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Bay1970 (m)
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my wife refuse to give me her e-mail password, is she up to something?
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4peace (m)
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Why on earth do you need that.You want to kill yourself.
Let ask you a question
do your wife know all your password to your emails¿
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Emeka 7. (m)
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I don't think it is okay to read your wife's e-mail since you are not the owner; unless she agrees.
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mamaput (f)
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women are not stupid. its easy to get another email adress even 10.
if she was up to something she will give you the e mail password of one .
amibo is it everything you want to know.
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akinalabi (m)
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Why read your partners emails?
Why pick your parners calls?
Why read your partners texts?
You can't gain anything doing it?
Maybe heartache sha?
Akin
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Hail_Naija
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YES O.She is definitely up to. . .  Shou!! what is d essence of marriage eh?. . .if not to be true to each other, this entails being open to each other, which connotes not keeping anything away from each other,which partly defines what a good marriage is!! Abeg she is up to something joo. |
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autopilot
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no! it is not okay except she says its okay!
unless she reads yours.
there should be some privacy men, even in marriage.
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eezzy (f)
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What are you thinking! Are you suspecting her of something or are you suspicious by nature. What ARE you up to? People don't normally think in terms of e-mails, phone messages yes, but e-mail  . You going too far!!! |
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Prince T
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Well, i dont see anything wrong in having your wife's email password and if she does'nt give you that does not mean she has something to hide from you.But it depends on both of you or have you been suspecting her in having extra marital affairs?It 's up too you.
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mekoyo (m)
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Or are you up to something yourself?
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onyeka_ng (f)
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if your wife decides to let u ave the password FINE but if not jus 4get it bro,all dat nosing around aint necessary cos it will only result to suspision and eventually LACK OF TRUST.plzzzzzzzzz don't do this to urself and your marriage.all the best  |
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diva_naija
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 wel. . . am kind of confused here since a lotta peeps r soo against the readin yr spouse mail thing. I for one if married wil most def let my man hav my password if it so pleases him cus am an open person.Now if it were the boyfriend/fiancee who can dump u anytime then that's a differnet story cus he ain't got no right. Ma sister is happily married n her husband checks her mail 4 her n vis versa cus most times she 4get to do that.I don't see anything wrong wit readin yr wife's E-mail unless maybe she's got some surprises she doesn't want u to kno about lik mayb she's planing to invite Micheal Jackson over for yr birthday?? Jus me and what i think. |
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lukmond
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wel. . . am kind of confused here since a lotta peeps r soo against the readin yr spouse mail thing. I for one if married wil most def let my man hav my password if it so pleases him cus am an open person.Now if it were the boyfriend/fiancee who can dump u anytime then that's a differnet story cus he ain't got no right. Ma sister is happily married n her husband checks her mail 4 her n vis versa cus most times she forget to do that.I don't see anything wrong wit readin yr wife's E-mail unless maybe she's got some surprises she doesn't want u to kno about lik mayb she's planing to invite Micheal Jackson over for yr birthday?? hnnmm,my dear even husbands dump their wives, @poster she's not up to something maybe u are the one being mischievious.like the saying goes,,"one who kills with the sword is afraid of the sword lying harmlessly behind him", Jus me and what i think. |
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(fake)david
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she is hiding something - for sure - everything should be open in a marriage - but if its not - then be sure something is going amiss.
for sure she is having an affair - if i am u - i will slap her and force her out of her - or - i will refuse to give her sex for one month until she does so.
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Stardust (f)
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This is so funny  Why would you want to read someone's emails - wife or otherwise  . It wasn't sent to you. You might as well, go thru the contents of her bag, pick out her clothes for her, hire a private dective to follow her, the list is endless. For peace of mind, just simply mind your own business.  She is your wife not your property. You are not privy to listen to all her conversations and read all her texts and emails, likewise, she has no right to demand to read your emails, texts and listen to your conversation. Let it go, otherwise, you fit bring unnecesary wahala inside your life. |
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aahmed112
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@davidyland@yahoo.com I'm sure u jus lost d chance of a potential relationship with any girl on this thread,  but on d real hw do u conclude your wife is cheating if she refuses 2 giv u her email password? Its marriage boi, not some 'hanki-panki-i-love-u' thang! @ poster If u didnt notice any other strange behaviour bout her n it was all good before she slammed d hammer on d password, den guess u hav 2 b a bit mo conscious of your emotions n control it, because that would b making s'thing out of n'thing! pretend n'thing happened n get on wit your marital life! Everyone is privacy conscious, at least 2 some extent. If all is bliss, u guys cud even go through her inbox sometime without her even noticing she jus did that, good luck wit that tho ! |
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Kc0022000 (m)
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Save yourself the pain and sleepless night counting star above, even in marriage there should be line.Why would you need her password ? Your crazy in-fact
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kwoseb (m)
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No. never. dont ever read your spouse's email. its an invitation to heartache. and i am talking from experience
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Gwazah (m)
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BAY1970!
by the time your wife will be up to something u won't know it again that is just one thing.your wife have her privacy is the truth. i would have said u are wrong but i don't know if two of u don't have trust for each. may be two of u are just like Hyena.
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kwoseb (m)
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davidland see what u wrote: i will slap her and force her out of her - or - i will refuse to give her sex for one month until she does so."
if u dont give her another man will and u will be the loser o
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ayomifull (f)
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''Why read your partners emails?
Why pick your parners calls?
Why read your partners texts?
You can't gain anything doing it?
Maybe heartache sha?
Akin''
Akin you are just correct, i did that sometimes ago(not intentionally though), my husband was sleeping and a text came in i wanted to be sure it was a text i need to wake him to respond to or not (thought it may be one of his clients who needed him urgently) so i read the text, that happened 5 years ago and there is still a wound in my heart as a result of that reading. So its not a good idea don't even try it, see such things as personal. Though i know some of my friends their husband actually reads their mail and pass the message accross to them but that depends on if the person in question wants it if not forget it, it may leave a permanent wound in your heart.
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henchmark
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mailer bay 1970,
your problem to me is very simple, i want to believe you dated your wife before you married her, have you been reading her text messages and e-mails, if not why now, you should check yourself, but if you have then you shouldnt ask her.
for me i read my girl friends text messages and she reads mine like wise e-mails and we dont see anything wrong, afterall am not hiding anything, afterall you both are meant to be one especially as youre married, if you didnt start before marriage i do not know why you want to now? note that we only read each other message after the other has read it or we both read together.
DO YOU ALLOW HER TO READ YOURS? IF YOU DONT THEN YOU SHOULD GO FOR SWIMMING
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(fake)david
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it is a foolish woman who hides anything from her husband.
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Bob James (m)
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She is definitely upto some funny things.
i mistankenly pop into my wifes'.
Boy it was very revealing.
Dont think about it.
She may be doing it elsewhere.
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Ebonyj (f)
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Not really I don't think she is up to anything. Most people just like to have a bit of privacy. Although personally , I do read my husbands emails not because I don't trust him , he is always very busy and would ask me to please check his email, so I have just gotten into the habit of checking it to see if he has any important mails. He knows the passwosword to mine as well, but I don't think he checks it.
Please don't loose your trust in your wife, if you are still bothered about it then talk(seriously) to her.
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Bob James (m)
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@davidyland.
i agree with u.
Some women are by themselves breakers of their own home.
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londoner
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Certainly not without her prior concent. E-mail is just another mode of communication, like the traditional letter. Do you open letters addressed to your wife? Does she open letters addressed to you?
If you read her e-mails in a secretive manner then you already know its not right, otherwise you wouldn't hide the fact.
Just because someone expects you to respect their privacy, it doesn't mean they have something to hide.
Are you suspicuous of your wife in the first place? Trust me, if she is getting up to no good, she doesn't need to do so via e-mail.
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spora (m)
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Why read your partners emails?
Why pick your parners calls?
Why read your partners texts? Because she is your partner. Na outsider e-mail he go read?  You can't gain anything doing it?
Maybe heartache sha? I thought you said he can't gaining anything. Is heartache not something? |
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eezzy (f)
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she is hiding something - for sure - everything should be open in a marriage - but if its not - then be sure something is going amiss.
for sure she is having an affair - if i am u - i will slap her and force her out of her - or - i will refuse to give her sex for one month until she does so.
@davidyland.
i agree with u.
Some women are by themselves breakers of their own home.
Weeeeellll!!! Can all the male chauvinists in the house raise their hands!!! What total crap!! |
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(fake)david
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if its the other way round - see what the woman will say -
I mean if its the wife putting up this thread, I am sure the smelie p ussy women in here will say the same - they will scream loud that the hubby is cheating.
Arrant hypocrites.
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londoner
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If somone is not giving you strong signals of infidelity, yet you are looking for evidence of it, its more about you than them. That goes for male and female. If a women asked my opinion, it would be the same. Once you're over a certain age, its time to put the childish things away. Deal with it like an adult, no need to play Sherlock Holmes.
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eezzy (f)
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Women are more concerned with red handed that foolish suspicion.
Women have too much brains to ask for email passwords, which is
why none has posted a stupid thread like this one.
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