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teefah (f)
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@ all the ladies saying they don't mind if the husband stays at home, i hope you'll still be able to say that after 5 years of marriage, 2 kids, school fees, house rent, car maintenance et al and still speak to your husband with respect.
@ all the men who don't mind sitting at home, i hope if after 2 years you ask for 1000 naira pocket money and she gives you the story of your life and how she's up from 5am-12midnight to ensure that you have a roof over your head, you won't give her a dirty slap.
I cannot get married to a lazy man. The bible says a man that cannot provide for his household is worse than an infidel. My man can work from the house, good and fine. If he works from the house and has the time to pick the kids from school and prepare dinner if he sees i'm running, then beautiful. But to seat down, sleep, wake up and wait for teefah to give him money to buy cigarettes, sorry for him. Although its a different scenario if he losses his job due to downsizing or whatever.
To all you guys out there, don't ever plan to sleep and collect pocket money from your wife just because she works at UN. Even if at the end of the month, you make just 10% of her monthly salary, keep the job & be good at it. That way you earn your respect. If you cannot afford to pay the children's fees, buy little pressents for them, show that you are still the daddy. Else they will turn you to that uncle who lives in our house.
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