Why Do Girls I Date Hardly Ever Seem To Give Me The Benefit Of Doubt?

Why Do Girls I Date Hardly Ever Seem To Give Me The Benefit Of Doubt?

Hi sweet girls and guys, i've got an issue that needs some candid advice.

i can't still seem to understand why ladies profess their love & affection 2 me, yet find it hard to put some level trust in me. I believe r/ship should be 'bout that, u know. They believe i keep several girls, and dump 'em  @ my leisure.

- met this chic months after i mutually parted with ma girlfriend (she relocated last yr). though she liked me, spend gr8t time with me, but still seem to be indifferent 'bout our r/ship. can't just explain why. tried talkn it over with her, still.

- girl B, claims she loves me, yet what she does whenever we spend time 2gether is to check my phone 4 text messages. she always teases me about my carryn numerous chics, didn't find all these funny @ all. and though i show her i care very much, she has never given me a chance to prove how faithful i am.

another girl bluntly put it to me that she sceptical giving her heart to me because i won't tell her such a "ugly-lookn" guy like me does not have more than 2 babes at a time. was just dumbfounded.

i really want to stick to one girl, and give ma best to d r/ship, but with way most of 'em r just treatn me doesn't help at all.
girls and guys what do i do?   

@ don jazzie,

Thanks for your candid advice. am grateful

cheers!

It's up to u to  prove them otherwise.Just remain yourself

 Well i would say that u kind of have an air of a play boy hanging around u and maybe u keep too many girls hanging around u just clear off some and see the difference

because you're not good in bed - Mr.

, Trust??
You have to earn it and how?

let your "yes" be your "yes" and your "no" be your "no"

initially they may not like it as some may say your are being blunt

don't tell them what they want to hear but the truth because that is the problem with some guys, they end up telling ladies only what they want to hear and one lie will definitely lead to another and some day after the pack of lies have grown so huge, it will crumble

but Truth, no matter now bitter it is in the short term, is sweet in the long run

surely over time they will love you for it and not only that TRUST YOU
good luck man

womaniser,  not the man of my dream 

no, really am not a womaniser. don't even enjoy double-dating at all. thats the fact.

well thanks for all your candid views so far.

cheers y'all.

u must be a play boy because u can't tell these girl u have dated, that non  of them was good, that mean u as a person u have question mark on your fore-head.

Eddie u be champion o! keep walking you'l get to your destination someday, as in, the right  girl will show up.  it's just a matter of time. work on yourself though!

@poster
_{Check your philandereing lifestyle.}

wonders shall never end!
I hope someone knows about the 4 letter acronym that starts with a capital A!

   Bros,It happens like that sometimes. My candid advice for you is to check yourself and start doing something that will make right girls to believe in you.I promise you with time it'll be the thing of the past and your right Babe will walk in.

Women want to feel secure about their future with a guy. . . at least to some extent. She knows you can't promise her forever but at least promise her today and tomorrow and that would be aiit. So try and build up trust in your relationship.

Personally, I can't date a guy that I know or suspect has a girl(s) at the side.

My brother, it is understandable, you see i pray that God Almighty should save our soul from girls of nowadays, did i hear you say amen? They (Girls) are not trustworthy that is why they find it difficult to trust their boyfriends. However just keep on searching, God 'll make away, probably you need to add a little fasting to your prayers. But please don't come near my GIRLFRIEND because i'm watching her closely. Me self no trust am.

Eddie, I know how it feels as I am facin the same problem.
Ladies donot just trust guys that they know can easily have another lady if he wishes! I think the problem they have is insecurity and they find it had to love you with their whole heart.
Man it really hurts when you are not trusted, I personally donot double date either and  I believe you when you said so about yourself.
I am not a playboy but the ladies have dated had one point in time told me yemi you are a player, but I keep telling them I am not and would never been one, as it does not pay being a player at all.
Eddie, someone somewhere is facin the same problem just like you.
It been really tough brother, I pray we find a lady that would trust us and believe us for word.
I have always been a man of my words.