Why Do Men Need To Have Variety In Love?

like i would get pissed at that, when i was going with this guy we be walkin somewhere then some chick will be passin by and he'll be starin straight up at her a**. And i have enough a** to supply him.
But i would much rather prefer him to be lookin at her butt, than actually doing something with her.

I don't think I'm like that.  I value stability and loyalty more than all that.

@Free

Hi sister, i totally disagree with your statement. Its like you think men are some dogs with their tongues hanging loose and just about looking for the next,    and all that they are, pure fakers,

It would have been better if you related your observation to "Some Men". cmon, i don't think so, and i guess its because a lot of women have it seated at theback of their mind that their man "is going to cheat on me" thats why things sometimes don't work out as you expect.

Another thing, men do not actually need to go outside to get the variety they need, heres one truth:
***If you know the way to a mans belly, you know the way to His heart. I know some husbands that they can hardly ever eat in any other place, be it fast-food, or at a party etc., except its the food their wife cooks**** and besides, a woman that loves a man will love everything about him and provide him the variety he needs right there within the confines of their home.

Men have really weird hormones. They can be truthful to their spouse, but damn,  do you blame them? They see a nice apple rounded ass walking in front of them, and you espect them not to fantasize?

I bet you, if we girls could see the size of men's privates from their pants, we would also fantasize. Besides, when you see just the "guns" some men have,  u go all,  "damn, he's powerful,  i just want him to throw me on his bed". See, it's almost the same,  except, some men can't control themselves,  they go wayyy overboard with the thing. Look and appreicate, it's accepted if you get lost in it a little bit, but wake up fast before you get in trouble.

Uhnn? If i understand you well,  i think you're talking about gay people.

I was saying men are not to be blamed, becaose if they see a fine as woman walk by, they must LOOK!. But a lady can see a fine ass brother, appreciate and stop looking.

Don't make me laugh?
Somemen are not into women the don't cheat.
Some men don't have the time thats why they don't cheat.
That stuff about the woman having everything that a man wants is Karp.
Then no man also has everything a woman wants. And thats no reason to stray.
What happened to  all the for better for worse stuff.
Men that cheat are running a way from responsibility and they run to women who offer them fun.
A wife has to think about security and the future of the family.
But men are like small kids they like to runaway to play.

@Free

I don't know what kind of man you've gat Free but My aint like that.

If he'b looking at some chick's ass, hell i'll castrate him,,,,,,, straight.

the answer is simple

women carry the results of sex for 9 months. It pays them to seek stability.

A man's involvement ends when he jerks out his spunk.  It pays him to look for another host for his squirming parasites.

if you had 10 men and 10 women on a desert island, the rate of growth wont slow down if you kill 9 of the men, but it will plummet if you kill 9 of the women.

we are naturally 'wired' to maximise this equation and boost our population. Civilisation and morality is all about using better judgement to rise above this natural orientation. So it becomes a matter of discipline.

the man's body may desire variety, but there is no need to have variety. In fact, all it brings is WAHALA. so dudes, if ya cap is standing for some other chick on the street, remember that it will stand just as straight for ya one and only. don't go cheatin unless u want to lose the bird in hand. And girls, don't be fooled into thinkin ure man 'doesnt do that shit'. cause he does. u just don't know.

@lionesss
am happy for you that your man aint like that 


@eddy tells
is true that girls cheat toooo, am not going to denie that
but you man make it soo obvious,

True talk, thats the God made it,  If all men were allocated just one woman on earth as it is today, the left-overs would run into billions.

Free has said it all that we men make it so obvious! I wish we can chop, clean mouth, waka like women, and pretend it never ever happen! shikina!

If wishes were horses beggers will ride
When it comes to hiding evidence men are so daft.
So daft they will even keep a phone number in their jacket pocket.
A woman will learn the number off head or write it down somewere the man will never dream of looking.

Women can fake an orgasm, but we men can fake an entire relationship.      _{but i don't o!}

mamaput and Rhodalyn in-other words you're both saying that women cheat morethan men only that they know how to clear/hide the evidence! intresting! Remind me of my friend's ex that write phone numbers backwards! breeze don blow fowl yash don open! True Confession! na una dey talk am Oh no be me!

Men don't need variety -- the undisciplined ones want it and it's sad they're in the majority -- well, you know how it is with majorities.