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busygal (f)
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THERE IS A WORD CALLED DOUBLE DATEING, SOME PEOPLE CALL IT TWO TIMING
AM NOT INTO IT THOUGH! BUT SOMETIMES WHEN I THINK OF THE WHOLE THING, I REALY
don't BLAME PEOPLE WHO DO IT.I GUESS MOST PEOPLE DO IT DUE TO SITITUATIONS SURROUNDING
THEM.
SOME TAKE ON THE GOOD GIRL ROLE BY STICKING TO ONLY ONE MAN, BUT @ THE END OF THE DAY
THE MAN LEAVES HER 4 ANOTHER ( WASTED YEARS AND TIME)
SOME DO IT because OF FINACIAL REASONS. AND SOME OTHER REASONS.BUT THE MOST PAINFUL
ONE IS STICKING 2 A GUY YET HE LEAVES U 4 ANOTHER.
(SO TELL ME! DO U REALY BLAME LADIES WHO DOUBLE DATE)
afterall! nature says we shouldn't put all our eggs in one basket.
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bebe2007 (m)
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Double dating as they call it is not so much of a bad thing when the other party (ies) invovled are not aware. It could be fun!!! But then, when you get busted, its painful man! you hurt your loved ones in the process. If you can be smart about it and it works for you so be it, if you are not smart, please do not go there.
I personally do not believe there is just one man meant for one woman. As a woman in a relationship, if you give other guys an opportunity to get to know you and you them, you would most probably be drawn to them too. the only thing that keeps you away from them is decency and the fact that you are already committed to someonelse. Nothing else. For women who fall into this, its not that they are bad, they just allowed their feelings to rule over them. it can happen to anyone. i have no excuse for the Aristole babes o! theirs is strictly for commercial reasons.
like they say, WHATEVER WORKS FOR YOU
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whitelexi (m)
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(SO TELL ME! DO You REALY BLAME LADIES WHO DOUBLE DATE)
afterall! nature says we shouldn't put all our eggs in one basket.
Allow me answer your question with a question. Do you really blame men who double date?? because afterall nature says variety is the spice of life! And change is the only consistent thing in existence! change for the better - that is  |
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somze (m)
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Why not let your husbands or future husbands double date too?
Better still two of you can double date . . . what rubbish!
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busygal (f)
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Why not let your husbands or future husbands double date too?
Better still two of you can double date . . . what rubbish!
@ somze My dear, it seems u ve a problem with replying Threads. SO WHICH ONE IS THE HUSBAND ISSUE HERE. moreover , i did'nt say i do it( EVEN IF I DO IT?) Moreover! this is a general issue that needs opinoin,if u've got nothing 2 say,plz kindly mess OFF. |
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emenma (f)
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@ somze
My dear, it seems u ve a problem with replying Threads.
Moreover! this is a general issue that needs opinoin,if u've got nothing 2
say,plz kindly mess OFF.
Ouch! That must hurt Anyway, i think we should not encourage any form of double dating simply because one is female or male. Be careful where you place your eggs but place them in only one basket |
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Gamine (f)
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Wetin be Double Dateing  r u tryin to speak Hindu |
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somze (m)
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Wetin be Double Dateing r u tryin to speak Hindu lol, come on this is not an English class . . . Dating  |
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busygal (f)
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@somze
and am refering you to my signature too______________> (mess OFF) so read it and learn DUDE
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Idera .N (f)
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@ somze
My dear, it seems u ve a problem with replying Threads.
SO WHICH ONE IS THE HUSBAND ISSUE HERE. moreover , i did'nt say i do
it( EVEN IF I DO IT?)
Moreover! this is a general issue that needs opinoin,if u've got nothing 2
say,plz kindly mess OFF.
guys please and please that is enough, this is not a battle ground where we the audience here has to be reading insultive signature  , doubledating is bad but circumstance can push someone to double date, so i don't blame ladies jare!!!!! |
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busygal (f)
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@ idera
thanx Idera! am a cool girl,is it not this boy abi na girl?
that is making me talk too much.
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efuah (f)
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stop all this childish thing. . . abi na fight u wan fight? somze, you are needed urgently at home, report immediately busygalplease let it go ok, let's move on wt the thread |
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mydynasty (m)
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Double dating actually, isnt the best. But how about those who tripple date? The truth is that people who indulge in such are perhaps frustrated and unhappy in their relationship and at the same time not really ready to give up their man or woman as the case may be. Busygal and Somze, why una dey exchange invisible punches!  |
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denny2
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well,i think once there is no sexual realationship with the set of new guys or chicks that come in,then there is nothing wrong with double or tripple dating if you like.
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busygal (f)
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i feel u denny2, that is the main koko
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bowa (m)
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Pursuing to things at the same time,that is what i take double dating to be.life is about one step after the other,if one tries to take the two steps at a time,d person will fall.people seem to double date because their is no true love and trust.well as for me,i look before i leap,i make sure my lady has got everything so that i won't have the cause to look out.i think that's how it should be.yeah atimes guys could be like a jack atimes,but the ladies should know the best way to keep ur guy.if u don't know,i advice you to start the research.it's good and funfilled to be in a relationship with someone you could call ur love,you feel like a NOB, 07030138190
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bowa (m)
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Pursuing to things at the same time,that is what i take double dating to be.life is about one step after the other,if one tries to take the two steps at a time,d person will fall.people seem to double date because their is no true love and trust.well as for me,i look before i leap,i make sure my lady has got everything so that i won't have the cause to look out.i think that's how it should be.yeah atimes guys could be like a jack atimes,but the ladies should know the best way to keep ur guy.if u don't know,i advice you to start the research.it's good and funfilled to be in a relationship with someone you could call ur love,you feel like a NOB, 07030138190
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Idera .N (f)
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isn't that romantic?  i feel you jare, bowa |
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somze (m)
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mydynasty,
I have issues with no one abeg. Leave my name out of your posts,
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chychy (f)
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[color=#990000]i agree that no one man is meant for a woman and vice versa but the double dating scene aint for me. dating one at a time will do. I believe there's no excuse whatsoever for doing something wrong. two or more at a time is dangerous to the body n soul as far as i'm concerned.
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bigsholy60
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please guys don't be carried away with love,double-date,even triple-date if you can
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rosquare (m)
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in my final year in UNILAG, we had a counselling session and we raised this issue.the counsellors authoritatively told us that double dating,especially for the ladies is very much encouraged. in her words "a lady is free to date as many as 3 guys as long as she doesnt have 2 sleep with any of them." difficult you would agree, but not impossible"but once one of them decides to take the relationship to the next level (courtship), and she accept his proposal, the lady is expected to drop the other guys and stick to that one." i guess this is just to protect the lady to some extent. but for the guys, we have no reason whatsoever to double date. c'mon, it aint cool you know |
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Idera .N (f)
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in my final year in UNILAG, we had a counselling session and we raised this issue.the counsellors authoritatively told us that double dating,especially for the ladies is very much encouraged. in her words "a lady is free to date as many as 3 guys as long as she doesnt have 2 sleep with any of them." difficult you would agree, but not impossible"but once one of them decides to take the relationship to the next level (courtship), and she accept his proposal, the lady is expected to drop the other guys and stick to that one." i guess this is just to protect the lady to some extent. but for the guys, we have no reason whatsoever to double date. c'mon, it aint cool you know rosquare, i disagree with that. if she dates three guys at the same time then it will spoil her chance of ever settling down with any, even if no sex is involved. wot do u think about that, if you were one of the guys involved, will you like it?  |
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lafile (m)
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It looks ok when its called double dating.
But look at it this way: Double Dating = Cheating = Lying = Deception = Pretence
Bet it doesnt look so good now
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ozoneflake (m)
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U go swear Ogun if you never doam before.
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Busta (f)
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nothing but hurting people, hurting ursef and then a whole lotta drama!
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iice (f)
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Do what you mustwhether you think/know its a must
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omoge25 (f)
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nothing but hurting people, hurting ursef and then a whole lotta drama!
exactly and in the end you are the one getting hurt the most. |
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rosquare (m)
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@Idera
are you saying that her chances of settling down
is higher if she dates just one person?
look at it this way,
if that one person decides to call it quit, wot happens
to her?i am of the opinion that competition brings out
the best in responsible guys,as well as pruns the unserious
guys
guys find it difficult to believe that a charming young lady
with a heart of gold can be single,yet we would stop at
nothing to have her.
why is that so?
do not put all your eggs in one basket,some folks
call it deceit,but i call it wisdom.
how you choose to play the game is solely your decision
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Merinoz (m)
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I don't fancy the issue of Double-Dating.I see and regard a relationship as a mini-marriage.What you do now will definitely come to haunt UIf you genuinely love a girl with all your heart,why should you double-date?What is it that other girls have that your girl doesn't have?The fear of heartbreaks should not push one into double-dating because life will always continue after being jilted.But who prays for that?Be positive about your relationship and it will come out the way you like it.Cheers!
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