Why Do Men Need To Have Variety In Love?

your just speaking for a few good man out there

oooh really we think because thats what it is, tell me how many men out there are able to put their feelings or relationships
before their hormones, (ya'll just can't control ur hormones period)

oooh am not saying all men, but i know there are a few good men out there
and a lot of not so good one , _{the bad apples have ruined it for the good apples}

lol if you think so then 

Most men i think do have varieties of love because in most cases they might have been jilted one way or the other. A broken heart they say can never be like a whole.no wounded lion will ever go near a trap, especially if it is hungry carelessly,there must be a way to get the bait without the hook. Men are trained to be cunny by girls when they were still boys.

men r just full of shit i ave given up thou

@Geraldyn
Common girl, it can't be that bad! yeah, a lot of men have doggish traits, but you know we women are not completely innocent, if we don't cheat, we check men out too--i know i do! , but not with the intent to have them, but i appreciate a good looking man when i see one, but in all truth and honesty, i've been blessed with a wonderful man, and i cannot ask for better. So, don't give up on men, they're useful, in their own way, even if it's to take out the trash. When you least expect it, the guy just might come along, and for all you know, you might know him, i knew mine for years before anything happened, not once did i consider the possibility of us getting together, and now we're walking to the altar. So don't give up on men, there are still some good ones out there. Just pray about it.

In this issue, self-control plays a large role. Why should I see a good looking lady pass-nbye and will not appreciate her beauty? I thinkk what matters is that we men needs a lot of self-control to show. Just b/c i looked at a lady pass-bye does not make me go after her. Afterall I have one right beside me.

I also think you the ladies need to work on this aspect in your man. It is natural to men to do that but not natural to lust after it. If you as a lady looks at other ladies even when you are right there beside him, then engage him and try to get what he is looking at in the lady so that you can put that on yourself. If its the a** or the burst, then may be you will need to make him see yours too. Prbably walk in freont of him and not beside him. Afterall, who says another guy is not even looking at you as you walk with your man.

Abegi, no so Baba create us, love us with it.

He has a mighty problem. I'd feel bad if my girl (I don't have one) looks at other men dreamily while she's with me so I wonder why most men feel it's normal to "appreciate" beauty.

Many of them will have a huge row with their girlfriends over the boy they "saw them talking with" but feel insulted when the girl insinuates the same. It's all about vanity -- most men feel they are more important in a relationship and can get away with anything, while the woman answers only to him. Pathetic.

^{Thanks 2c.}

If you really want to get a [typical] man angry, be the one to call off the relationship. They usually feel they should be the ones ending it and feel insulted that a "mere" woman finds them wanting.

In Pakistan for example, if a woman files for divorce, the man takes it as an insult to his honour and accuses her of adultery. Women are usually of "no consequence" there so they can't accuse the men, and the man's accusations are taken as gospel. You know what an accusation of adultery is for a muslim woman in a muslim country.

@lioness,
 if I were you i will be suspicious of my man. Men are wired in such a way that a woman's booty triggers off their hormones. Women  know that , that's why you get guys attention. It will be  foolish to think that men don't fatasize about women's  apples.

Guys are so complicated,when some guys love,they wont cheat on you but i don't know if those that do cheat after claiming that they are in love are really in love.

I am grossly disappointed the men should come to this place

and say openly that cheating is in men's nature. How can they

 shamelessly say that? They are invariably telling us that they

 cheat on their spouse and that is not good enough.

Cheating, like stealing is a vice and it is found in some men

as well as some women. It has nothing to do with whether you

sexually satisfied with your spouse or not. Why do you think some

girls from rich homes are into prostitution? is it because their parents are

not financially satisfying them? No it is not. It i just a vice and it is

in nobody's nature. We all have different character traits which can be

positive or negative.What of rich men's children that are armed robbers?

It is just habit that can be cured. Some women have it too. Imagine a

 married woman having sex with her house boy when the husband is not at home?

Lets forget this whole shyt and pray that God does not give us a cheating spouse.

@ Seun

You are very lucky that cheating is not one of your vices but i guess that You have some

vices that a man who cheats on his spouse does not have.

Still me