My Girlfriend's Best Friend Is A Guy And I'm Jealous!

I cld be the girl u guys r well talking bout because I’m in that situation. Guys r complicated so I’ve stopped raising speculations and worryin my head sick bout what they think. I’m not a small girl and have had my fair shair of boyfriends, so I know. I love my boyfriend very much and I crash in this other guy’s house because it’s near my office.I work in a bank. So y’all know what workload I have.
IF MY MAN HAS A PROBLEM WITH IT HE HAD BETTER START TALKING, IF NOT AM GOING TO CONCLUDE HE’S NOT SERIOUS BOUT ME. I’M READY TO DO ANYTHING FOR HIM IF WHAT WE HAVE HAS TO WORK.Me and the guy am staying with are good friends. What we have is platonic.
NOTHING IN DID WORLD IS DO OR DIE EXCEPT GOD’S EXPECTATIONS.

I think the guy should also get a female best friend and make it known to the lady, and the lady should also be able to spend the night in his house, if the girl does not feel any how then it's okay but if she does feel jealous then the guy also have every reason to be jealous. I don't actually like the idea of a girl in a relationship having another guy as her best friend, so she loves the guy, he should also be her best friend. no matter what, it should never get to the extent of sleeping in his house if they are not family friends or cousins.

She may not know exactly how a man feels when his lover keep another man as best friend. Ladies if your man tolorate that then ask him wether you are important in his life?

attimes i wonda at the way some girl reason o! ki lode gan n na!!!

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 yoruba sey,"ko si ja ni shursh-sadu ra n sa mi ni", bois go sey"2 ge 4"
i prescribe a simple medication- those babes that av been eye-ballin yu since ehn! step to them now and let them slep ova at yur place and let yur g/f knw, infact, hav a band of them as best frends and i believe ur girl frend should be matured enough to knw, they re only ur best female frends-abi na!!


  first of, ow did yu start datin her, widout being her bestfrend? if no be sey the male best frend sef, stil wan schop pan mo! when ihn c sey d babe don get relatnship se ihn no suppose step?
   the babe sef-ko lori lowo ni, ko de lori to n ro, if not, she sleeps ova in her best frends place-u knw i nid that kind of babe in my life, so we can giv ourself sum drama-oops, iam almost hooked nd in the another woman's net alredy.


  all this talk about talk it ova nad blah blah blah, dnt mind em o!

  wetin u wan talk ova-mi bro? its either u giv her, her own dosage of medecin or giv her, her own dosage of medecin times 2.
  osi wewe!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I wonder why some guys in this forum are not sincere with themselves   I don't know how Adam could have felt if Eve took an Ape to be her best companion As for me thats not jealously, the guy is only trying to protect his interest and there nothing bad about that.Ladies in the house tell me If can stand it  if your Man's best friend is his female secretary

   I think the question u should ask this boyfirend is, was his girlfriend and this guy already friends before she started dating ur friend , or did this best friend thing begin after she started dating ur friend? If theywere friends before she started dating ur friend , then that simply says he should get over his insecurities . Afterall she could have dated her best friend if she felt that way about him. Trust is important in every relationship. please give her the benefit of the doubt. I mean we all need friends, and some girls just prefer having men as friend.

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I empathise with you, however, you don't need to stress yourself unneccessay.  My best friend is a male and his wife hates my guts with a passion.  She went as far as sending my then boyfriend a mail implying that we were sleeping together.  The thing is, I have known the guy since I was 11yrs and he was prolly 13.  We have been closer than ever. Him and I share everything.  I think now she is a bit comfortable and I know it still hurts especially when she tries to be nice to me for his sake,

Just believe your girlfriend, It is very possible for a man a woman to be great friends with nothing added, I am a living testimony,

this is whacked!!! d 'fine' girl should wake up and smell d coffee.even if ur friend wasnt jealous,she should still be worried.experience has shown that third parties usually are up to no good no matter how noble their intentions are.afterall,who can control one's heart? she just needs to focus n focus real fast at that.truth is i wont take that lying low,truth is the jealousy is another way to tell her how much you love her