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ronkeakala (f)
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my trouble is that 2 guys re in love with me,hw u may ask?actually was dating my first boyfriend for some years ,we had problem due to my father refusing me to date a christian.somewhere,i was feeling insecure with the situation of tins,my first was cheating on me.so meet this other guy,started dating him so i wont be dumped unexpected by my first boyfriend,fate cut up on me on my birthday last year.the two guys got to know i was cheating on them.my first boyfriend said he can't continue with d relationship but d other guy forgave me.but after sometime he started misbehaving and i guess its was due to d fact of what happen.so i was solo,didn't breakup him nor dumped him because i know i deserve it.this whole issue happened over a year.i was just on my own but my first boyfriend tried coming back but told him can't date him but we still friend.my new boyfriend refused to see for some period when made me thinks after some month i need to move on with my life but scared to start all over again.now,am now dating first boyfriend.my new boyfriend is back saying he went low because he was sure i have really change.i love my new boyfriend because of his patience towards me despite was i have done.am now in a tight corner dnt know what to do.please u guy should please advice me.want notins but d true.  |
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somze (m)
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The most difficult decision was reading your post, Now I've read it another difficulty is understanding it. When I get there I'd holla  |
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labongua (m)
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I read your mail and the only advice i can give you is to dump the two of them and come to me.i won't give you any conditions 
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colomb (m)
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Praise be to the Lord 4 that.D topic dosen't worth it.A lots of gurls gets similar encounter everyday.Please.
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opokonwa (m)
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I couldn't read the post either  |
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mamaput (f)
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so are three boys involved or only two.
If you are not happy with your boyfriend break up clean cut. stay alone for like 3 months before commiting yourself to another boy,
my advice , break up with all , and look for a new boyfriend.
If you go on like that, you will find yourself having to move location to make a new start
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$hadex (m)
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@ronkeakala My advice for you Take a deep breathe and Rewrite your post. .the two guys got to know i was cheating on them.my first boyfriend said he can't continue with d relationship but d other guy forgave me.but after sometime he started misbehaving and i guess its was due to d fact of what happen.so i was solo,didn't breakup him nor dumped him because i know i deserve it.this whole issue happened over a year.i was just on my own but my first boyfriend tried coming back but told him can't date him but we still friend.my new boyfriend refused to see for some period when made me thinks after some month i need to move on with my life but scared to start all over again.now,am now dating first boyfriend.my new boyfriend is back saying he went low because he was sure i have really change.i love my new boyfriend because of his patience towards me despite was i have done.am now in a tight corner dnt know what to do.please u guy should please advice me.want notins but d true. who is who who is the first who is the second,where are you. your story is kinna making me feel you are even one of the boyfriends rewrite your post |
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dyabman (m)
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mess both of them and leave them okay!!!!!!!!
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nana (f)
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The best thing is to forget about both of them because na insecurity u go dey deal with. Start afresh and look for a muslim so that your pop wont be against your r/ship with d new dude.
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ken1966
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I think there is no big deal really, since you lost commitment towards each other, that makes it look like a game but, it really shows the test of faith.
You and two other guys were playing games, you cannot love two at a time, any of the guys that really passed your test of faith, you should go for him, but it is hurting if the guys never played such games and they know about your game, then you are guilty.
LOVE KNOWS NO MISTAKE PROVIDED THE MISTAKE NEVER OCCUR AGAIN.
But stay happy and keep on loving
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kakameks
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Holla at me via yahoo messenger ( kakameks@yahoo.com) , i've been in that kind of jam with a girl n another guy. i can let u know how it felt n what to xpect. |
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kerzakov (m)
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its all unfortunate
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aysometin (f)
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Oh my God, wonder how many guys are in love wth me or rather claim to be in love with me and want to marry me,the day i start posting it here, nairaland will be empty,peeps will stop visiting. am sorry but this topic is DRY
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aysometin (f)
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Oh my God, wonder how many guys are in love wth me or rather claim to be in love with me and want to marry me,the day i start posting it here, nairaland will be empty,peeps will stop visiting. am sorry but this topic is DRY
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2faces (m)
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For this i will suggest u go with the heart and not the head. because the head is deceivin but try and listen to wot the heart has to say.
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theboy0808 (m)
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Then "unlove them" sharpish!
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2dye4 (m)
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@poster: that is why u are hot! |
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rockiedink (m)
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@$hadex My advice for you
Take a deep breathe and Rewrite your post. it can't have been better said my brother  @aysomething Oh my God, wonder how many guys are in love wth me or rather claim to be in love with me and want to marry me,the day i start posting it here, nairaland will be empty,peeps will stop visiting. am sorry but this topic is DRY you dey zhere? i zhot i was ze only one who zhot zo   |
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Makamiyaki (m)
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my take is neither of them is in love wit u, sorry , dearbut like 2dye4 said , that is why u're hot!!!
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Scopium
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Two are in love with you, how many or who are you in love with? Answer that and your problem of what to do and who to dump is solved.
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felix_weah
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You be Honey? na waoo
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omogenaija (f)
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@ rokiedink n $hadex , love has confused this girl  @ poster u need to leave both those men alone , its not healthly to go back into a relationship that u did the cheating in, u must have had ur reasons. and try to stay away from the whole dating thing for a while , hang out with ur friends. |
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ifyalways (f)
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can somone interpret and summarize the post for me please  then we can think of the soln. |
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Busta (f)
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Really, could anyone make sense of what she wrote? No comma, no fullstop.
Hun, am not sure what u wrote there but from the topic, are u in love with any of them?
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omogenaija (f)
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@ busta n ify i think but I'm not sure she cheated on her bfs n now she is dating them again makes sense ? now I'm more confused then before |
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abiodunade (m)
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marry both of them, e be like say u b fine girl o. jst marry one today and marry d second one 2morow. if one mess u today, then u go carry ur P to d second to do d followin day.
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Nihil-ce-M
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I also have a problem. 20 guys are in love with me, but I am confused. Right now I am dating 19 of them but i think it's not fair. Should I also date the 20th? Please help me. @ topic You see how I was able to summarize my story in just 5 lines? Try again. You might be lucky. |
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omogenaija (f)
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@ nihil-ce-M date the first 10 for 6 months and then date the other 10 in the next 6 months , u have to rotate them |
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Nihil-ce-M
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@ nihil-ce-M date the first 10 for 6 months and then date the other 10 in the next 6 months , u have to rotate them @ poster Have you seen it? The capacity to summarize is very important. I don get one advise sef.  Thank you o my sister. |
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