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Ib (f)
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Your wife is entitled to her privacy and so are you. Unless there is suspicious behaviour. People need to learn to treat their partners as individuals who have a right to keeping a little bit of themselves to themselves if they so please. I personally cannot stand this whole concept of "ownership" and "possessiveness" in a loving relationship.
Just because i choose a man to be my partner/husband does not give him the right to read my text messages, or pick up my phone, and read my emails, especially when this is done with a malicious intent to catch me unawares.
in my opinion, it all comes down to trust. People also need to look within and deal with their insecurities, so that you don't keep harrassing your partner and suspecting every move they make
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felygirl (f)
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Please if your wife does not want you to read her mail, then fine and good let her be i think you married are because you love and trust her, so please don’t allow this to break your home or bring in problem into your matrimonial life. Build your house on a solid trust and love.
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lordmassac (m)
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you will kill your self  |
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lafile (m)
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well, i have my wife's password and she has mine. not for any particular reason. Sometimes either one of us may be somewhere for a period without the internet.
Come to think of it, if she had anything to hide she can still open another account without my knowing.
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(fake)david
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are these women in here married? it shows the kind of home they will run when they eventually get married.
by the way they talk here - they will be the kind of women that will say to their husband - dear - have u washed my pant?
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dear - have you washed the plates
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dear - have u gone to the market!
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Carlosein (m)
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are these women in here married? it shows the kind of home they will run when they eventually get married.
by the way they talk here - they will be the kind of women that will say to their husband - dear - have u washed my pant?
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dear - have you washed the plates
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dear - have u gone to the market!
david, abeg i really sorry for you if you can not trust the woman you marry. @topic try and trust her for a bit afterall you are one as husband and wife. |
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mamaput (f)
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please its all about amibo.
a wife still stays a sister a daughter and a friend.
maybe the wife was not keeping @ poster up to date with local and international gossip so he wants to find out.
may be he wants to chase one of her friends and is only looking for the email address of the friend
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Carlosein (m)
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@mamaput, you want to kill me with lafta ehn  |
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Echidime (m)
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I can help you get her email password if you give me her email address,is not a difficult task, I get hundreds of passwords everyday simply on know your email address.
Another Microsoft of Africa I hear you say. Is not joke. A trial will convince you
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hbrednic
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@poster now your wife has turned into your property. go on and break your home,you need password  abeg learn how to respect yourself. |
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skyone (m)
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I can help you get her email password if you give me her email address,is not a difficult task, I get hundreds of passwords everyday simply on know your email address.
Another Microsoft of Africa I hear you say. Is not joke. A trial will convince you
Chei Echidime na wa o, se na the new level of grabbing babes be this? Anyway to first poster, tell me what brought that idea in to your head in the first place? watch out for the devil and save your marriage. |
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Teetams
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I want 2 approach dis issue in 2 dimensions.First of all,i really do not see why a husband should ask his wife 4 her password if he is not suspicious.Such a husband must have chronic jealousy.However,on the other hand,if there is genuine love in dat relationship,there is no reason why a wife should not give her husband her password, My advice is to the husband is simple, STOP PRYING UNNECESSARILY INTO YOUR WIFE'S AFFAIRS!!!!!!!!
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Hail_Naija
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if there is genuine love in that relationship,there is no reason why a wife should not give her husband her password
GWAM!! |
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diva_naija
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Double GBAM GBAM!!
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sod4luv (m)
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Your wife is entitled to her privacy and so are you. Unless there is suspicious behaviour. People need to learn to treat their partners as individuals who have a right to keeping a little bit of themselves to themselves if they so please. I personally cannot stand this whole concept of "ownership" and "possessiveness" in a loving relationship.
Just because i choose a man to be my partner/husband does not give him the right to read my text messages, or pick up my phone, and read my emails, especially when this is done with a malicious intent to catch me unawares.
in my opinion, it all comes down to trust. People also need to look within and deal with their insecurities, so that you don't keep harrassing your partner and suspecting every move they make
Gud 1, |
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(fake)david
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all these foolish women in here - why did she say no if she has nothing to hide?
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mamaput (f)
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all these foolish women in here - why did she say no if she has nothing to hide?
maybe because she knows her husband. thats how he will come and post the sister inlaws story here . |
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fuzek
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all these foolish women in here - why did she say no if she has nothing to hide?
hey don't be too harsh!!! if she had anything to hide, there are smarter ways she could use u know  wateva d case maybe. . .do 2 odas (partner) wat u'l want to be done 2 u  |
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mamaput (f)
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and men have been known to be on the look out for address and numbers of their wives friends
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diva_naija
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U all r confusing me o.  All i kno is this is Marriage we r talkin about.A union supposedly ordained by GOD.Why wud any partner want to keep anything away from the other partner eh?? Is that how it is bein taught in Church?? I jus don't get it any more.  |
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mamaput (f)
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You all r confusing me o. All i kno is this is Marriage we r talkin about.A union supposedly ordained by GOD.Why would any partner want to keep anything away from the other partner eh?? Is that how it is bein taught in Church?? I jus don't get it any more. so it is everything your mother tells you that you will run and tell your husband. maybe its your sister telling you something. |
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Ivvie
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Most of you have no clue what marriage is all about. It's a categorical shame! That is why one reaps what he/she sows.
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mamaput (f)
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if i am a teacher a doctor or a pastor, its not everything i hear from my "group " that i will come and tell my husband.
if something happened to me and i write my sister what happened, its not everything i expect her to go and tell her husband.
whats her husbands biz with the colour of my pant
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diva_naija
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so it is everything your mother tells you that you will run and tell your husband. maybe its your sister telling you something.
Sis,why wud ma mum/sis want to e-mail me bout somethin ma husband sudn't kno about?? . . . |
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mamaput (f)
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Sis,why would ma mum/sis want to e-mail me bout somethin ma husband sudn't kno about?? . . . just maybe you ae living miles or seas apart. |
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