Are Nigerian Men Lazy Or Just Completely Insensitive?

 

That is what a long history of "sufferhead" causes.  If any woman is so used to being "unappreciated or pamperless", there is a long term simmering feeling of "pepper bodi syndrome". 

Even if the man starts to say goodmorning honey one day out of the blues the only thing in the woman's mind is "useless man"!   Na so so cuss.  "Ye ye man--you no go die better"!!!   Pesin dey see something for Nigeria oh!

The woman can never appreciate anything from the guy she is with since the point of no return sufferhead status has been climbed.  Nothing the man would do can make a difference.  So guys start early and be sensitive to your girlfriends and wives needs so you do not end up with a perpertual bitch-bat!--PBB    You cannot turn back the hands of the clock or time since you guys are in "injury time" phase of your relationship!

Make una avoid pepper bodi syndrome-----PBS----oh!

pepper bodi synWHAT!

Krazied, Lets be honest , the  American male, be he White or Black,  seeing a Nigerian woman struggling with  all the bags while her Nigerian husband walks empty handed, would see it the same way as the original poster. Rightly or wrongly the usual complaint that Americans/British/ Carribeans have about Nigerian men is that they feel they expect their women to be slaves. Thats not my opinion of Nigerian men in general . But truthfully, thats how many non Nigerians  see you.

Almondjoy, lol. I have my moments. I tell you, this site has been an education in itself.

i get u gat 2 go

eezzy I agree 100%

Most African men, Especialy Nigerian men are the real Deal.
Look before you Leap, "Curiousity Kills the Cat, Satisfaction made it Last"

@Nannu,
nice to hear that ooo!

so u can see its the world over for those that are complaining,

NEW YORK (Reuters Life!) - The more money a married woman earns, the less housework she will do regardless of how much her spouse earns, according to a new study.

A researcher at the University of Massachusetts Amherst found that big paychecks equal less cooking and cleaning in a study of 918 women in double-income families.

Married women who made $40,000 or more a year spent nearly one hour less on housework per day than women who earned $10,000 or less, according to the findings based on data from the National Survey of Families and Households.

"Up to this point, people have thought that the important thing was how much money a woman makes compared to her husband. But the only thing that matters is how much money she earns," Sanjiv Gupta, the study's author, said in an interview.

The study, which is published in the Journal of Marriage and Family, showed that for every $7,500 in annual income a married woman earned, she performed one hour less of housework each week.

Gupta confirmed the link between money, domestic work and spousal relationships in a separate, unpublished study using data on nearly 2,000 couples in the United States and Europe.

The average earnings of American women increased by $6,200 between 1965 and 1995, according to the US. Census Bureau. During that time, the amount of time married women spent on weekly chores fell by 14.6 hours.

Since the husband's earnings had no effect on the amount of housework a woman does, the finding suggest women are using their own money to reduce their domestic workloads such as ordering take-out food instead of cooking and hiring cleaners instead of doing it themselves, Gupta said.

"The negative side of it is that it shows just how divided households remain by gender. It emphasized how much housework is the woman's responsibility."

http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20071119/lf_nm_life/housework_paycheck_dc

All these women should go and marry Ghanaian men or even go marry oyinbo sef.
If na so we bad, make you people go and marry other men. But make you no come back after everything scatter scatter because we sef no want 'ajeku' women.

Nigerian men in America are the best I am talking from experience at least those who we know and are close to they step up and be the man of the house and their wives supports them. If I am asked to marry again, I will marry the same man, color, shape, culture there is no perfect human beings men have their short coming women have their short comings. If a man is lazy something is wrong somewhere if a man is insensitive something is wrong some where case close

Ok, I'm a Malaysian and I am dating a Nigerian guy. I would always prefer to do everything myself without depending on anyone else and when I have him in  my life, he basically would want to share every single thing with me. I like it alot but I;m just not use to it and I'm trying to get use to it. So when I go for shopping, he would help me grab a trolley, carry all the stuff which makes me really uncomfortable so I tend to always try grabbing the stuff away from him and things like that and we end up teasing each other all the time and we would laugh about it so I don't see him being bad in any ways. I'm not saying that he is perfect. he has his flauss just like any other people on earth including me but I love him for who he is. Guess I;m just trying to say that in this whole world, you will have good people and bad people and its like a lottery. If you meet up with the good ones, then you are lucky but if you don't, then you always have the choice to decide what turf you want to take next to make your life happier so please don't think negatively about a certain race just because one rotten apple spoils the whole crowd. Hope it helps

It's a pity that up till now people still don't get the point. Well, too bad.