What Men Hate After They Marry

lol that is every true, when you get the ring .aint no need to work yourself no more
but i know men hate it expecially after the lady have a child, some women
just give up, let everything go, their wieght, etc
i cannot stand them women who do that, just because you got kids don't mean
you still don't got it, you could still look sexxy,

Hmmm. No men in the house yet?

Something I also want to call attention to is the courtship stage. Before marriage both sides try earnestly to please each other. After marriage ,  The men are very bad -- they come crawling on their knes to beg for marriage then expect the woman to obey their every wish [and satisfy their every whim] as if they're  slaves. The women too -- they just stop all those fancy flirting ,  emotional talks etc etc. What you get after twenty years of marriage is two strangers.

Pathetic. 

marriage is a life long commitment and must be taken into careful consideration before jumping into it

and thats why they come back with tears and regrets 

  it can be fun toooooooo i can't wait to get married

i know rhody, i can't wait to get married , to the man of ma dream

can't be bothered about getting married

High five bro!

That's exactly what I'm getting out. I mean seeing my wife prance about the house in only a wrapper is enough to get me mad -- not to talk of being slovenly.

To the complaining guys, I don't think your wife would also like to see you tying towel round your waist all over the place. Hahahaha! You should also look and dress good for her!
Besides, don't you think tying wrapper makes it faster to access the goodies, instead of tugging with the buttons and zippers all the time?

i think most women are treated with little or no respect.well, the man feels he has married the woman and she should not be treated nice.thereby, the woman feels little or no love.

my brother, i dey solidly behind u on that score. after she starts complaining that u are eyeing ur secretary. why won't u? after all SHE dresses to kill to the office.

After all said and done, marriage is a SERIOUS commitment! it is the scariest investment in the world; see all you stand to lose as a guy:
1. your freedom
2. goodbye to nights out with the boys
3. goodbye to monday night football
4. bye bye to hamburgers, french fries and pizza
5. no more spontaneous travelling
6. be ready to explain every phone call, coffee stain etc
7. be ready to spend all ur weekends at the shopping mall
8. bye bye to i, me and myself
9. bye bye to personal accounts
10. welcome to nagging version 1.0
11. Know all florists in town
12. have hankies at the ready all the time

1 I believe in my own freedom why take away another persons own.
2 I was going out too why stop him
3 I was lucky no one likes football here but if youhave money to marry then you can afford a 2 tv
4-5 he was doing all that anyway so was i only that he always wanted to come with me.
The rest don't apply to me,He was the one wasting time in the shops.

Ohh well most women think if they've gotten "the one" there's no need impressing "the one" afterall he'll like them for what they are. They cease to forget that, he didn't see them as wrapper tying slobs when he became the one.

If I had this view of marriage I would be scared of it as well, good Lord.  1-5, I'm not giving those things up, so why would I expect my husband to?  It's not healthy to have a marriage and lose all connection to other people on the planet, and no matter how much you love someone, who wants to spend all their waking moments with one person?  Not to mention that I plan on getting married when I'm still relatively young so my friends will still be around and ready to spend some quality time with me, without the husband/boyfriend in tow.

6 - if you're taking care of the stain then why do I care where it came from?  And I think the phone call thing is just different perspectives.  Girls like to talk about their phone calls, mostly cause they like to talk so we probably just assume men do as well.

7 - doesn't apply.

8 - I would hope that there would only be adjustments, I don't think you should lose yourself in a relationship.

9 - Shouldn't you want to share those things with your spouse?  Not to mention, most married couples I know have both shared and separate accounts.

10 - no point in responding.

11 - All you need to know is one good one for special occassions, or if you're planning on messing up all the time I suppose knowing a few more may be helpful to you.

12 - Are you planning on making her cry all the time?

Really, if I had those expectations of marriage from a female perspective I would say forget about it, I have more fun being single.  Marriage isn't a death sentence and if you look at it that way of course you're not going to want to consider it.  It's not the end of the road, it's just the beginning of a new chapter and you're hopefully lucky enough to start it with someone you truly love and care about.  Come on now boys, marriage isn't all a bed of roses, but it's no Iron Maiden either.

Good! I also don't believe a woman ought to be entirely subservient to the man. She is still an entity on her own. I know some people will quote the Bible and say the wife is to be under the husband. Remember the husband is meant to be under Christ but that doesn't make him take all decisions to Him -- he solves some problems himself.