with u because of sex, u should know he will still dump u even if u sleep with him, if he really loves u, u guys will fight about d whole sex thing but he won't leave u, yeah it will be hard for him, but it will be worth d wait, abeg dump his ass! it will hurt, but u will find a better person
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Femonjay
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flea from all apearances of evil
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tayo4me (f)
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@ poster: please do not have sex with him, that is the only thing he's after. he's likely to dump you later. @ guys: i never knew there were still large number of responsible men. i like the way most of the guys advised the poster. I RESPECT GUYS WHO THINK THIS WAY, UNLIKE SOME,  |
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Lady temi (f)
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@ poster: please do not have sex with him, that is the only thing he's after. he's likely to dump you later. @ guys: i never knew there were still large number of responsible men. i like the way most of the guys advised the poster. I RESPECT GUYS WHO THINK THIS WAY, UNLIKE SOME, Honey, listen to us all, if you have not broken up with this idiot please do so immediately and find yourself a good man. |
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skima (m)
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Sex i don't think is a big deal, but understand the fact that one should not be forced into it. If i love and u refuse to sex then the love remains. but if the bases of the relationship is sex and its not forthcoming there is a problem.
i guess sex is the base of this relation and with ur status now am not sure u want it. let him go if he can't wait.
it will be a cheat on u if u gv in because ur heart is not there. u may probably not enjoy the sex if u do it now.
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Lady temi (f)
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@ poster: please do not have sex with him, that is the only thing he's after. he's likely to dump you later. @ guys: i never knew there were still large number of responsible men. i like the way most of the guys advised the poster. I RESPECT GUYS WHO THINK THIS WAY, UNLIKE SOME, Honey, listen to us all, if you have not broken up with this idiot please do so immediately and find yourself a good man. |
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theboy0808 (m)
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Duh!
What art thou still doin' there
Get thee out of there before he does his advanced "press-up"
And then breeze past thee like HURRICANE KATRINA!
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jemodan (m)
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i will advice you to give in to him if he truely love you, do you know that sex perfect love. you must understand yourselves b/4 giving in to such demand honestly if you starve him another girl will be ready to give him don't let your love go.
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divwis
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this guy is simply bad news,as most right minded people have told you.
Discard victorian's advice.
Beta u refuse and get dumped now with ur dignity and sanity intact,or agree and get dumped eventually (not 2 long after he has done it severaaly within a short time frame) get dumped and left in a very near madness state if not in a mad state
Even if you decide to ignore religion and good morals,at least BE WISE.
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pemidam (m)
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It a pity that your guy want 2 breakup wit u because of sex. i will advice that no matter d pressure u sud keep your virginity. if he really love u, he will respest what u have decide for yourself which is the best for you. losing him will hurt but wit time u will get over it. DON'T GIVE HIM, IF HE REALLY LOVE U, HE SUD MARRY U AND ALL SHALL B 4 HIM, IF NOT STICK TO UR WORD AND PRESERVE UR DIGNITY.  |
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sage (m)
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its funny how a 27/28 yr old woman would come on nairaland and ask immature questions a 16yr old girl would not ask even more hilarious are the sex crazed/starved, virgin-hungry prowlers who are supposed to be men wasting there time on posts like this  y'all should get a life  |
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nuzo (m)
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Even though the guy asked for sex in a rude manner, just have in mind that most guys will do the same but maybe in a polite way.
Dumping a guy who have waited so long in love just because he asked you for sex may not be advicable.
Sit him down and try explaining why you can't give in now. If within you, you are convinced that it's sex he's all after, then you may walk away. But if otherwise, prepare your mind and give it to him. Virginity does not guarantee a happy marriage.
Whatever you decide, just know that life's all about risk and gambling. The next guy might be a disaster.
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penyng
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If he is not ready to get married to u, leave him but, if you don't want to leave him them give him what he wants.
@ 27 still a virgin keep it up that my own advice
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djcrucifix (m)
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your boyfriend obviously dosnt like you and respect your decision, tell him to go and wank himself out  and break up with him (he might end up raping you)
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Gwazah (m)
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hey members make una takan kind!
Baby i m very sure you are not in love with that guy so better brake up with him now. while i said so is that if you really love the guy u ur self would hav done every thing possible to make sure u satisfy the guy with what so ever he demand u know what it takes to love.
some peo who did not hav HIV AIDS hav agree to married those that hav HIV AIDS because of love. so sex is a small thing.
let me tell u my peo "sex is one of the thing that make me to love my girl the more without that i think i would hav pick no interest in her now. but that doesn't mean i didn't love i love her so muck.
so just do ur mind i know u don't lov the guy because u hav doubt in him.
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Gwazah (m)
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Those that are saying u should keep it up been a virgin at 27
i just ask, keep it up and take it were?
bribe God with virginity on the last day or what?
one thing is, if been a virgin will make u happy is good and digestive.
but if u are just managing, my dear bone that enjoy now that u are young so that u will tell stories when u are old.
cheer & chai!!!!!!!!!!
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d dealer
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are you really a virgin?
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eezzy (f)
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are you really a virgin?
Wettin your own? @poster Dump that yeye fool! |
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d dealer
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you can't just dump your boyfriend b/because of that, you need to identified the problem.
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