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blessme (f)
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Do you think it will make a good union, A graduate marrying a non graduate?
Especially with reference to a Lady, Master holder, and perhaps with professional pursuits, you think such should marry a class six holder and perhaps a petty trader? What do you all think?.
I know most times its easier for men to marry non graduates but what do you think on the above scenario
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whiteroses (f)
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i don't think it's not a good union because the man doesn't bring a promising future for you, what if you loose your job or something. it's very rare for the girl to be the graduate because the person that wants to marry you was attracted to you probably in the same university or at the bank and he gets to be the accountant of that bank not the mechanic around the corner of the canteen that took your fancy. you wouldn't even give a chance anyway.
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Seun (m)
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What if the "non-graduate" is rich and business-smart? Can he assure her of a good future?  |
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whiteroses (f)
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yeah seun rich and business is very good but in this case she said a petty trader. like omolosan
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Skidoc (m)
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Hahaha @ Omo Olosan. You people just want to kill me with laughter on this forum right?  |
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Rhodalyn (f)
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is marriage about education or love? i know in this modern world, every man/lady would like to marry a graduate but then also, there's going to be soo much competition!! the lady is going to think, oh i've been to unni why then should i let this man bluff on me blah blah blah you know it just isnt worth it!!! i would like to marry a graduate thou!!  but i just think marriage should be based on love and not high level of education |
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dominobaby (f)
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I don't think its a question of it's RIGHT or not but if u CAN or not.
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davidylan (m)
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Depends on you, if it's workable by all means go for it. the best guys are not always the educated ones!
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blessme (f)
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sure, davidylan, the best guys are not really the educated ones, was just asking to know the society view on such union
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Longesson (m)
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NEWS FLASH!!!Bill Gates' wife is divorcing him, BECAUSE HE DROPPED OUT OF SCHOOL!!!! Who gives a "rat's arse" if one person is a graduate or not? Next we'll ask if a First Class can marry someone with a Third Class?  People should spend more time thinking how they can be more productive with their university or " glorified secondary school" degrees rather than wondering if that should be an additional criteria in the search for a life partner.  Don't we have enough criteria already(age, race, sex,height, religion, ethnic origin, family background etc etc etc etc) MY VERDICT: It is mortally WRONG for A Graduate To Marry A Non Graduate. Anyone caught engaging in this act should he executed in 7 different ways 
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babymine (f)
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I don't see anything wrong with it. And anyways, there's always room for improvement. |
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chy (f)
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i don't think is a bad thing to do
marriage is all about care and love
there are some graduates that treat their wives as slaves
is all about individualityso go for the guy if graduate or not
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Rhodalyn (f)
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Depends on you, if it's workable by all means go for it. the best guys are not always the educated ones!
you're very right, the best guys aint always the educated one's |
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alj (m)
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i think it depends what the degree is in -if you have a philosophy degree you will not be happy with a plumber even if he has many businesses and much wealth but if you have a business degree than you will appreciate him all the more!
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idiot-boop (f)
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Serious worries for the Nigerian community if all think like this. Again Nigerian pre occupation with status, wealth, education, how people speak, how people dress, how many times people travel abroad, what schools their children go to, there is even now a hierarchy on degrees, certs, how we love accolades(Dr, chief, Enng, Surveyor,Alhaji,Bsc, Msc , ) when will we give it a rest, i thought all this will die off with new generation and all that , but it seems younger people are all doing the exact thing their parents did) for the love of God give it all a rest, i have seen the smarted people without a degree go on and achieve things, what ever happened to personal fulfilment, taking your destiny in your hands? Everyone is too busy keeping up with the jones'.Sad. NEWS FLASH!!!Bill Gates' wife is divorcing him, BECAUSE HE DROPPED OUT OF SCHOOL!!!! Who gives a "rat's arse" if one person is a graduate or not? Next we'll ask if a First Class can marry someone with a Third Class? People should spend more time thinking how they can be more productive with their university or " glorified secondary school" degrees rather than wondering if that should be an additional criteria in the search for a life partner. Don't we have enough criteria already(age, race, sex,height, religion, ethnic origin, family background etc etc etc etc) MY VERDICT: It is mortally WRONG for A Graduate To Marry A Non Graduate. Anyone caught engaging in this act should he executed in 7 different ways There is hope still thank God and thank you |
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snazzydawn (f)
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Personally,I don't want to marry someone with less qualifications that I
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IAH (f)
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Snazzy, so if 2face your lover (and ocho's) proposes to you, you no go gree?  |
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snazzydawn (f)
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a big NO!!!!
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afrilover2 (m)
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it is very right for a non graduate to marry a graduate,ifthe love is there,there is nothing to worry about because marraige is all about love,and undestanding,i don't see anything wrong in that,thanks.
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Bright2 (m)
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Bettyboop,uv'e said it all my dear, is degree not this one people pick from differen high institution without merrit?.A petty trader is better than those degree holder without job for 12years.
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diyobdw (f)
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You shall be shocked to know how sensless and uneducated some graduates are.Have you heard about those who go through sch without sch going thruogh them?  The degree you earn it not what you are made of. |
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diyobdw (f)
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@ Rhodalyn you're welcome |
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