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Bestglo (f)
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There's no wrong or right time to get married.
You may even never marry if u chose as advised by paul in the book of corinthians.
If you chose to get married, then you have to be mentally,socially, spiritually, sexually, financially and every-other-ally ready.
Word is born.
you are right my guy.That's it no wrong or right time |
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mellow (m)
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I don't believe there is any time or age of getting married. You guys talk of good job,
financial stability and so on and so forth. But whatever happens to emotional and
Psychological stability? You don't have to wait until you make all the money in the world
before you get married but you must definitely wait till you are both emotionally and psychologicall
mature before you ever think of getting or you end up treating your wife like your girlfriend and might
even maltreat her out of youth exuberance. YOU HAVE TO BE EMOTIONALLY STABLE
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viceb
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You ARE RITE MY MELLOW COS THERE ARE ALOT OF IMMATURE MINDS OUT THERE WHO MAY END UP CARSHING UP IN MARRIRAGE.
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chychy (f)
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@tupix 32yrs is good for a guy that have achieved standard things in life. 24-28 good for responsible Babe. Anything after this age depend on some other things, e.g. late education, financial matters and other things to think of. But remember God's time is the best i was going to attack u n ask whether single ladies @ 29 and above are not responsible whe i saw the last line of your post so i rest my case  |
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chychy (f)
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Mellow, i strongly agree with u, there have been cases where men and women attained the so called "marriage age" but were not emotionally or psychologically mature to handle it.
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SOJ (m)
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You may start dating at any age u like, depends on u. But marriage should be at an age when u can reasonably provide for and take on the responsibilities of a new family; whether it be 18 or 40. its a question of maturity and not age no matter what evryone says around u.
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maiyake (m)
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Where I come from, we are bethrothed at birth and ideal age for our girls to marry is 12-14. I think this is the best.
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SOJ (m)
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@mayaiki where i come from, that is child abuse! Haba!i shuld keep u away from my small cousins o  |
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omodada1
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when everything is "Beeee" woment love comfort, when a man can produce all in terms of kind, cash, and the "KOKO", he is set to marry. for me my KOKO is ready but my FOREX account is not yet rich enough to marry but can carry "risto". please don't tell my real girlfriend i said that! sesanomodada@yahoo.co.uk 
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maiyake (m)
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@SOJ
This is not child abuse!!! It is our culture and pride. It keeps our women away from so many vices that are rampant in other parts of the country. Our wives are more homely, submissive and not given to excessess of borrowed foreign cultures.
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Aladunni (f)
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This is not child abuse!!! It is our culture and pride. It keeps our women away from so many vices that are rampant in other parts of the country. Our wives are more homely, submissive and not given to excessess of borrowed foreign cultures.
For enhancement of VESICOVAGINAL FISTULA (VVF)  |
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pmdaboh (f)
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@ C blow
You summed it up very nicely!
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chiegemba (f)
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Varies on individual.just b able 2 provide 4 d family "goes both ways(m & f)"
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IYaeto (f)
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There is no age limit or approximate age.
You are ready for marriage if:
1. You can afford it- Extra mouths to feed, mainitain etc (you have a good job/business)
2. You're comfortable and content with what you have
3. You feel that you're mentally capable and resoonsible
4. You meet someone that understands you,rocks your world ,reliable, your friend, and a whole lot more
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tupix (m)
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dwonder, are u one of Jehovah's witnesses???
I ask the question because your words are too spiritual but nice.
Keep it up
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slimes (m)
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Different strokes for different folks. Individuals differ in decision making. But my advise is if u want to be happy to see your children with therir own kids, marry early.
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ursie (f)
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Maturity is the right age for either sexes
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teetee2 (f)
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Whatever the age limit, Man proposes God disposes. Atimes a lady plan to be married at age of 25 but marriage refuse to be established due to any circumstance that can't be explained. Would she kill herself? There is appointed time for everything.
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lilian777 (f)
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Before two people come together in holy matrimony,both should be mature enough and ready.A guy of 38 who lived a triangular life in school may still want to do the things he didnt do when married and an 18 year old married girl,still full of life may run away with your Meiguard or Driver when you are busy touring the whole world on official assignment.Watch it! Ask yourself if you are ready to be tied to one person for the rest of your life.Then do it only when u must have honestly answered your question, male or female.
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HAH
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According to my lecturer back in the university (Omar Hambagda Presently a senator in Nigeria) the years between a man and his wife should be 15 his argument is that the strength of a sixty years old man is equal to 45year old woman which is usually the beginning of menopause He said if a man marries his age mate or something close to it then at a certain age the man will be so powerful and the woman weak thereby not being satisfied He even gave illustration with a graph where the point of equilibrium of 45years old woman meet with 60 year old man. Personally I believe the age of marriage should be 20-25 for ladies and 28-33 for gents
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$hadex (m)
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for me i think i would like to get married when am about 35-45 years old and would get married to a 24-26yr old lady.why?
I LOVE beautiful girls,We(guys) all love beautiful girls but i love them exceptionally,I kinna noticed that if i find myself falling for a girl that is not fine,i would tone down the whole thing.I mean,i need a girl i can always admire everytime.I girl i can always look at and be like damn!!!!
I love girls looking all fit,sexy and young,i can't imagine gettin married at 28 maybe to a 24 or 25 yr old girl and when am 38 she would be 35,already looking like a woman while i would still have that guy look.
Yea its all about love,but trust me,for me,its also about looks.at least thats what attracted me to her in the first place and that is part of what would make me stay attracted.so i guess before my taste for beauty can diminish,i would be about 55-60 years and my lady would just be about 35-40.
funny.but thats whats up
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toyinrayo (f)
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the age you feel you're ready to see the same man everyday of your life and willing to bare his little soldiers
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Igbobeauty (f)
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I want to get married by 18/19 and have a child at 20, you may be wondering why, well that's because I do believe that Jesus is coming very soon, I'm going to have to do something with my life right now.
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ozigbo (m)
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for lady 25 is ok, for men 35 if the both of them are
financialy and psych stable.
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ozigbo (m)
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for lady 25 is OK, for men 35 if the both of them are
financially and psych stable.
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Kubed2klin (m)
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I think the ripe age for marriage, depends on the readiness of the couple, and the levell of maturity.
But anyway, 21 for ladies and 24 for men isn't bad,
I gives their kids room to enjoy their parents while their meagre life expectancy lasts,
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lollypopo
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  ; l believe that Gods time is d best
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KDK (m)
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ecclesiastes 3:1- 10,
There is a time and a season for everything . . . . .
If it is your season of marriage,then it is ok.
Marriage is a very serious issue;Bottomline is not to move before God and not to move after God. Just let God guide you in your decisions. Remember that whomever , you will marry is the person you will spend the next 70 or more years on this planet with and as such you must endeavour to do it right.
God bless you all.
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maxwell A. (m)
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Can a man be really comfortable? All this talk about if a man is comfortable then he can marry doesn't cut it for me. Marriage is in the mind and has nothing to do with your pocket.If you can't feed yourself you can find a woman who can feed you.If you can't pay for your wedding your wife's family might be ready to sponsor it.For me the right age for a man to get married is 27 and 22 for a lady.Except something do you.Afterall Richard of BB fame is married at 25.
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Bastino (m)
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well i think comfortability and maturity are the two main levels to be attained before marriage is tot of!
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