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naijabands (m)
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I will start with saying that you are an ignoramus!!! I might understand your refusal to marry if you were a 24/25 year old just finding his feet in the world, or the lady gave birth to a child with some form of defect which arose as a result of her promiscous ways, or even sef say the parents talk say you must do some kain funny, funny things!
The reality here though is that you are stupidly basing your refusal to face your responsibilities (that is response ability [which you lack apparently]) on your perceived ascent of the social ladder.
Do you not understand that you have the opportunity a great number of men wish for? You have the ability to manufacture the kind of woman you want!!!
[font=Lucida Sans Unicode]You want her creme? Send her to finishing school after you must have sent her to a higher institution of some sorts (of course she needs her GCEs for that). When she is done there, let her spend 3 months in France, 3 in the UK, and another 6 in the US (If you are not broke already). IF the lady can still bear the sight of you after she returns, gba! You'll be the envy of your boiz, [/font]
Though no one should get married because of a child, and a broken relationship is much better than an unhappy marriage, you have not clearly explained why you refuse to marry her- If you had not cut short her academic life when you did, this same girl will probably be dating senators, governors and the likes, AND YOU WILL BE TRYING HARD TO GET INTO HER GOOD BOOKS!!! I have a son, I am not married to the mum (yet?), but meeeen!! you have balls to post this kind of shit on Nairalands where you know say my peeps go wreck you!! Ikoja aye!!!!
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