The Art Of Suck Abunna

One of the reasons many women are turned off by fellatio is the idea that oral sex is impure, dirty and even disgusting. This is usually spawned from religious beliefs or really bad experiences with previous partners.

Another reason some women aren't too excited about giving men oral sex is that they think they don't have the skills to properly please a man.

One of the reasons many women are turned off by fellatio is the idea that oral sex is impure, dirty and even disgusting. This is usually spawned from religious beliefs or really bad experiences with previous partners.

Another reason some women aren't too excited about giving men oral sex is that they think they don't have the skills to properly please a man.

This belief originates from the fact that, in general, men take longer to reach orgasm through oral stimulation than through intercourse. For this reason, some women take offense and feel that, if they cannot properly please their man, they would prefer not to do the job at all.

But that doesn't mean you can't change them.

You cannot expect every man to enjoy the act of oral sex, nor can you force a man to do it. This is why it's very important to know what kind of man you're dealing with.

Before you even experiment, I suggest that you communicate with him. Find out how he feels about receiving and giving oral sex. If you're unsure about how to broach the subject, you can always incorporate it into the foreplay game.

During the first stages of foreplay, you can whisper all the naughty things that you want to do to him (oral sex) in him ear, and then include all the naughty things you want in return (oral sex). Be observant and use this game to gauge him excitement and interest level.

If you're still unsure, you can always ask him how he feels about oral sex. If he's up for it, continue the foreplay, but if she has a negative feeling about it, consider further exploring the topic in order to find what's at the root of his "phobia".

If he's still not up for oral sex, maybe the two of you are not sexually compatible and the time has come to seek another fitting partner/boyfriend or husband.

RUN AWAY WHILE YOU HAVE TIME, TO LIVE THE WHOLE LIFE TOGHETER WITH SOMEONE THAT CAN'T MAKE IT IS_______  , (what's the best adjective for I write here ?)
 

Yes, I know, you want him to eat you, but that doesn't mean you have to smell like food . Clean yourself well and make sure that there aren't any offensive odors.

Wash with soap and consider using body wash to enhance the nice smell.

The objective is for your man to come up looking the same way he did going down. You don't want him to look or smell like he just returned from the African jungle.

On to a guaranteed method that'll encourage him voyage down below

The basic position is with the woman on his knees, with the woman standing or sitting in front of him.

Then there's laying on your back, getting his privates slipped into your mouth. This is actually a really uncomfortable position after a couple of minutes. Your neck gets a major crick and it's hard not to choke.

Lying down with you between his legs is very relaxing,  Good for a long leisurely blowjob. You can take your time, reach up and play with his nipples, stroke his legs and just generally go to town.

Deep throating is a trick I've never quite managed to master (with african man is impossible with japanese is possible, do y understand what I mean?  ). You have to relax the muscles at the back of the throat to allow for complete access. An extra good trick is to work the throat muscles around the cock when you've got it all the way in.

Sucking and getting licked at the same time. 69ing, so named from the shape of the numerals. Takes a little bit of extra attention, but will worth it.

This tip is for these people that get married with more than one women  Yorubá culture, musslim ??  You should agree with the other wife, while one lick his balls (when sucking a man's balls, you have to be very careful) . The other one can suck his privates ON THE SAME TIME.

I am dead!


IT'S ELECTRIKKKKKKKKK!!!!!! VA VOOOOOOOOOOOM!!!

Prepare for your oral tryst by playing with some of his sensitive body parts, rather than starting with the privates. Maybe give him a full-body massage, try some nipple play, try nibbling in the genital area or maybe even give him some testicular love (licking, massaging, etc.) Basically, don't start with direct contact with the privates. Good oral sex starts elsewhere.

Don't be shy about adding something a bit tasty to your playtime. A little flavored lubricant, chocolate, honey, or anything else that you think tastes good will make this a feast that can satisfy both of you. ( I LIKE THE NATURAL SMELL OF MY BABE OGA, I don't PUT NOTHING)

Once you have worked over other areas and are ready to tackle the privates, take it slow. You might want to start with teasing just the head of the privates with the tongue, or just licking the shaft. Again, take your time. Watch his reactions. Remember that the head is the most sensitive part of the privates for many men, and could be a great place to start, or it may be too much at first.

When you feel you are ready to go a little further, you might want to incorporate your hand along with your mouth, either grasping the base of the privates (you can try stroking if you feel coordinated) or massaging the testicles, or both.

Once you have his privates in your mouth, there are a few things you can do. Experiment with the speed of movement, alternating between fast and slow. Take breaks if you're tired or if your jaw starts to hurt. You can alternate your blowjob with handjob breaks (put lots of lube on your hand so the experience stays slippery).

Discuss the matter of ejaculation before you start. If you would not like him to ejaculate in your mouth, let him know that and ask him to give you a shoulder tap or maybe a verbal announcement before this happens. You can also have him wear a condom (flavored, if you like) so he can let his ejaculate go without discomfort or awkwardness.

"A little trick I have discovered for when you are giving your partner a blow job: Keep   candle (Halls ultra strong)  by the bed, and pop some in your mouth without telling him just before you put his privates in your mouth. My partner loves it because it feels very cool (temperature-wise), and it feels good in your mouth too!"

Scopium

To dream is free 

Incredible, whatever!!

Relax, Simi. Just teasing. 

And, I did read the other topic, very informative it was too, keep it up! 

Your English is great.

_{Just don't be too touchy when folk tease you.}

I think this topic is cute esp. the title .

@simi, u have really good infos. and I hope that a lot of people can learn from it.

hi simi,

the way you emphasize this licking and sucking,i begin to wonder: hope we are doing it right? oh sure yes. ride on sister. its the ultimate for those in the know.

    

uspry1

I think about open a school in naija about sexual education 
jooking
I don't want die burned or similar
But men that travel around the world and get involved with diversificated culture tend to open their minds
The ones that just stay in Nigeria reading ,listening and watching the same thing tend to keep domestically and primitive :-)

I wish i would open sexual educatioin in Nigeria.

That is where Nigeria lags far behind in education especially sexual education, marriage/relationship counseling, parenthood programs.

Too many illiterates in Nigeria!!!

davidylan (m)

This room is about sexuality, so I am not suppossed talk about religion here
what are y doing here if y re bore about sex sex sex?
Go to the music music music, family family family etc etc etc room

there re space for all subjects
here people talk about sex
specif it
strange y don't understand it

take a chill pill, i was only being sarcastic. Who says sex is boring? Ride on jare!  Even with all our preaching we still hop in here once in a while to make sure that when the time comes madam will not find us wanting.

@Simibrasil, (Should be your right profile name)
Como vai? Mulheres brasileiras são bonitas! Eu morei no Brasil para cinco meses.