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Frankies (m)
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@ poster
I hope the girls you are talking about are not lay abouts like almond joy.You know fools like that seem to suspect their guys even when they did nothing.
If you need further lesson on that ,maybe we will be on one to one to tell you how to know sluts like almondjoy. I have knew how to avoid them before I got married ,so I know all their antics.
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Emad (f)
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@ poster
There must be something about you
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pin4eva (m)
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Guy,
It is natural, girls don’t always belief handsome guys like you has only a girl by there side.
Presently, I am into the same shit. But the difference with us is that I am a shy type so I can't toast a girl ( I do that when I don’t mean it……….just to flatter the person).
I have asked thousands of questions about this but have gotten only one best answer from my younger sister. She said “no girl will belief me because they believes that handsome guys are hard to come by, so they are not doubting me but they are doubting themselves” She told me they always say “wow…….this guy………? I am not sure this guy is telling me the truth, how can he leave all the beautiful girls around and choose a thing like me………? Men, is most be lying to me.
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NaJa HaJe (f)
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I am very proud of my male Nairalanders.
@poster
To add to what has been expressed I think you should give them a reason to trust you. Be open with them and be transparent with them.
Having said that you will need to know the difference between transparency and utter stupidity.
Transparency comes with strong commitment.
Good luck babe.
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Eddie4real (m)
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want to 2 say a big thank u to all of ya who 've contributed so far 2 this post. am so grateful 4 all ya adivice. absolutely taken.
@ Frankies,
thanks so much pal. u ought not 2 give a hoot 'bout what some folks put down, u know. don't take it personal.
dey r simply immature.
cheers y'all.
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Emad (f)
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before u go one thing though, Try this Girls like lies, may be u tell too muc of the truth  |
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Eddie4real (m)
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@ Emad
@ poster There must be something about you
nd what's it if i may ask? cheers!
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Emad (f)
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may be a little too honest may be too good to be true senario try telling a fews stories it works beleive me |
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pin4eva (m)
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I think being truthful or honest is completely out of the story, they will still not give u a chance to be honest.
The big problem is, YOU ARE TOO H A N D S O M E.
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Emad (f)
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The big problem is, YOU ARE TOO H A N D S O M E.
hummmmmmmm |
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sammyjl (f)
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 Hmmm, pity i don't know how u look like in order to say that perharps you're too cute and your girls are always insecure. Or maybe there are just too many women coming your way and therefore your girl/s feel that hmmm, he has many of us.
But don't worry trust is earned, so show your girl that she is the only one, atleast show her respect.
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Eddie4real (m)
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@pin4eva, i sometimes wonder if it really got something to do with looks u know. peps do say so, but i've never @ any point in time put that into cognisance, believe me.
@sammyjl, Trust is earned really, so i've got to build that.
cheers y'all!
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sagacious (f)
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Provider you trust your self ,with time she will trust you.
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pin4eva (m)
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@pin4eva, i sometimes wonder if it really got something to do with looks u know. peps do say so, but i've never @ any point in time put that into cognisance, believe me.
@sammyjl, Trust is earned really, so i've got to build that.
cheers y'all!
It has alot to do with the looks, check yourself can't u c you're too handsome for some of the girls u try to date? |
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dagashini
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some ladies believe when they start feeling insecured about a guy is when they start loving him, it takes a lot of understanding to distinguish love from insecurity.It's normal for ladies to feel insecured;it adds to your pep as guy.
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gntsomeonu
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The is the same situation i face. Girls hardly seem to trust that i don't date more than 1 girl and this has actually boosted my ego into dating several ladies.
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Eddie4real (m)
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@ dagashini,
you're really quite right 'bout that. I think it mostly got to do with them feeln insecure. that was cool though.
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ToyinOni (f)
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Did you ever bother to ask her why she checks your message or phone anytime you are together? Au are u so sure she doesnt trust you? Are those things enough reasons for you to think she doesnt trust you? Why don't you sit her down and tell her how you feel about your complains and lets see her reaction. She did say she loves you right? Then lets see waz up.
Another thing is that do you treat her well? Do you make her realise what she means to you?
I can tell you from experience that when"some" ladies check phone its not as if they don't trust their guys. At least I can say that about myself.
anyway i wish you the very best you really have to make up your mind, she truly may just love.
TALK THINGS OUT WITH HER. I'm talking from experience
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babycool (f)
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@ POSTER probably keep a lot of female friends and you flirt a lot with them  |
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Gbemyte (f)
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u sef u be play boy y u go dey change girls as if they re cloths? u don't ve to complain check yourself. Change your ways then u ll see your heart desire.
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ozigbo (m)
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Benefit of Doubt bro's no be 2 Day.
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ozigbo (m)
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Benefit of Doubt bro's no be 2 Day.
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Jonnyville (m)
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sum people seems 2 be sayin that u are 2HANDSOME and that cud be the reason why they (girls) doubt
Pray! do they realy kno what u look like?
Possibly a "BaBoon"
The Problem cud be that u tell 2 many lies. PERIOD
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Hotepo (m)
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Okay ma own point is simple, quit girl for a while then you will be able to determin if the rotten egg is in your on kitchen. u copy?
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FactorChic (f)
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Check yourself!
Make her trust you!
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