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lilrukevwe (m)
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presido1 u done put anoder bomb so u don see were woman they beat husband oghene biko oh
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presido1 (m)
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You never see before? all these thin men wey dey marry orobokibo,
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toyinrayo (f)
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@toyinrayo my name sake, well true but u forgot to add that its evident with evry oda nationality not just nigerian men. and now that u re askin d question in a more incisive and matured manner, i bet u'll get betta replies Achiogo lern from your elder sisters ow to 'geress' the naija man's ego and u'll go places.   elder sister ke?  you make me feel old  |
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chiogo (f)
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@prince_onx, wow, lmao, issue with me?? well, what can i say?? be my guest. Before i started postin', i believe i said "no offense".even if i didn't, it really has nothin' to do with u so i don't understand u havin' "issues" with me.lol, internet anger. God help me!!
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FemiATL
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how is it generalizin' when my topic is a question??. it's not like it says" naija men are lazy and insensitive". ok, get it together. Gosh I hope this lady is educated. Moderators please include educational qualification level as a criterion for posting topics. Can someone please tell us the difference between "Are Nigerian Men Lazy Or just Completely Insensitive" and "Are some Nigerian Men Lazy Or just Completely Insensitive" "Some" of us are having hard time understanding what "some" are saying. |
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subice (m)
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This seems to be a really serious topic. The thing though is most posters have valid points in what they have said. What i'll say is that it might be true for a lot of nigerian guys but not all guys. It's not good to generalize on such a thing. Perceptions are always influenced by the culture (way of life) of the society you live in.
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chiogo (f)
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Gosh I hope this lady is educated. Moderators please include educational qualification level as a criterion for posting topics.
Can someone please tell us the difference between
"Are Nigerian Men Lazy Or just Completely Insensitive"
and
"Are some Nigerian Men Lazy Or just Completely Insensitive"
"Some" of us are having hard time understanding what "some" are saying.
phewww, this is how people fail exams.shoot! when did u see me post that d second one was my intial title of my topic??. please go see an eye doctor. u bet am educated. If i wasn't, i might have actually taken u seriously when u are really not makin' any points. anywayz, let's keep postin', it's fun or does any of these really affect me?/ NO!!oya, say smthin', jare. |
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mamaput (f)
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people seem to forget that in Nigeria the women still have househelps.
and its only a part if at all of their income they bring into the house.
If the car breaks down on the road any average Nigerian woman will just go home with taxi and ask her husband to go and pick the car.
but every woman has to know the man she is picking.
what of when armed robbers come the women hide and men protect the house(or do they hide also?)
any woman thatwahts help from her husband will have to know how to ask
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I-man (m)
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@Topic
Nigerian men are not anything Nigerian women aren't. . . .they are of the same stock.
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chiogo (f)
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@Topic
Nigerian men are not anything Nigerian women aren't. . . .they are of the same stock.
ok, at least u went straight to d point. |
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sweetonyx (m)
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well chiogo guess what,am with ma wify rite now and she tinks ur the one whose bein utterly insentitive.despite all posts on this thread bout ur generalising da issue,u stil de argue, gosh ur difficult  |
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chiogo (f)
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well chiogo guess what,am with ma wify rite now and she tinks your the one whose bein utterly insentitive.despite all posts on this thread bout your generalising da issue,u stil de argue, gosh your difficult |
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predi (m)
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wu re u to close session in this parliament, when madam speaker never wan step down, don't try it again @ sweetonx
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chiogo (f)
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lol, keep d jokes comin'. y'all think am takin' all these seriously??, believe it or not, u're lyin' because i really don't care!!
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subice (m)
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Hey people, this is just a forum, no need to get all personal. There's been a deviation from the intended discussion. Anything else is not helpful. You've all made your points.  |
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predi (m)
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lernin from ones mistakes and aceptin it makes us grow faster, no matter ow yung we may be-like the oda guy sed, nigerian men are the same as dia women. can anyone c d madam speaker syndrome in this yung girl? i can't imagin u in d house as speaker, ur own go worse o!
@mamaput
can i come and marry one of yur daughters, because i knw dey don't have a choice dan to listen to dia sweet moda.
@poster
wisdom ehn! is not sold, its acquired!!!!! i still say, lern from ur elders and mom's in this parliament
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presido1 (m)
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what of when armed robbers come the women hide and men protect the house(or do they hide also?)
Ask them, we go take head collect bullet for them yet them go still dey bash us. For this anyday way arm rubber come ma house i go send her to confront them make i hide under the bed with ma pikin them. Chei this scenero go be fun ooooh |
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sweetonyx (m)
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chiogo my daugther,watever it is that kips u goin?wel id say i admire ur spirit, but truthfully,naija men are definately not lazy
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chiogo (f)
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chiogo my daugther,watever it is that kips u goin?wel id say i admire your spirit, but truthfully,naija men are definately not lazy
Thank u. now, u're talkin'. That was all i needed from d other peeps , a 'yes or no" with points to back it up but what did i get?/ insults. what i even posted has absolutely nothin' to do with me, just what i noticed. Thanks, now u're graspin' things.
Thank you, nairaland folks for d comments and insults. I think i'm done now, it was nice meetin' y'all. at least, am popular now  |
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presido1 (m)
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@chiogo is that your plan to whine us and become popular i can see.
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oshoyombo (m)
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@J-Girl
u sure need a nigerian dude in ur life, believe me u can go all the way with them and u won't regret it.
and u can get naija guys who are not just caring, sensitive, hardworking, but who support the one and only MANCHESTER UNITED!!!!
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davidylan (m)
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another opportunity for little girls to slander their men. please its a free world, there are white boys out there. marry them. I hear they are very sensitive and will carry you and your bags sef when u go shopping.
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chiogo (f)
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I thought i was done. oops, Davidylan, for someone as smart as i thought u were, u sound pretty corny right now.@chiogo is that your plan to whine us and become popular i can see.
nah, it just happened by accident! 
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j-girl (f)
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@ oshoyombo - lol, that's not going to happen - that combination doesn't exist. @ davidylan - little girls slandering their men? lol. This is hilarious. |
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omoge (f)
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david, always there to make me laugh  there are white boys out there. marry them. I hear they are very sensitive and will carry you and your bags sef when u go shopping.
it would be nice to help your lady push the cart, carry things, etc while you both shopping now eh  . some nig family i stayed with during hols do help (from what i saw) maybe because i was there |
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prince_onx
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Meeeeeeeennnnnn naija guys/men I never knew you guys are this SENSITIVE! look at all that responses in just one wrongly asked question!
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FKseun (m)
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You never see anything! You are talking about carrying load? Well, I guess you are not a Nigerian. Visit some villages in Bayelsa, the women do fend for the family (fishing & farming) while the men drink ogogoro and play 'draft' while she's gone. My friend, certain things are peculiar to certain people. In india, the women pay the bride price (bridegroom price?). Check out the rate at which husbands kill their wives in the western world, is it comparable to africa? Why don't you copy that one? A lot of men and women cohabit and have children without being married in the western world, why don't you recommend that for africans? Do we call our women bitches in africa? You know what? Some of we blacks just want to be whiter than the whites. You would need a lot of concentrated acid to take you a bit near being white because bleaching creams won't do it. Just wake up Mr. Perfection.
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wham (m)
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Is This your Dream man?
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T@meD0 (m)
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lol, keep d jokes comin'. y'all think am takin' all these seriously??, believe it or not, u're lyin' because i really don't care!!
Chiogo, from your opening statement you did sound like you were generalizing that all Nigerian men are either or insensitive. I can understand why so many were jumping you on here. On the other hand, you seem to have handled yourself well. Mamaput made some valid points, so did other posters. Maybe the guy was indeed engrossed with all the fascinating sites at the mall like a poster stated. As a naija man, we no dey hide our amazement especially coming from naija and visiting for the first time. Just because you witnessed the occurence does not necessarily mean every single Nigerian man is the same. Peace! |
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naija_diva (f)
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another opportunity for little girls to slander their men. Please its a free world, there are white boys out there. marry them. I hear they are very sensitive and will carry you and your bags sef when u go shopping. shoot i'll marry them too if they going to carry my bags and act more sensitive. |
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chiogo (f)
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haha, girl, u're somethin' else. u tell 'em.i gotta go, gil. see ya.
@T@medo, thanks.
see, d irony of this whole thin' is that i never said i had a problem with naija dude or that american dudes were better but trust naija folks to always take things personally. Like really, come to think of this, this happened to "relatives" like i said and i already forgot about d whole incident but 2 days ago, it just crossed my mind and i was crackin' up 'cause i remebered how stressed d lady looked carrying all those stuff.
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